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Frank Brumfield
May 12th 2012
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A Harsh Lesson
Over the sound of my head throbbing a monotone techno song steadily gets louder. The song itself annoyed me, so I reached over to turn off my car stereo. After the song stopped I slowly opened my eyes, fighting against the pain of the headache. As my vision slowly came back into focus I noticed that I wasn’t sitting horizontally, as you would normally sit in a vehicle. Instead I was hanging vertically still strapped into the car seat by the seatbelt. The windshield was almost completely destroyed. It was only being held together by the layer in the glass that kept it from shattering. I looked towards the passenger seat, which was down from where I was. My friend James was unconscious and bleeding profusely from the side of his head that had impacted the passenger side window. My head was still ringing, but I knew that I had to wake him up so I reached towards him and started shaking him and yelling his name. His older brother, Michael, had not been knocked unconscious by the crash and he was kicking through the back windshield to get out of the car. The car only had two doors, so the only way out was through the back windshield. I managed to wake James, but he was too dazed to respond to me. Michael eventually managed to kick out the back windshield and ran around to the front of the car, which was laying on its right side. With a few strong kicks he shattered the front windshield, unbuckled James from his seatbelt, and pulled him out of the car. Since I knew that Michael would be able to take care of James I grabbed the outside of the driver’s side door, unbuckled my seatbelt, and pulled myself out of the driver’s side window. I was still dazed and dizzy and a loud ringing filled my ears. I couldn’t steady myself on the side of the car and fell off the side hitting the ground. Somehow I managed to drag myself to the side of the road where Michael was trying to get James to respond to him. The air was cold, but there was no wind. I looked back towards the car to try and assess the damage. The care was a 1995 Ford Thunderbird and was silver in color. All I could see from the road was the bottom of the car, but from the vegetation that had been taken down from the car it looked as if we had rolled through the air for about 30 feet before crashing. After a few moments the friend that we were going to see, Nick, drove up the road behind us. He came skidding to a stop in his red pickup truck and jumped out of the car. This was fortunate because he had left for his house before we did but apparently had somewhere to go in town before he came home. He came over to me first and I was able to give him a quick summary of what happened. He ran over to check on Michael and James and then sped off down the road towards his house to use the phone and call an ambulance. As I lay down at the side of the road fighting against the excruciating pain in my lower back I managed to piece together what had happened to us. I and two of my friends, James and Michael, had been going out to another friend’s house to play some video games. He lived out in the country, so we had been going down a secluded gravel road. It was near the end of December and the road was almost completely covered in snow and ice. The sky above us was overcast and a slight snow was falling. Back then we were just a bunch of rowdy kids. James and I were 16, and Michael was 17. We were smoking marijuana while driving out to see our friend, so our judgment was most likely impaired. We were listening to a techno band called Eiffel 65 on the car stereo and were cracking jokes about random things. I was driving at about 50 miles per hour, which was well beyond a safe speed, and as we came up over a small bridge the front right tie rod snapped under the pressure of the car coming down on the shocks. As the right tire caved inward it spun the car in a 180 degree circle and slammed it into a concrete post at the side of the road. I myself don’t remember anything after that until the car had come to a complete stop, but from the police report and my experiences as the driver I was able to figure out what had happened. The speed from the impact sent the car rolling through the air and after about 7 rotations it slammed into a tree and came to a stop on its right side. If we had not been buckled in, then most likely James and I would have died from being tossed around inside the car. While Michael only suffered from minor cuts and bruises James and I were in a much more serious condition. James had a severe concussion and was bleeding profusely from the side of his head. He ended up with 13 staples in his head to close the wound. I had to stay in the hospital overnight due to internal injuries and lower spine damage. I had plenty of time to think things over while I was in the hospital. If my head had been clear I could have avoided the entire accident. When the tire first caved in and the car began its 180 degree spin I panicked and slammed on the brakes. The direction that the car had gone due to the tire combined with the brakes locking up on snow and ice is what threw the car completely around and slammed it into the pole. Since my head was clear while I was in the hospital I was able to figure out fairly quickly that if I had just remained calm and guided the car to the right side without touching either the brake or the accelerator it would have ditched the car. It probably would have damaged the right side somewhat, but that outcome would have been much better than what had already occurred. This incident is what made me give up drugs and, to this day, remain cautious while driving on snow and ice. I almost killed two of my best friends and destroyed my favorite car, which I had just gotten for Christmas, so I came to a life changing realization and decided to change my ways so that nothing like that would happen again.

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