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All you need is love. But what is love? There are many aspects to it, teenage love is the most intense, changing from day to day, constantly unsure, then as you grow it becomes better known and less spontaneous. Romeo and Juliet is a play about love, and the many aspects of it, including teenage love, contractual love, protective love, and the very opposite of love, hatred.
Teenage love has no certain meaning, but It is a romantic and sexual love. It is being attracted to someone, but you never really understand how you feel. Teenagers are just trying to figure themselves out. In the play Romeo and Juliet the main characters, Romeo and Juliet, meet and instantly fall in love. It is a reckless love of course, because despite their families feuding, …show more content…
It is shown when Paris asks Juliet’s father to let him marry her, and nobody cares how she feels about it, they force her to marry him. Though Paris may not love Juliet contractually, he may actually think he loves her, Juliet would have had to love Paris contractually until she developed feelings for Paris, if she developed feelings for Paris. “Hang thee, young baggage! disobedient wretch! I tell thee what: get thee to church o' Thursday, Or never after look me in the face: Speak not, reply not, do not answer me;” (Act III, Scene …show more content…
But not in this play so much, this paly shows the hate between two families and how it can tear people apart. It helped to show how much power love can have over a person. Even after Romeo killed Juliet’s beloved cousin, she loved him anyway, rather than hating him. But hate ruins them in other ways, because of the hate between their families, they couldn’t truly be together, but they tried so hard anyway, that they died for it. “Where be these enemies? Capulet! Montague! See, what a scourge is laid upon your hate, That heaven finds means to kill your joys with love. And I for winking at your discords too Have lost a brace of kinsmen: all are punish'd.” (Act V, Scene III) Hate took away the joy of the people in this play, it tore them apart so very

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