...Deadbeat Dads Rio Salado College CFS205 Early Childhood Education October 10, 2010 “What is a deadbeat dad?” Deadbeat dads are those who are under a child support obligation who have not made the required payments. The name deadbeat dad is not use just for fathers in the state of Georgia. Deadbeat parent is actually the term that is used for Georgia. A parent with this given title chose not to be financially a supportive parent in their children’s lives. Mostly used in the United States and Canada, the gender-specific deadbeat dad and deadbeat mom are commonly used by the child support agency to refer to men and women who have fathered or mothered a child and willingly fail to pay child support ordered by a family law court or statutory agency like the Child Support Agency. (www.gabar.org, 2008) The parent who fail to receive child support payments from a deadbeat parent can report that parent to the appropriate state agency responsible for ensuring child support collections. (Roger Thorne, 2010) The process for reporting a "deadbeat" parent is the same regardless of sex. In Georgia the policy for deadbeat dads consist of several things. The deadbeat parent is placed on child support. The Georgia Department of Human Services, Division of Child Support Services (DCSS) helps children by enforcing parental responsibility to pay financial support. All Georgia families have access to Division of Child Support Services, which include assistance with locating the non-custodial...
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...expensive, fanciest cars? Who can sell the most cocaine, marijuana, heroin without getting caught? These children are brainwashed into believing that living a life of crime is a glamorous lifestyle. These uneducated children think that shooting the trigger just for excitement, robbery or the release of fury, rather than for self-defense, is the way to go. These sadistic males believe that abusing and prostituting women is the 'thuggish' style, while it's actually degrading the gender that brings life into the world. These children think that smoking weed is fun, when in the long run, it alters and destroys their cerebral systems and will lead them to being ostracized by employers, teachers, and the civilized members of society. While some deadbeat fathers spend hundreds to thousands of dollars on the latest Bathing Ape or other most fashional clothing brand and the most attractive vehicle, they somehow always manage to find an excuse as to why their child support bills are overdue. While they blindly accept that being 'gangsta' and succumbing to the criminal mindset is fun, they are virtually practing being menace to society. "Menace II Society" is a drama concerning a young man named Caine, who lived in the slums of Los Angeles, California. His grandparents and his friend's father consistently try to convince him to escape the lawbreaking lifestyle, yet Caine fails to do so and lands in more trouble as the story progresses. Caine is eighteen years old and his occupation is to...
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...I live in Washington State and it does not have a “deadbeat dad” policy per say. We do have laws that says a noncustodial parent is to pay support for a/the dependent child under the age of eighteen. The custodial parent is called the “oblige” and is the one who gets the support for the dependent. The noncustodial parent is the one who pays support and they are called the “obliger”. “Child Support” is money paid by a parent to a party taking care of the children (usually, the other parent) to help support the children. A parent has a legal duty to help support his/her children. The court’s main concern in setting child support is to make sure that your children have enough money to meet their needs. Support is for clothes and food, to give the children a place to live (rent/mortgage and utilities) and have decent daycare and medical care. If the parents do not have enough money to meet the children’s needs, the court also takes into account parents’ ability to pay. A stepparent also has a legal duty to help support his/her stepchildren until a divorce from the child’s parent is final or until there is a court order ending the stepparent’s obligation. The parent usually must pay child support monthly. So what does it mean to be a deadbeat dad? There are plenty of fathers who do not pay child support because they simply choose not to, leaving their children and their children’s mother in a lurch. There are fathers who are unable to comply with child support orders because...
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...Jeanne Cox Legal Research and Writing IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF ALLEGHENY COUNTY PENNSYLVANIA John Smith FAMILY DIVISION Plaintiff V Amanda Smith Defendant MEMORANDUM ISSUE Our Client, John Smith wishes to file a modification of child custody giving him full physical custody of his children, Joshua age 6 and Taylor age 3, in response to his former wife’s petition for relocation to Michigan. RULE With any child custody case, including petitions for modification, the paramount concern is the best interests of the child. Johns v. Cioci, 865 A.2d 931, 936 (Pa. Super. 2004). ARGUMENT The Parties were married on June 19,1998 and as a result of that union, their two minor children, Joshua age 6 and Taylor age 3 were born. The parties were separated April 4, 2006 because of the mothers infidelity. The current custody order was put into effect July 9, 2006 giving full physical custody to the mother with shared legal custody and visitation for the father. The mother has filed a motion for relocation to Michigan to live with her current boyfriend that she met on the Internet. In June of 2006, she met him in person for the first time herself and her children. She frequently takes the children to Michigan to visit her boyfriend and his family. She also insists that the children call the boyfriends mother grandma. The boyfriend, BJ Rodriguez, raises pit bulls for breeding purposes and dog fighting...
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...How To Find A Deadbeat Dad Comes To An End One of the basic component in a society to be fully labeled as society is the family. The household is composed of a mother, a father, and children. Whatever values and actions that parents exhibits to their children is an enormous impact to them. When a kid notices that his parents possess an undesirable behavior, there is a greater percentage that the child will follow the actions. Human beings are fully aware that in order to have a family, love and care should be in it. Unexpectedly, there are parents who breaks down into a horrid path. Daddies who have been a hero for a child evolves into a villain. Questions consumes the minds of those who have been left behind. How to find a deadbeat dad is...
