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What does love even mean? It’s a word that I’ve heard and used all my life but it seems like nobody really has the same definition for it. It’s a simple four letter word so how come it’s so difficult to define and to measure and to understand. (1) Love is a powerful emotion, it’s a deep fire like passion inside of you that just can’t be controlled. (2)

When you’re in love it’s one of the most exciting, rewarding, scariest things you could possibly do. (3) It hits you like a ton of bricks, like the air just got knocked out of your lungs, like the stinging feeling on your face on a cold winter day. It could possibly be one of the most bittersweet feelings that you experience in your life. It’s like a roller coaster full of ups and downs and turns left to right making you feel sick to your stomach but it’s not always the bad kind of sick feeling it could be the good kind when you’re overfilled with happiness and all you feel is butterflies. I mean I sure felt sick to my stomach whether it was because of those little beautiful butterflies that I shamefully miss so much or the awful heart rending feeling in my gut that brought me down to almost nothing making me feel so crushed and so empty.

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I remember how he couldn't look me in the eye or simply just face me. I remember how quickly he was gone like a flash and how I was left with only a letter saying goodbye. A letter telling me how much he loves me but says it's better if we go our separate ways, saying that if we could go back to the start he wouldn't change a thing. A letter saying how great I am but saying that he has to leave, wishing me the best but taking the best thing I ever had away from me. A letter that left me alone and devastated, left me questioning my own worth and who I am as a person, it left me feeling much less than how he ever described me in the letter, it left my heart in pieces like it had just been stabbed a hundred times

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