Cayce Moore
Kulp English 11
Period 4
Alteration of a First Impression It has been said that first impressions are nearly impossible to adjust. The first impression is always a lasting impression. First impressions stand out and are usually the first thing that comes to mind when thinking of a specific person. It is true that in certain circumstances, a first impression is nearly impossible to change, but this is not always true. Time is needed as is a major event is needed in which true character is shown in order to change an opinion that has been placed. When forming a first impression most people are very unforgiving. Others may be judgmental or view themselves as a higher being than the person they are meeting because they do not understand their personality yet. It is very difficult to perceive someone’s personality correctly during the first encounter because that person may not be acting as themselves or may be shy and nervous. It is important that a solid opinion is not formed after meeting someone only once because that person may not be who they seem to be. Never the less it is apparent that a first impression is very hard to change but it can be done. Refer back to the old saying “never judge a book by its cover”. This also applies to people and first impressions. Depending on the person a first impression may be the only impression that person ever has on someone simply because they may not ever meet again or maybe because that person is too stubborn to give someone a chance. In order to alter a bias that has been set it is essential that a relationship is formed. Through a relationship opinions are generally reformed if the person seems to be a amiable or kind. Impressions may be changed through a situational process as well. True character is what shows morals and the type of person someone is. An event or events must occur that shows true character in someone. When people notice good character it is expected that their opinion may change if it was different in the beginning. It can be something as simple as helping in a fundraiser or raking a yard for an elderly person. Through moral action impressions can be shifted. First impressions are an everlasting opinion or memory of someone else. To change this opinion relationships must be develops or action must be taken to show character. We often get the wrong impression of others but that is just part of being human. The ability to notice the good and alter an impression is a large step in improving one’s morals alone.