...My Significant Life Event Oneekah Henderson Mr. Clinton Gortney Lithonia Campus Introduction to Psychology October 28, 2014 Strayer University My Significant Life Event My life has been filled with lots of memories, not many from my childhood, some good some bad. I feel that these compilations of events have molded me into who I am and how I react to different situations. According to Settersten and Mayer (1997) (via psyplexus.com/mhr/life_events_psychiatry.html) “A life event is a significant occurrence involving a relatively abrupt change that may produce serious and long lasting effects.” For me that event was the day a man invaded my home and shot/paralyzed my husband in front of my 2yr pol son, while I was in the adjacent room. My Biological Perspective As I was in the living room I heard people talking in the kitchen, which wasn’t a surprise, I was watching a movie after getting the older children off to school. The sound of calm voices turned into tussling followed by a loud bang and my son screaming. As I jumped up, my son ran into the room and jumped into my arms crying. I immediately ran and jumped behind the sofa, pulling it back on us to hide. My hands were shaking as I tried to dial for help, only to get put on hold and sent to voicemail. As the man entered the room looking for my son, not knowing I was in the house as well, I began to shake profusely. I put my hand over his mouth whispering to be quiet, and he did. Unable to answer to 911 callback...
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...A Major Event in my life “Thank you for taking Eva airline. This flight from Taiwan to Vancouver is landing now. Please remain seated…” a flight attendant announced. The announcement woke me up from a long sweet dream. Twelve hours earlier, I was standing in the Taiwan international airport, saying goodbye to all relatives and friends. I was standing at a foreign airport now. My whole new life to become a Canadian started in this unfamiliar city, Vancouver. My hometown, Taiwan, is a small, but crowded and beautiful island. It is very hot in everyday, and it is nearly forty degrees in the summer. We keep air-conditioners on every day. There are many interesting places to visit in Taiwan. Night market is one of the places that you must visit. Also, there are various delicious Taiwanese foods, such as bubble teas, stinky tofu…etc. I have many friends and relatives in Taiwan, so it is hard for me to leave everyone I love. This is the life I used to for fifteen years. The best city in the world for people to live in is Vancouver. It is a new, unfamiliar and quiet city is the first impression I have for Vancouver. The weather is cold for me who comes from a tropical country. Everything is different. English is the first thing I am not familiar with. New house, school and environment make me not comfortable. I believe I am not going to be used to this slow paste, boring and cold city. After three years in Vancouver, I went back to Taiwan to visit. I went to visit...
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...The day that changed my life It was a phone call from the hospital in S.C to my mom back in MI that changed my life forever. I was 18 years old newly married, traveling around the states with my husband for his job I was in Greenville, S.C. when one of my usual migraines started. Migraines have been a part of my life since the age of 12 so this was not out of the ordinary, until day 3 and no change. We knew something had to be wrong and that’s when the journey to where I am today started. I went to the emergency room to get a Toradol shot as I had before, I explained the situation and the length of the migraine and that when the nurse felt something was more serious than a migraine. I was rushed to the back for an MRI and that when it was seen I had a quarter sized tumor in the center of my brain. They were sending me over to a neurosurgeon to talk about immediate brain surgery the tumor needed to be removed before any further damage was done. I was only a kid all alone with just my husband in a state that we didn’t know a single person and I was being prepped for an overnight stay in the hospital while having to break the news to my mom over the phone. I was admitted at 11 pm and was scheduled to have the surgery at 5 am, after a sleepless night and the hours slowly passing 5 am came and was gone and I had yet to see a nurse or a doctor. A few more hours passed and finally at 3 pm I saw the neurosurgeon who advised that he was releasing me and that he would not be performing...
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...An Event Which Change My Life Life indeed is a stage…… Do you knew someone’s life could be changed in bits outside the way and lifestyle that exist in one’s family?, My only imagination was whatever lifestyle that exist in my family everyone must follow suit, but I guess my notion was wrong after attending a church conference and thereafter receiving a special gift from one of the speaker. This gift, as an artifact, changed my life, and made me fully understand that one’s lifestyle can be changed towards that which tickles ones fancy and makes one stand out a unique person among family, friends and the World at large. Born of goodly parents, I learned the way of life, the purpose of my existence and what I need to do to find increased happiness in this mortal existence. In my youthful age, in the year 1990, the 14th day of April, I attended a church conference where I listened to the speakers; one of the speakers, Mr. John Walker, spoke on the topic “Christ- Centered Life” and the other, Mr. Smith, spoke on “Marriage and Family-Ordained of God”, that which caught my fancy. Christ-Centered Life: Mr. Walker who gave the talk on Christ-Centered Life quoted the words of President Benson, Having dedicated his life to serving the Lord, President Benson spoke with power and conviction when he shared the following testimony: “I testify to you that there is no greater, more thrilling, and more soul ennobling challenge than to try to learn of Christ and walk in His steps. Our model...
