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A letter is a way to express feelings in written form. Whether delivered by hand, mail, pigeon or romantically left in a secret location, the letter may be anything from a short and simple message of love to a lengthy explanation of feelings. Letters may move through the widest range of emotions - devotion, disappointment, grief and indignation, self-confidence, ambition, impatience and resignation. It is personal and that means of, affecting, or belonging to a particular person rather than to anyone else.

Why? If this letter is personal then why do I have to broadcast this letter that is meant to you? I am just a lady who mockingly says to everyone that I don’t want to break promises. Also, as much as I could, I want to stand up for what I have said and what I believe in. Sadly, I do not do that as much. I am a lady who knows how to figure out problems in the world beside mine and that’s ironic.

It has been a roller coaster year and I hope you will forgive me for being too indecisive. I opened myself up to love. To love a person who reflects me, who exhibited the ideal man criterion every woman craved for when they were young but I ended up being taken for granted and I was hurt badly. From then on, I closed myself up again. I protected myself because I refuse to be hurt again even if it means I have to be the one doing the hurting. I became the most selfish person. I have been entering and leaving the room just like I’m jumping up and down. It is fast but you know what? It is tiring too.

We are like a car on travel. We move forward and then reach a certain point then we would stop the engine. We will start it again. Afterwards, I’ll ask you to turn the engine off. I will leave the car then I’ll go back and ask you to go home with me again and you will, every single time. But halfway, either one of us will start a fight over what direction are we going to take. It is too complex. Isn't it?

We are like this open letter. It is not closed, not yet ended. One thing is I know for sure; maybe things are not yet over because something is meant to happen or maybe because we have to finally end it.

I do not want to end it. If you've noticed this past month, which I’m certain you did not, I have been trying to do everything to show you how much I want things to work out. I was too clingy and needy and all that but I always end up getting “What are we? What is this?” Just as what someone said, “Definitions are important.” I do not want to define it; I want you to define it. You know what; I can’t blame you if you don’t want to as I've messed you up just because of my selfish reasons.

“DO NOT TALK TO HIM, YOU’RE THE GIRL”
But they say, never give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration you cannot go wrong. You will never go wrong. I’m halfway gone. I will just let this letter let you decide and let you do the remaining things that are needed to do. I'm giving up not because I don't feel that thing towards you but because I'm tired figuring things out, I'm tired of getting hurt and I feel like you don't care as much as before and as I do now.

This is an open letter with a pack of audience for you to really believe the things I’ll be saying this time.

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