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Mark Anthiny Osting

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Mark Anthony Osting

I. Introduction
Marriage is far more profound than our contemporary culture would lead us to believe. It is a life-long commitment that restrains self-centeredness, self-indulgence and self-gratification. It is the one relationship that effectively prepares and conditions us for community. By restraining self-centeredness and promoting love of another, marriage becomes the foundation for social order. When this commitment labeled “marriage” is reduced to nothing more than a mere contract between two consenting persons, or worse just another option, it ceases to restrain our self-centered passions. Self-centeredness harms not only that relationship but also others as well until it spreads throughout society like ripples in a pond. Abandoning the “others before self” concept of marriage for the self-serving concept of contractual relationships between autonomous individuals makes us increasingly narcissistic, ultimately leading toward moral and social collapse.

II. Questions A * Where did you meet each other? * How many children do you have? * Where did you married? * Who supported to your marriage?

Answers: * Kami ay nagkakilala sa Taiwan at magkasama kami sa trabaho. Ang trabaho naming doon ay bilang English teachers. * Isa lang ang aming anak. Pangalan niya ay si Jarriet dahil sa aming panagalan na John at Harriet. Siya ay isang taon na. * Kami nagpakasal sa Antipolo kung saan nakatira si Harriet.Ikinasal kami noong May 13, 2010. * Ang sumuporta sa amin ay ang pamilya namin at mga kamag-anak naming.

English: * We meet each other in Taiwan. We both are a English teachers. * We have one child name Jarriet. He is one year old. He’s name came from our names. * We’ve been married at Antipolo where Harriet place. We’ve been married May 13, 2010. * Our parents and relative who supported on our marriage.

III. Questions B * Why marriage is important? * Do you believe at happy ending? * Why did you choose him or her to become your husband and wife? * Do you believe God is calling you to this relationship? If so, what makes you sure? * Who are the wise spiritual people who have you suite perspective and accountability? * Have you talk about money? How? Give situations. * When you were at the marriage, do feel happy? Why? * Are you nervous when you are getting marriage? * Did you propose at her? Where? * At the future are you ready to live happily at your husband and wife?

Answers: * Mahalaga ang pagpapakasal sa isa’t-isa dahil mahal mo siya. Panget naman pag mag-isa ka lang sa buhay mo. * Naniniwala ako sa happy ending dahil parang fairytales siya dahil nahanap mo na ang mahal mo sa buhay. * Napili ko si Harriet dahil siya masipag sa kanyang pagtuturo ng English. Napili ko din si John dahil masipag rin siya. * Oo, dahil dahil palagi kaming magkasama hindi niya ako sinaktan palagi niya akong binibiro at pinapasaya. * Ang mga magulang naming at mga kaibigan at kamag-anak. Sila ay importante sa oagdalo ng kasal namin. * Oo, importante din ang pera sa kasal. Dahil sa pera maayos namin ang kasal at makakabili pa kami ng mga dekorasyon. * Masaya ako sa kasal naming dalawa kasi pangarap ko din na magkaroon ng masaya na pamilya. * Hindi naman ako kinakabahan sa aming kasal. Pero masaya naman na nasa harap kami ng altar. * Oo nagpropose ako sa kanya. Nagpropose ako sa school. Maraming mag-aaral ang tumulong sa akin para magprose. * Handa kaming magsama ng habang buhay dahil mahal naming ang isa’t isa at nangako kami na hinde kami maghihiwalay.

English: * It is important to us to have a good marriage. It is not happy if you is lonely forever. * I believe in fairytales like happy ending for him because you found the love of life. * I was chosen because of her energetic Harriet his teaching of English. Also I chose John because he is also hard-working. * Yes, because we're always together because he did not hurt me I always chided him and he want me to be happy. * The parents and friends and we relatives. They are important to attend we married. * Yes, money is also important in marriage. Because of the money we fix the wedding and we can usually still decorating. * I feel happy at the wedding and we both dream to have a happy family. * I'm not nervous at our wedding. But we are happy in front of the altar. * Yes I propose her at school. Many students helped me to propose at her. * We are ready to bring a lifetime because we loved each other and promised us that we no sets.