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...I have not lived for very long, but I have still lived though several large events that have all effected me in some way. Large events that effect the whole world have a way of making you realize just how small we all are in the grand scheme of the human race. On the other side of the coin though, when you see just how much a few people can do to help those in need, you realize just how much a single person can matter. Some of the major world events I have lived/am currently living though include the social networking revolution, the "war" against ISIS and other similar radical Islamic groups, and the Boston Marathon bombing. Of those events, the event that has effected me the most was the social networking revolution. I feel that this has...
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...One Event changed my life I had walked these halls a thousand times within the last month, everytime trying to block it all out. You can not be upset in there, do not let them see… I thought while I tried to keep the shield up that guarded all my emotions. What had felt like a year, was just over a month since Jackson, my baby cousin had been admitted into the hospital. Before I walked in, breaking the threshold to his room, I took a deep breath, repeating those words which had seemed to be on replay lately, Do not let them see, keep it together… I walked in the room to see the Doctor fiddling with all the wires on Jackson’s fragile little body. I sat in one of the open chairs and watched my defenceless cousin. I wanted to do something to...
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...Significant Events Intro to Psychology 8/25/2012 One significant event that changed my life before I reached adulthood was my grandmother passing away. My grandmothers passing definitely played a life-shaping effect on my life. My grandmother passing was something that was very unexpected and shocking. This was something that no one in the family expected and left a lasting impression on me and my siblings. The reason my grandmothers passing was so significant event was that before her passing I was heading down a bad path in life and associating with negative factors. While in last days before her passing speaking with her and promising to change my life was something that has molded me into the person I am today. Now as I think back on the event, I believe this event to be the most accurate memory that I have from my past. But the more I think about it and try to relive the memory the more I find myself questioning the details of the event. When I first thought about the memory years later I recalled the conversation that we have happening in the evening, when in actuality our conversation took place in the morning during visitation hours. I also believed that I was the only person in the room during our conversation when truth is that my two cousins were also there. Even though these details I believed to be true were false, the actual conversation between my grandmother and I, I remember clear. I actually can recall the conversation word for word with tone...
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...A Memorable Event The average human will go through billions of events throughout they're lifetime. Some events vary compared to others, some being more memorable, life changing, or forgotten. Regardless of the events, whether big or small, the human brain uses it to shape new events in the future. While the individual will forget some easily, others will remain engraved in the heart of an individual. The most powerful memories remain in the heart leaving often unforgettable images and events for a longer period of time, and probably the whole of their life, and form an unforgettable memory, are among the most memorable events in the life of a person. Deeply engraved events have a profound influence on the life of the individual. Nonetheless, some teach lessons, while others are memories of happiness and love. Above all, the most memorable events are those that are life changing. This essay focuses on a major memorable event that happened to me at a quite tender age, and which taught me an important lesson, which I still find of use and influence up to this stage of my life. If I close my eyes and think about my life since my childhood period to the present stage of my life, I recount many things and major events that I have experienced. However, it is possible that these are not all the experiences I have had in my life, as I did not master the less important events. There are those events that I treasure, and find hard to forget, while others are mere memories of the past...
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...Life Event 1: My first event I would have to say when I moved to the United States when I was 4 years old. This event is so significant because if we hadn’t moved here in the States, I’d probably end up doing the same thing my cousins been doing drugs, alcohol, and trying to survive every day. Life in the Philippines is very hard, especially when you come from a poor family background. I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for my parents decided to make a change and moved here. Settling here and living on Oahu changed my life a lot. For me, Hawaii is another version of the Philippines. Everywhere you go, you see Filipino on the street or on every supermarket. So it wasn’t really a big culture change for me but it definitely changed the course of my life. Im doing things I know that I could only dream of if we stayed in the Philippines. Life Event 2: My second event is when my grandpa passed away. That day really took a toll out of me. He was my best friend and I was his first grandson. I hung out with him more than I was with my dad. He gave me good advises, he didn’t spoiled me but I was his favorite, and he was always there for me. I learned a lot from that old man and saying goodbye to him was the hardest part. The outcome of this event was really missing him a lot. He missed so much parties, all my basketball and football games, and especially all the things I’ve accomplished so far in life. I know he’s always here by my side looking out after me. Life Event 3: My third...
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...In my day-to-day life, I would like to address and solve the problem that I face with time management. I have found that in the past time management has been a major issue, not only in my personal life but also academically and professional. I am starting a new school, have a job and have a family to take care of. I want to make an effort to give all my endeavors my all, in order to do this I would like to refine my time management skills. To develop time management skills I plan on researching a plan of action from the textbook. The information that I have found was in Chapter one. The textbook gives various steps to better time management such as setting goals for you. Goals are an important part of life, but it is even more important for my time management plan. I will be seeking steps that the book suggests for time management and determine which steps will be beneficial for particular part of my life that I will be evaluating. Not all the steps will be beneficial for me, but most will. I will determine which steps will be necessary to use, for example, how my personal life will affect my professional life or how my academic life may affect my personal life. I will begin to set goals for myself before determining a time management plan. I will set short term goals along with long term goals for the part of my life that I need to work on time management plan. I will start with my long term goals that have the largest scope and a longer timeline to achieve. The timeline for...
