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BACH NGUYEN
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02, 25, 09
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A Good Father in the Pursuit of Happyness
Every film more or less has impact to audience depending on which type of film and the awareness of each person. The Pursuit of Happyness is a nice movie which shows the regular social issues. It presented the good results that a man got by his great effort in his hard working. Love and trust between father and son is also the dynamics that lead to his motivation to succeed in his life. Through the content of this film, the interactions between Chris and his son impressed me so much. In my opinion, Chris Gardner was a good father through the ways that he acted with his son generally.
After watching the movie, it was hard to ignore that he was a responsible father. He really cared about his son’s environment which Christopher communicated with because Chris did not want his son to get the information which did not fit with Christopher’s age. For example, when he saw some bad words on the wall next to the place where Christopher got day-care, he asked the street cleaner to erase them due to being afraid of his son’s seeing. In addition, he told his son to forget the bad words that Christopher had seen on the wall. He also complained the baby-sister after hearing his son retelling his watching a movie which was unsuitable with a child at her day-care home. Anther aspect shows Chris’ love with his son as a father’s obligation when his wife left her family. He wanted to take care of Christopher since he knew that his wife would force many obstacles if she took their son to go with her and her taking care of their son may not be well as Chris. Indeed, his wife agreed Chris raising their child after they had talked together. This event proves his wife believed his responsibility in bringing up their son. With the role of a father, Chris was not only an obligated father but also an intelligent one.
Also,he was smart at interaction with his son. It is easy to realize this matter through his teaching his son. He advised his son that Christopher should have practiced making a plan before he got a decision. For instance, to avoid mistake in buying his son’s birthday’s present, Chris asked his son to make a list of things that he wanted to have, think of them and then choose an appropriate one. Through these steps in choosing the gift, Chris told his son the way to organize a plan to get a target. This process was so bright. It helped Christopher to gradually practice doing something according to an order. Following his directions, Christopher finally chose one that was a basketball for his birthday’s present and he was happy with it. His intelligence also was demonstrating by the way that he encouraged Christopher’s learning language. He expected Christopher to know how to spell the words that his son spoke. Surprisingly, his son had a good reflection to Chris; he seemed to know how to spell almost all of them as he answered his father. In addition, at one point in the baseball field, Chris said to his son, “you want something. You go get it. Period.” These sentences were so short but have many deep meanings. In my own thought, with these messages, he conducted his son not to be afraid of and try to pursue the goal that his son wanted. With the educational ways above, Chris was a clever person and his son was too. In fact, Christopher replied his father that he was Chris’ son. In some scenes in this movie, also, Chris was humorous and optimistic when interacting with his son.
Through the difficult situations that Chris encountered, he presented a humorous and optimistic person. His characteristics helped him overcome his obstacles. They happened not only in his work but also in his communication with his son. With his humor, all of my classmates had to laugh when we saw the discussion between Chris and his son about the way that they had discussed two words: possibly and probably. Again, Christopher imitated his father when he talked with Chris’ customer. Because of being an optimistic person, Chris made an imagination at train station in the evening after he and his son had been kicked out of home. To sympathize with his father at that moment, Christopher imagined about the happening of dinosaurs that his father had created. Both of them came to the rest room, the “cave”, to hide dinosaurs. This rest room was used as the shelter for them when they were roaming without place to sleep. These characteristics helped Chris and his son to forget their situation, be happier and pass over their hard circumstances.
Besides the above-mentioned points, I do not agree one case that Chris behaved with his son. This event occurred in the first time they became homeless. At that time, their stuff was placed on the corridor outside their room and Christopher wanted to come in their room, but the landlord had changed the door’s lock. He told his father that he wanted to get in but Chris acted without thinking. He grabbed Christopher’s collar with his hands and yelled to his son. Although his son shouted or grumbled, Chris should not have done like that. He may have found another way to solve this problem because his son did not have any fault.
All in all, Chris had many features of a good father such as responsibility, intelligence, humor and optimism. Through the interaction between Chris and his son, Christopher learnt from his father a lot. He sympathized with Chris’ deficit as he asked his father to go to the “cave” while Chris proposed to go to a hotel. Christopher loved and trusted his father so much and in the emotional periods he said to Chris,” you are a good father” and “I trust you” It was very pleasing to hear these messages. They are great awards that any parent would expect from their children.

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