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Christina Burgess
English
5/10/2014

My Supportive fiancé
Having a supportive fiancé, is one of gods greatest gifts to a women. People say that men aren’t supportive; however, I believe they can be supportive. It’s the matter of finding the right man for you. Everyone should have that kind of man in their life. Support can help you overcome just about anything that everyday life throws at you. My fiancé, has been my biggest cheerleader through my triumphs and setbacks. The support that I have received from Christopher has helped me overcome many challenging obstacles in my life. Three months after Chris and I started dating we had a miscarriage. It was one of the hardest times in my life, but with his support I was able to overcome the pain. It’s not just the big things that he supports. It’s also, the little things that happen in life that he supports. One day, I told Christopher I wanted to get a dog; in fact, I told him I wanted to get one that same day. He supported me and really didn’t say much. No matter what, I always receive his support.
He has supported me financially by pitching in for my school tuition and personal needs. I never thought I would go to college; however, Christopher always believed in me. At first, I wasn’t sure how I was going to work and find time to do my homework, but from the beginning Christopher has supported me working fewer hours. He encourages me to be the best person I can be all the time. I wouldn’t be where I am now if it wasn’t for Christopher being so supportive.
It took me a long time, to get where I am now. Sometimes life can be hard, but Christopher always finds some way to support me through it all. He is also very emotionally supportive. He is always considerate of my feelings. When I’m having a bad day, or overly stressed he sends me small notes to remind me that regardless of how negative my day has been I should have an optimistic outlook on life and its challenges, which is really supportive because I complain about my job a lot.
My fiancé, Christopher is one of the hardest working men I have ever known. He has worked, so hard to make something out of his life, and it means the world to me to have his support every day of the rest of my life. When growing up, we both went through the same things as children. We didn’t get support from our families. Even though he went through that stuff, he is the most supportive man in the world. My fiancé, has been the most influential person in my life. He always works hard on everything he puts his mind into. His way of being has taught me the recipe to achieving the things I want most in life. In order to be successful one must work hard, and with his support I’m able to achieve everything I’ve ever dreamed of doing.
Christopher, shows his love not by words, but by actions. He shows his love through acceptance and validation of my decisions, desires and needs. He often surprises me with candlelit dinners, flowers and cards. His love is patient and it is not arrogant. He often considers my needs before his own. He inspires more complete adoration than other men. He cooks, cleans and cares for me as much as I do. My happiness resembles how great of a fiancé he is to me, and how blessed I am to have such a great supportive and loving fiancé. My fiancé, is the most supportive, loving and caring man in the world. It never maters how big, or little the problem is I always get his support. I get more support from him, then I’ve ever got from anyone. To have the kind of support he gives me is the best in the world. I couldn’t ask for anything better. I’m lucky to have him in my life because he has supported me in the worst and the best times in my life. I couldn’t ask for a better partner to spend the rest of my life with.