Despite the professional success that Alvin had gained, his personal life was deluged with difficulties. Though his proclivities were always something he was open about, it was not the same case when it came to his personal relationships, he seemed to be uncomfortable with his sexuality. He was in romantic relationship for several years, with a young white schoolteacher who helped manage the dance company. Thereafter, Ailey spent his time socializing in gay bars. He had many short-term relationships with young men who his friends felt took advantage of his generosity. He suffered from bipolar disorder, which worsened over time, as did his drinking and drug use.
Alvin Ailey died on December 1, 1989 at the age of 58. In order to spare his mother