...hookups rather than getting to know the person which belittles the human intellect and decreases the intimacy of sex in a committed relationship. The hookup culture is hindering our generation due to casual sex, morals, and the latest pop culture. Yet, for all their future fantasies on love and marriage may take a toll. Hook ups is a certain type of sexual activity outside of romantic relationships that imply an absence of commitment, emotional attachment, or volition in the United States and Europe. Casual sex and hanging out defies the flourishing rule of what makes love and marriage work: emotional vulnerability. Schulten states, “Given the way members of Generation Y have been conditioned, their seemingly blithe attitude about marriage, and sex perhaps even about love, may become less of a boon and more of a bust.” (1). Sexual actions should only be committed under a relationship because senseless actions leads love of sexual intimacy....
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...gender assignment. Quote number 3 is from a required reading by Butler in lecture week 10. It can be found on page 10 of her book entitled “Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity.” Specifically, in Chapter 1 entitled “Subjects of Sex/Gender/Desire.” The quote begins by explaining that the body is a ‘mere instrument/medium.’ Due to the on going debate of free will vs. determinism (Butler 1990:8) the body seems to merely be a vessel for whatever cultural meaning will soon be placed upon them. Due to the external physical features of a given body, there are immediate binary distinctions formed for the individual based on societal/cultural...
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...to be in one of those BET videos, and we see a fantasy sequence of her dressed in a photo-shoot, accompanied with a light-skinned boyfriend (who will be in all her future movie sequences.) She also says I 'm gonna break through, someone is going to break through to me, ima be normal and sit in the front of the class. She has a crush on the math teacher Mr. Wicher (Bill Sage). She narrates that she likes math. The class is rowdy and when a student responds to Mr. Wicher with cuss word, Precious slaps that student and says to Mr. Wicher, I got your back. She narrates that she and Mr. Wicher will move away and live together in Westchester. A student comes in with a note saying that the principal wants to see Precious. In the principals office, the principal, Mrs. Lichtenstein asks if Precious is pregnant again and how could this happen. The principal lays out the facts for Precious: shes 16, pregnant again, and attends junior high. The principal wants to move Precious to an alternative school. The principal asks the mom to come to a meeting but when Precious protests, Mrs. Lichtenstein says that she can visit her mom. Precious is at home washing dishes when her mom, Mary, (MoNique) who is unemployed and watches $10,000 Pyramid all day, asks Precious if she is going to start cooking. Mary then throws a heavy pan at Precious and knocks her out. Cut to a flashback of Precious's father raping her. Then we enter Precious's fantasy...
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...and Youth In today’s world, it is hard to imagine life without technology. While there are still many adults who can remember life without the smart phone, laptop or tablet, the youth is a different story. Desensitization to violence is a subtle, almost incidental process which may occur as a result of repeated exposure to real-life violence, as well as from exposure to media violence. Emotional desensitization is evident when there is numbing or blunting of emotional reactions to events which would typically elicit a strong response. Cognitive desensitization is evident when the belief that violence is uncommon and unlikely becomes the belief that violence is mundane and inevitable. Emotional and cognitive desensitization to violence decrease the likelihood that violent behavior will be either censored or censured. (Funk, 2004 p. 3) Although violence and sex have always been a part of every culture, the youth of today are more exposed to it than before through the different types of media. The advancement of technology continues to increase as the need for constant connection to the media enhances. However, through this technology, the media has become a normalcy for today’s youth, which includes all of the negatives that go along with it. Over the years, the youth have become desensitized to all of the violence and sex in the media. Music is now and will always be the largest media influence. Unlike visual media, music is a strong mental force that also connects to an...
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...important to understand the different types of treatments offered to sexual offenders, and if it reduces any risks of recidivism. This research paper will demonstrate ten different articles with ten very different analysis as to why sexual offenders offend, and what kind of treatment can be offered in order to reduce the chance of recidivism. Types of sexual offenders In order to fully understand this paper we first have to identify, and explain each typology of sexual offenders. What is a sexual offender? A basic definition of a sexual offender is someone who commits a sexual crime against someone. According to the encyclopedia of social and behavioural sciences “Sex offenders force another person to engage in sexual contact against their will. Such force may be physical, psychological, or both. The term ‘sex offender’ usually refers to those who have been apprehended by legal authorities, although sexually coercive behavior is also committed by those who are not caught” (Encyclopedia of social behavioural sciences, 2011). Therefore, we can state that a sexual...
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...Sex addicts come from dysfunctional families and 90 % of them suffer emotional abuse, 70% physical abuse, and 81% sexual abuse (Miller, 2005). This paper will give a summary on the form of sex addiction. In addition, this will discuss the addiction, sex addiction behaviors, and the treatment. What is sex addiction? Sex addiction is when an individual has strong intense sex desires. A person that’s addicted to sex has repeated sex thoughts and the sex thoughts make it impossible to function normally. The sex thoughts overpower a person wellbeing which makes it hard to engage in healthy relationships. Sex addicts suffer from distorted thinking which leads to justifying and rationalizing his or her behaviors (Herkov, 2012). In addition, some sex addicts tend to put the blame on other for his or her issues. However, individuals who are addicted to sex often deny there is a problem because of the shame and guilt. The addiction first starts in the mind. Once the addiction gets into the mind it moves to fantasy, ritual, acting out, and the big shame happens. It is the shame that keeps repeated sex behaviors and isolation. Sex addicts live a double life. The double life includes: trying to have healthy relationships with those around him or her and the sex addiction as a secret. The sex addict problem is not the sex but it is the pain he or she is facing (Miller, 2005). Once the pain is dealt with or discovered, than the sex addict will be set free. There...