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...Passport, Imprisonment, Wage Garnishment. Military single parents who fail to pay child support face severe penalties for child support non payment. However, the penalties differ for military single parents versus civilian parents. One potential penalty for military single parents is dismissal from military service. If a non-custodial parent, charged with child support non-payment, moves to a different state to avoid child support payments, he or she may be be convicted of a federal offense under the Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act. In order to secure a conviction under the Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act, the federal government must prove: The non-custodial parent had the ability to pay child support, The non-custodial parent failed to pay child support, Child support has not been paid for at least a year, The non-custodial parent owes more than $5000 of child support. The government maintains a list of parents negligent in child support payments, sometimes referred to as deadbeats....
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...immediately kicked in and I almost replied back “Whenever you think you’re ready.” However knowing this is probably another one of those sensitive subjects for him concerning his daughter, whom he has raised alone since soon after her birth, I figured I better answer seriously. I responded “Whenever she’s comfortable.” As usual he replied “Ok, Just thought I’d ask.” You see my friend is one of the many men that have challenged the stereotype that has been placed upon them of being absentee or dead beat fathers once their relationship ends with the mothers. This is proving to no longer be status quo. You see I have several male friends who are raising their children, mostly girls, alone. Thus we now have a growing number of “absentee or deadbeat” mothers in our society. According to new data from the U.S. Census Bureau, there is a significant rise in the number of single fathers raising kids. Specifically, the census data shows that the rise in families led by single fathers has outpaced the rise in single-mother families for the first time since 1970. Today, there is an increase of 14 percent of single-dad households. The number of single-mother households only increased by roughly 3.2 percent in the past 10 years. Gone are the days of family court automatically granting custody to the mother just because “That’s the way it’s always been.” Fathers are now challenging and exercising their parental rights. They are now demanding the opportunity to make a real difference in the...
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...What clues lead you to this conclusion? The author to the article is making a joke out of how dropping out of high school will inevitably make them unemployed and how the school system is not preparing them for the reality of life, surely to fail those who drop out. A clue that lead me to this conclusion is when the author quotes Margaret Spellings, who said, “easy grading encourages students to be sloppy and late handing in homework- a skill that makes future deadbeats very competitive in stone walling landlords and bill collectors” emphasizing on the mockery of the school systems. What rhetorical strategies does the writer use to achieve this satire? List them, and explain how each is used. Sarcasm - Sarcasm is a primary rhetorical strategy used to achieve the satire. For instance, when the author states, “Chao also suggested that schools hold more blood drives, which would prepare dropouts for visits to their local blood-plasma donation centers for quick and easy cash,” they are mocking how many dropouts are ‘deadbeats’ who only know one way on making cash without putting in effort. The author quotes many people in authority in the school system, such as Labor Secretary Elaine Chao, appealing to ethos, convey although this story has credibility. Irony - Irony also plays a large part on the effective satire. It is used when quoting Susan French, a spokesperson for the National Education Association, when she says, "Students spend seven hours a day surrounded by adults who...
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...How is a black man able to overcome the stereotypical ways of today’s society? In “Daddy’s Little Girls” a mechanic name Monty, was facing difficulties trying to gain custody of his three daughters. The problems he faced were because of certain stereotypes labeled to being a black man. Today black males are constantly confronted by stereotypes such as being a deadbeat dad, can’t hold a steady job and being misunderstood. First of all as a black woman of four children I have witnessed what a deadbeat dad is. My children fathers was a do nothing, wouldn’t give anything type of dad. My son almost had a child but, the young lady lost it. That doesn’t make him a dead beat. In “Daddy’s Little Girls” Monty was faced with being labeled as a unfit parent. The mother of his three little girls told lies to the judge to try and keep him away from his children. The lies consist of; Monty not having a job, he wasn’t fit to be a father. So with the judge breathing down his neck, he had nowhere to turn based on the color of his skin. Not being able to hold a steady job is a stereotype that I believe at least one black male experiences everyday here in the USA. Monty, who is a black male, also a father of three can relate. The reason why is, because of what his children mother say’s to him and about him almost every day. She consistently argue’s with him about not having a job and about maintaining a steady job even though he already have one. No matter what he neither does nor did it wasn’t...
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...Father’s Rights Anthony McCauley COMM/215 November 10, 2010 Darcy Vernier Father’s Rights Divorced men or men from a failed domestic relationship that produced children are not properly represented by the courts or the court of public opinion. These fathers are prone to labeling as deadbeat dads or uncaring fathers by virtue of separation from their children. The majority of the separation from their children is no fault of their own, but because of geography and financial limitations. In the majority of child custody hearings, the mother is always favored. This is regardless of her parenting ability or her financial ability to support the children. According to the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS), nearly 75% of all child custody awards are made to the mother. Only about 10% of child custody awards are made to fathers. The rest of the child custody awards involve some sort of joint custody arrangement. Recent Census Bureau child custody statistics also indicate that nearly 40% of all noncustodial fathers have no access to or visitation rights with their children (Child Custody Coach, 2008). This is not the law but once again the judges ruling on the side of what has become social commonplace. Many fathers would love to have custody of their children. This parental right appears to have been taken away from them except in extreme and clearly defined examples of an unfit mother. In cases when both parents can care for the...
