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Father Poems Two men have something in common and that is writing. Nick Flynn and Simon J. Ortiz have very different backgrounds but both love to writing. Flynn was born in 1960, in Scituate, Massachusetts, and had a very difficult life. His mother committed suicide when he was twenty-two years old and his father was an alcoholic. Through all this difficulties, Flynn wrote poems and books about his challenges. His poems were awarded “Discovery”/ The Nation Prize, and he also received fellowships from the Guggenheim Foundation, The Library of Congress, and the Amy Lowell Trust. Today, Flynn teaches part time at the University of Houston. ("Nick Flynn.") Simon J. Ortiz was born in 1941, in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and was very close with his family. When he was young Ortiz didn’t see himself as a poet but as a singer/song writer. He attended a lot of colleges in the 60’s and 70’s and since then he was awarded the Lifetime Achievement Award. Today, Ortiz has three daughters and is divorced from his wife, and he is also recovering from alcoholism. ("Simon J. Ortiz.") While both poets have different past, they still have great poems that are read worldwide. Even though Ortiz and Flynn come from different backgrounds, their poems “My Father’s Song” and “Father Outside” have a lot of difference throughout their entire poems, but through poems are easily relatable to all. The poem “My Father Song” is about a memory that Ortiz had with his father and shows that his father is a hard worker. While the “Father Outside” by Flynn is about his alcoholic father and how he is fading away. These two poems can be easily related to by many people. While some people have hard working parents, others don’t. “My Father Song” written by Ortiz in 1976 is about a memory he had with his father while working out in the fields. The father is teaching the boy about the lands and showing him survival skills. The title “My Father’s Song” isn’t truly a song but it’s a song about life, the father’s actions make it a song. The poem is telling a story and that’s why it’s a song. The first six lines of the poem:
Wanting to say things,
I miss my father tonight.
His voice, the slight catch,
The depth from his thin chest,
The tremble of emotion
In something he has just said
……………………………….
makes it seem as if Ortiz was disconnected or no longer close with his father when he wrote this poem. (Mays, Kelly J) The flashback Ortiz had during this poem was his father and he out in the fields planting when the father comes crossed a small tiny baby mice. “Very gently, he scooped tiny pink animals/ into the palm of his hand/ and told me to touch them” (18-20), here you can see that the father know his land and how to take care of it and he wants to teach his son how to care for his land. (Mays, Kelly J) The father is show value for life through this entire poem. This is show by, “We took them to the edge/ of the field and put them in the shade/ of a sand moist cold” (21-23), the father teaches the son to care for all things in life. (Mays, Kelly J) The father is teaching Ortiz traditions and experiences he will need to survive. Ortiz being raised an Indian applied his traditions and experiences to his poetry. The poem is show the rest of the world a memory and experience of a Native American Indian. ("Simon J. Ortiz.") And finally the last line of the poem say, “and my father saying things.”, is showing how the father is speaking telling his son things he will need to know as a man on his own life. (Mays, Kelly J) “Father Outside” written by Flynn in 2004 is about his alcoholic father and how he doesn’t want to give up on him. His father was absent for his entire childhood and most of his adolescence, but he always crossed Flynn’s mind. (Milliard, Mike) Flynn worked at a homeless shelter and his father made a re-entry into his life. He was drunk and homeless and came into the shelter were Flynn worked, this how he wrote the poem. (Milliard, Mike) Flynn never knew what to say to his father when he saw him but this time he will know what to say as he finds him asleep and homeless: That I will stand over him again as he sleeps outside under the church halogen only this time I will know what to say. (9-12)
He wants to save him, “I wait for his breath/ to lift his blanket” (18-19); Flynn makes sure he is alive every time he sees him asleep on a bench. Through the poem readers can feel the sadness and angry Flynn has towards his father. Flynn say in lines 6 through 8, “I want to believe/ that if I get the story right/ we will rise, newly formed,” that he wants to be close to his father. He wants a father son relationship since his mother is gone but the father is making hard to have that relationship due to his drinking. “My father is ink falling/ in tiny blossoms, a bottle/ wrapped in a paperbag”, his father is fading away and there is nothing Flynn can do. In both poems the poets have different types of relationships with their father. Ortiz has great father son relationship, relationships were Ortiz and his father spent time doing things together. While Flynn didn’t have a relationship with his father because all he did was drink. Flynn tried to save him but didn’t know how. Both poets make their poem easily relatable to their readers. Ortiz and Flynn come from different backgrounds which probably affected their childhoods making their relationships with their parents different. “My Father’s Song” and “Father Outside” are interesting because reader can relate to them by either having a hard working parent like Ortiz or by having a no show father like Flynn. Life challenges, whether there good or bad, influence poets to write. These poets write their poems on memories they had that influenced theirs lives. Both Ortiz and Flynn have different poems both achieved many awards for their writing. Readers enjoy both poets because of their differences.

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