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...Xinwei Cen COM110 Sheldon Lu 12/16/2014 One Character’s development Hong Kong cinema is the third largest motion picture after Hollywood and India Cinema. Many of the movies are revolve around martial arts and action. However there are also movies revolve with drama of love, fantasy, journey, and self-discovery. In the period of Hong Kong return to China, a variety of movie address the issue of pursuing dreams, cherish old relationships, and search for new identities. These films included Comrades; Almost a lover story, directed by Peter Chan; Chungking Express, directed by Wong Kar-Wai, and Durain Durian, directed by Fruit Chan. Even though, these films were directed by different directors and produced in different years. These three films share some similar theme such as pursue of dream, cherish old relationships, and character change. The idea pursues of dream is one of the themes that these three film shares. In the 1990s, many mainlander unsure about what would happen after Hong Kong return to China, as result many mainlanders travel to Hong Kong and search for better job opportunities, and pursue their dream, one of the good example would be Comrades, Almost a lover story, In this films, two mainlanders, one named Li Xiao Jun (starring Leon Lai) role-play northern mainlanders. Another one was Li Qiao (starring Maggie Cheung) role-play southern mainlanders. Both of them have the passion to pursue their dream in Hong Kong. Xiao Jun’s dream is to bring his fiancé...
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...of masturbation, Father Jos. Farraher, S.J., describes masturbation as “the stimulation of the external sexual organs to a point of climax or orgasm by oneself, by movements of the hand or other physical contacts or by sexually stimulating pictures or imaginations (psychic masturbation) or by a combination of physical and psychical stimulation."2 In a broader sense this includes mutual masturbation in which persons touch one another's genitalia”. (John F. Harvey) It means that masturbation is sex pleasure for one person only. It may or may not include the stroking of genitals and also orgasm. An individual could also masturbate with partners or so-called as ‘mutual masturbation’. Other terms to describe masturbation are ‘onanism’ and ‘self- pleasure’. Also, referring to Better Health Channel, “masturbation means touching and rubbing your penis or clitoris and breasts for sexual pleasure. It’s a normal and healthy way for people to explore their own bodies. It’s also a form of safer sex that lets people find out what feels good, where and how they like to be touched and how to have an orgasm”. People used to be attached with stigma when it’s come to the masturbation issue. They tend to think that masturbation could come with the risk of blindness, decline in male...
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...first arrived in the Caribbean it was inhabited by the indigenous people of the region. This eventually led to the other major European players to take up settlement in the region. Eventually, these settlements supplemented by a slave labour force from Africa grew into a large colonised settlement. This became an engrained system and as such many of the remnants of colonization still have a strong grip on how people operate in the region. Ideas of sex, sexuality and sex work which are now prominent in the region was shaped during this time of the historical development of the region. According to Elizabeth Hartney, sex work is the term for engaging in sexual activity for money or otherwise working in the sex industry. Depending on the work, activities might include: physical contact with a paying client, creating or being the subject of sex-related photos or videos, engaging in phone sex, participating in live sex shows. This is short is prostitution. Kamala Kempadoo (1999) gives an invaluable background into the history of Caribbean sex work and how it was influenced by colonial powers. It is stated that “prostitution is inextricably tied to the power and control exerted by European colonizers over black women….” Research showed that slave masters not only had complete control over the labour of their work force but also over the sexual labour of their women. The slave masters exercised their control and prostitution quickly became an institutionalized part of slave society. ...
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...store and deliver information or data. It is often referred to as synonymous with mass media or news media, but may refer to a single medium used to communicate any data for any purpose". We can confidently then say that media takes the form of TV, radio, the internet, cell phones, motion pictures, billboards, newspapers and books. This betterment of media has come with some merits and demerits as far as how it affects us. This paper looks at how the erotic materials media throws at us has affected, and is still affecting us, negatively. Let's start with our children and how the media has managed to take away their innocence by arousing their sexual desires. "Children begin to experiment with sex as they enter their teens” (as cited in Weiten and McCann, p 403) and at that age are vulnerable to whatever sexual contents they watch or hear. We all learn by observing someone act a certain way over and over. It is the power of observational learning that makes television such an influential determinant of behaviour (as cited in Weiten and McCann, p 254). Most of children, especially in the western countries have easy access to or have been furnished with 2 or more media formats: a laptop, i-pad, tablet, cell phones and the likes. They spend so much of their time on these devices, and take in everything that is freely shown to them. They have the freedom to visit any website they want, watch any TV show, or go see any movie they want, if their adult guardian does not activate...