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...sales were $1 million, August sales were precisely zero. As Bartmann puts it, it was as if a hand had reached out from 10,000 miles away and turned off the faucet. He snaps his fingers: "It was just that quick." And so, once the company's assets had been auctioned off at yard-sale prices, Bartmann found himself in that most dreaded of entrepreneurial circumstances: ensnared in his personal guarantees, more than $1 million in debt. That's when the telephone calls started. Surly collection agents rang at all hours of the day and night, promising lawsuits, hurling insults, demanding money the family didn't have. Bartmann's 7-year-old daughter, Jessica, once fielded a call. "Your dad's not there, huh?" the voice growled. "Well, you tell that deadbeat if he doesn't pay his bill, we're going to repossess his car." As the collectors appeared friends and business associates seemed to vanish. "It was like they were all made of smoke on a windy day," Bartmann says. "People who...
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...i Am from the i hate you's and the i love you's I am from the missing sound of my barking dog, max whose death still touches my heart. I am from Barbies, Polly Pockets and Hide n seek from playing with my best friend the other half of me i am from having the best siblings i could have asked for I am from past and present And dreams of the future. I am from having a deadbeat dad who does not know how to support a family to having a step dad and mom, and there hard work and unfailing support leading me through the right path , making them my heroes I am from pretending words don’t hurt to feeling them tear me down i am from nervously awaiting a presentation to being excited for a speech meet I am from having a group of great friends and i would never trade them for the world i am from growing up watching phil of the future and neds declassified to watching a reality tv show i will never miss i am from being here right this moment and not dwelling in the past i am from being a growing independent teenager to still needing my parents to help for more than i thought i would. i am from fighting with my twin sister one day to having her as a best friend every day after I am the present, past, and future, History in the making i am jordyn...
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...Becoming a Man. On september 11th 2013, I became the father of a beautiful baby girl. I was only 22 years old, and still very much a child myself, Now all of that had to change. As a young African Americans male, I was forced to overcome such titles as "babydaddy", and "deadbeat dad" to prove not only to the world, but to myself and more importantly to my daughter that I was more than that. I started working two jobs, I worked twelve hours at one, and eight at another. I worked day and night to make sure my daughter had the financial support that she deserved. However being a father is much more than throwing a few dollars your childs way. For the most part every bit of time I had off I spent with my daughter. I wanted to share the most important moments of her life with her, such as her first word, her first step, etc. Being a father is more than a "job"; There are no days off, instead it is more like a way of life. You have to live it, breathe it, and absorb it into your everyday life, It becomes a mentality. I've learned so many life lessons as a father. I've gained maturity, and learned to prioritize, and to take care of the things that matter most. Before I would have told you that being a father to a child was making sure they had a roof over their head, and clothes on their backs, and food to eat, but through this experience I now know it is much, much more. It is being there for them 100% with love and support, It is growing with them...
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...From the beginning to end of the novel, Huck continuously struggles with the feeling of guilt and his own moral compass. When Huck says, “so I says to myself, And this is another one that I’m letting him rob her of her money” (Twain 178), it emphasizes how even though Huck makes the mistake of not confessing the truth to Mary Jane right away, he is still maturing because he feels remorseful about his actions. Huck’s moral standards were based on what was easier for him to do: right or wrong? Nevertheless, Huck is able to comprehend what is awry with the situation and regrets his previous decisions. Furthermore, Huck learns to take the honorable path and confess, which further reinforces how he does understand that he has to do the proper thing...
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...20px background: white; box-shadow: 0 5px 5px rgba(0,0,0,0.15) z-index: 1; zoom: 1; } She Looks so Perfect Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey Simmer down, simmer down They say we're too young now to amount to anything else But look around We worked too damn hard for this just to give it up now If you don't swim, you'll drown But don't move, honey You look so perfect standing there In my American Apparel underwear And I know now, that I'm so down Your lipstick stain is a work of art I got your name tattooed in an arrow heart And I know now, that I'm so down Hey! Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey Hey! Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey Let's get out, let's get out 'Cause this deadbeat town's only here just to keep us down While I was out, I found myself alone just thinking If I showed up with a plane ticket And a shiny diamond ring with your name on it Would you wanna run away too? 'Cause all I really want is you You look so perfect standing there In my American Apparel underwear And I know now, that I'm so down I made a mix-tape straight out of '94 I've got your ripped skinny jeans lying on the floor And I know now, that I'm so down Hey! Hey, hey, hey hey Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey! Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey You look so perfect standing there In my American Apparel underwear And I know now, that I'm so down Your lipstick stain is a work of art I got your name tattooed in an...
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