She found how right Arlen was early on into her transformation, called out on a carpet just for entering a lady's room to relieve herself during an airport layover while traveling. Many such incidences occurred in those days, too, and often. One of the worst of them is when Stacey’s brother Christopher called Stacey’s ex-wife Joan, who called their daughter Alene. She, in turn, got word to her father that grandfather Ferguson, whom she never met, had died. Stacey had to fly back for his funeral. The whole affair turned out disastrous. Being a transgender was secondary, but added plenty of ammunition for venomous attacks by the surviving family members. Forgotten was the abuse that his sister Ann and brother Christopher suffered at the hands