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There comes a time in everyone’s life when they meet their one true love: their soul mate. The person that’s going to know and love them for the rest of their life. No has the luxury to chose that moment, if fact love tends to sneak up on you and catch you when you are most off guard.That moment came for jim less than a year ago, when he met Alice.
I guess I should introduce myself to those of you who don’t know me. My name is JD, I’m Jim’s younger brother. To be Jim’s best man is an honor for me, but it’s also very honorable of him, because he’s finally admitting to each and every one of you that I truly am the best.
I would also like to say how beautiful all of you look tonight. While Speaking of beautiful, our bride, Alice, looks absolutely stunning. I think Jim is so captivated by her beauty tonight its even making him look a little bit more handsome.
Now, for those of you who don’t know and are amongst those who do, growing up, Jim and I were polar opposites. He was academic and driven, and I was sporty and a goofball. It is, and was, because of our different but distinct personalities that we did fight... a lot. In fact, Jim was always so much stronger than me that my parents forbid him from hitting me when we got into fights. I used to take advantage of that, and I would try to torture him all the time.. I apologize for that after all these years...But we did have our good times. Playing football in the yard. Playing in the backyard on the trampoline It’s memories like these with my big brother that I’m never going to forget.
Beyond that meeting Alice was easy. She was just a good person and I felt like I could actually be myself around her. I didn’t have to try and impress her, and I love you for that. She made my brother happy in a way that I’d forgotten was possible. Around her I would catch him smiling enough to light a room. So, I want to say Alice, thank you, for making my brother’s life more meaningful and amazing, and doing it by just being yourself.
The last four years, our relationship in our brotherhood got tighter. We do still fight, of course, but for different reasons. We fight hard because we love harder. Of course there will always ahead but having a family like ours is what will always allows us to manage. I just want to let you know Jim, that I’m always on your side, I am now, and I will always be your biggest fan.
Through thick and thin, good and bad, you’re my big brother. I always look up to you and I’ve always admired you. Alice, I couldn’t be any happier that you are now part of our family. Seeing the two of you together just looks complete. I wish you nothing but happiness, love, and success for the rest of your years.
So... If you’ll join me in raising a glass to toast a happy couple, Jim and Alice. Love is a force more impressive than any other because it is invisible,but though it cannot be seen it can transform you in a moment and offer you more joy than any material possession ever could. Congratulations!!!

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