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...Sex Offenders and Substances Abusers CJHS/420 Sandra James 10/20/2014 Micheal Jones Introduction In the case of sex offenders, we are going to look at how they are similar in their actions and various other areas. This is also going to cover how they are different, from sentencing, types of sex offenders and how and what they do. What is also important is how they proposed solutions will aid in the prevention and control of what they have done. Finding the similarities and differences can at times confuse people and cause them to have an opinion on every type that they all are of the same level. When the truth is there are differences, for the young man who dates an underage girl, to the rapist. Just as they are different so are their sentences. Characteristics and treatment similarities between sex offenders and substance abusers. There are characteristics and treatment that are similar to both sex offenders and substance abusers. There is no age group that defines either one they both come in a wide range of ages. Another similarity is that neither of these offenses can is linked specifically to one social class. A sex offender just like a substance abuser can be the next door neighbor in a high-class area or lower class area. These offenses have no boundaries as to where one may find either. Also one my assume that sex offenders and substance abusers must have some form of mental illness to do the things they do, this is not the case. They...
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...Effect of Fandom on Marketers In the “old days” an areas culture had a massive effect on the way that the people of that area lived their lives. What they wore, ate, watched, participated in, etc. But with the ever expanding and diversifying markets of the world today it is becoming easier and easier to start seeing alterations from this. In Kaplan and Langdon’s article “Chinese fandom and potential marketing strategies for expanding the market for American professional sports into China” (Kaplan & Langdon 2012). Marketing strategies are reviewed as one of the main topics. “One strategy of the NBA was to partner with established Chinese brands” (Kaplan & Langdon, 2012). This allowed the NBA to have an easy avenue for expansion as the market had already been developed. Take Nike for instance from the example. In Kaplan and Langdon’s article it is stated “China’s biggest seller of athletic shoes, Li Ning, recently surrendered its top position to Nike, even though Nike’s shoes – upwards of $100 a pair – cost twice as much. The new middle class ‘seeks Western culture’, says Zhang Wanli, a social scientist at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences. ‘Nike was smart because it didn’t enter China selling usefulness, but selling status” (Kaplan, Langdon 2012). Basically when Nike came in, they did not say that they had the best product. They did not say they had the cheapest product. They said they had their product. Because of the interest by these Chinese consumers that was...
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...Running head: How has the Internet Affected Sex Addiction How has the Internet Affected Sex Addiction Edward Vega Jr. National University Abstract Sex addicts have plenty to struggle without adding the access to their wildest fantasies. That is what the Internet has given them. Addicts can get online and search pornography, cybersex sites and sites where they can find people to meet up with. The Internet makes it that much easier for sex addicts because just like any other addict they are ashamed of their addiction but with the Internet they do not have to worry about it cause they can do whatever they want from the comfort of their own home. What we need to understand is that sex addicts are not born sex addicts. Some sort of abuse had to happen while they were children. How has the Internet Affected Sex Addiction There are lots of different addictions in the world that people are dealing with, from drug alcohol and gambling. The addiction that I am going to focus on is sex addiction. Sex addiction has been around for as long as any other addiction and is just as serious. However since the Internet has become bigger and better we can do anything we can imagine, so how has the internet affected sex addiction? “The terms "sexual addiction" is used to describe the behavior of a person who has an unusually intense sex drive or an obsession with sex” (WebMd). The following behavior patterns can indicate the presence of sexual addiction: Out of control sexual behavior;...
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...Other explanatory models of hyper sexuality include sexual compulsivity and sexual impulsivity. Sexologists have not reached any consensus regarding whether sexual addiction exists or, if it does, how to describe the phenomenon. Some experts believe that sexual addiction is literally an addiction, directly analogous to alcohol and drug addictions. Other experts believe that sexual addiction is actually a form of obsessive compulsive disorder and refer to it as sexual compulsivity. Still other experts believe that sex addiction is itself a myth, a by-product of cultural and other influences. Some who have expressed doubts about the existence of sex addiction argue that the condition is instead a way of projecting social stigma onto patients. ORIGIN Sex addiction as a term first emerged in the mid-1970s when various members of Alcoholics Anonymous sought to apply the principles of 12-Steps toward sexual recovery from serial infidelity and other unmanageable compulsive sex behaviors that were similar to the powerlessness and un-manageability they experienced with alcoholism. This resulted in the creation of...
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...Punch-Drunk Love is a movie with sparse meaning until you look closer at the symbols that matter to Barry and show his progression. From the beginning of the movie, the phone is Barry's primary method of communication. As we watch him talk on the phone and converse in life, we see he is much more comfortable on the phone. He can lie easier to stay in and avoid being around his overbearing sisters and their imposing expectations of him. They gossip and actively mock him. He does not take it well, one time shattering a sliding door and another time threatening to kill his sister. He can't trust them to be confidential at all. It's why Barry makes such a big deal about confidentiality when he calls the phone sex line. His motivation is simply to have human contact because he is so lonely (he tells the woman it doesn't matter what she looks like.) But after she directs him to more sexual ends, they use it to blackmail him. Now, Barry is on the receiving end of the phone's duplicitous...
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