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...PSY 202 Week 2 Assignment My two life events are the birth of my son and being in the military, the reason I have chosen these two events are because they have both significantly had a positive impact on my life the following paragraphs will show why I believe that these events have positively impacted my life. The first event is my son, when he was born my life was completely changed for once it was up to me to take care of another human being besides myself, I had to feed him, change his diaper, give baths and take him to the doctor for checkups. This was life changing for me because I had never had to do any of those things before. There was no more going out to parties and hanging out with friends all hours of the night, my life was totally devoted to him. It was a life changing experience that I had to change and adapt to in a short amount of time, thus impacting my life in a positive manner. Urie Bronfenbrenner proposed a theory of ecological systems, which focuses on broad, interconnected influences on human development. It proposes that we can best explain development in terms of the interaction between individuals and the environments in which they live(Bronfenbrenner, 2004) The second event would be my career in the military. I had to completely change my way of thinking because being on a military routine is not for the faint of heart, nor is it for everyone. I had to go off on my own and have a stranger telling me what to do, where to go, how to properly address...
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...Diamond-Showerlyn Zoe Cultural Event Paper APSU 1000-02 The culture event I attended is called senior recital representing Belinda Gaston, Mezzo-soprano, and Anne Marie Padelford, Piano. I chose this event because the music inspired me. It encourages me not to give up despite life challenges. I should always hold my head up high when things do not go right. My expectation prior to the event was to gain self-confidence and to know that I can be whatever I want to be if only I put my mind to it. No words of anyone can bring me down. The event was all about believing in yourself, casting your care on God, waiting for the love of your life, and someone to watch over you. What I learned from the event was to believe in myself, trust my instance, follow my dream, and be the best in all I do. My feelings to the event were depressing because I miss my Dad and thought of how we were till he passed away. I cried my heart out and wish he was here. I have attended such program before. This is not my first time attending a program filled with words of acknowledgement, inspiration, love, care, and compassion. This event is compare to my previous experiences because the music makes me think of my Dad in various ways. Such as being together, cooking together, hanging out, and having the best time of our lives. I always wish my Dad was here. Though it has not been easy, I take life as it is and try to move on. I enjoyed the event. It was what I expected. I was fulfilled with the melody and...
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...Day-To-Day Life Time Management Lucretia Chadwick GEN/200 Robyann Musil August 8, 2011 In my day-to-day life, I would like to address and solve the problem that I face with time management. I have found that in the past time management has been a major issue, not only in my personal life but also academically and professional. I am starting a new school, have a job and have a family to take care of. I want to make an effort to give all my endeavors my all, in order to do this I would like to refine my time management skills. To develop time management skills I plan on researching a plan of action from the textbook. The information that I have found was in Chapter one. The textbook gives various steps to better time management such as setting goals for you. Goals are an important part of life, but it is even more important for my time management plan. I will be seeking steps that the book suggests for time management and determine which steps will be beneficial for particular part of my life that I will be evaluating. Not all the steps will be beneficial for me, but most will. I will determine which steps will be necessary to use, for example, how my personal life will affect my professional life or how my academic life may affect my personal life. I will begin to set goals for myself before determining a time management plan. I will set short term goals along with long term goals for the part of my life that I need to work on time management plan. I will start with...
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...Growth from Grief Life often throws many obstacles our way and the approach towards it allows us to grow as an individual. A combination of significant events has shaped me into the person I am today by changing my perspective on life and teaching me valuable lessons. Through my life, I have been very lucky to not experience many deaths which is why I feel that the deaths that do happen, is the main matter that has impacted my life immensely. These specific experiences include losing my grandfather, my friend passing away, and getting a new puppy. As a result, I am able to grow as a person despite the mood and the lessons learned due to what the circumstances may have been. The first event that has touched my life greatly is when my grandfather passed...
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...the online classroom. Life Event: Choosing to go back to school Explanation: This event was most significant in my life because now that I am going back to school and furthering my education I have something to look forward to in the future as far as a promising career. Reflection: After this experience I felt like a new person and that I can achieve any goal and conquer any obstacle that comes my way. I also feel as if I am going to have a better future. Life Event: Getting my Associate’s degree Explanation: This event was significant to me beacause it was my start to a new beginning. At first I wasn’t very comfortable nor confident on with the degree program but as I took the time out and focused harder I knew that this was another goal that I could accomplish. Reflection: After this experience I felt better about furthering my education. I know now that I am capable of finishing school and receiving a degree. This made me feel brand new. Life Event: Starting my new job Explanation: This event is significant to me because I had been searching and searching for a while for a new job after being laid off that it seemed so hopeless but when I got that call back from the job I knew that there was still some hope. Reflection: After this experience I felt excited and happy because I thought that there was no more hope in finding another job until I got the call back. Life Event: Finding my bestfriend Explanation:...
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