...Kara Vedros 03/06/2014 HUMAN 1113HYB03 “ORDINARY PEOPLE” The film “Ordinary People” is story about the Jarrett family, an upper middle class family living in the picture perfect suburb of Lake Forest, Illinois. The story begins shortly after the tragic and untimely death of the oldest son, Jordan (also referred to as Buck), who died in a boating accident, that his younger brother Conrad, survived. When a traumatic event such as this occurs some families unite and battle the grief and heartache together, as a unit, while others become emotionally isolated and detached from one another. This is the case for the Jarrett's. The depth of grief that each individual character is suffering is uncovered as the film progresses. This tale is that of ordinary people faced with extraordinary trauma and its effects on the individuals as well as the family unit as a whole. It becomes clear very early on in the film that reason for the emotional disconnect stems from the extreme lack of communication between husband and wife and mother and son. One of the most important relationships in the film is between Beth and Conrad. Beth, a cheerfully superficial housewife and somewhat of a control freak, is extremely ridged and emotionally unavailable towards both Conrad and her husband, Calvin. Throughout the film, Conrad, who is suffering from deep depression as a result of his brothers death, makes numerous attempts to communicate with Beth, however, every word that he says to her seems...
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...Koeckritz CST 110 7 April 2016 Interpersonal Communication Film Analysis While any relationship can be difficult, romantic ones seem to be the most complicated. Interpersonal communication can be defined in many ways but is usually described as communication among those in a close relationship (Alberts 189). The Break Up is a perfect movie that will show examples of the definitions used. Individuals initiate relationships with those they see as attractive, while physical appearance is critical in forming a relationship so is a mental and the ability to communicate effectively. When initiating a potential romantic relationship flirting comes in many forms. Ambiguous flirting isn’t overt or obvious and always leave the possibility open that flirting wasn’t happening at all (Alberts 199). Regardless of the technique used, flirting aims to fulfill one purpose: stimulate sexual interest. Knowing and understanding the different theories of relationship development will give a deeper understanding of interpersonal communications. Theory helps explain and predict behavior and understanding the factors (Alberts 191). Attraction theory explains the three primary forces that draw people together to form a relationship. It explains that people like and are attached to others who are similar, rather than dissimilar. Proximity is one of the primary forces which defines how physically close one is to others (Alberts 191). An example from the film would be how Gary first noticed Brooke at...
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...(Setting: Sa kwarto ni Present) (Pagkatapos mag-alarm, mabilis na babangon, mag-aayos para pumunta na sa ibang dimensyon) (Susubukang buksan ang pinto, ayaw bumukas. Pinipilit buksan pero ayaw pa din) Present: Bakit ayaw bumukas? *insert past name!! Bakit ayaw mo kong pagbuksan?! Buksan mo naman 'to o?! Gusto ko na ulit kayong makasama. Malungkot dito. Ayaw ko na dito. Mag-isa lang ako. May nagawa ba akong masama? Nagalit ba kita? Sorry na oh? Please buksan niyo na ulit ito. (Naiiyak na) Past: Hindi pwede e. Hindi ka na pwede dito. Present: Bakit hindi? Nakukulitan na ba kayo sakin? Hindi na lang ako pupunta palagi pero please, hayaan niyo akong makapunta pa din diyan. Past: Gusto ka namin dito, pero hindi na pwede. Kapag pinilit pa natin, sige ka, baka hindi ka na makabalik diyan sa inyo, mawawala ka din dito.. Parang.. bula. hmm.. Puntahan mo 'yung drawer. Present: Ha? Anong drawer? Past: 'yung drawer sa kwarto ko, ay. Sa kwarto mo. Naalala mo 'yung sulat na ginagawa ko? Tapos ko na 'yun. Pwede mo na basahin. Present: Ha? Hindi ko maintindihan. Paano ko makukuha kung hindi mo ko pinagbubuksan? Past: Pumunta ka sa kwarto mo. Yung kwarto ko, 'yung din yung iyo. Hindi mo ba naisip na iisa lang itsura ng bahay natin? Nagbago lang ng mga gamit. Kasi, ikaw at ako, iisa lang din tayo. (Cut to next scene: Kwarto pa din. Kukunin niya na yung letter.) (pagbukas ng drawer at nakita yung letter, Mag-eecho: Kasi, ikaw at ako, iisa lang din tayo) (flashback nakita...
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...The romantic comedy film, Friends with Benefits (2011), helps one in understanding Mark Knapp’s model of communication through the relationship of Jamie Rellis and Dylan Harper. From Knapp’s communication model, it is clear that everyone is involved in interpersonal communication whether they are in a group or just two people communicating. As this bonds grow stronger, an individual might opt to stick with that group or a particular person for personal benefits. From Knapp’s point of view, and as it is evident from the film, the couple first gets together to test the relationship and later on they might decide to increase their commitment towards each other, then they make a pact as love mates, and finally the couple formalizes their obligations. Friends with Benefits also shows the other side of the communication model where the couple comes close to separating and decide to reaffirm their individuality....
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...or a second, the pinched expressions of the cynical, world-weary, throat-cutting, miserable bastards we've all had to become disappears, when we're confronted with something as simple as a plate of food” (Bourdain, A, 2000). From the viewpoint of communication studies, food has been, and remains to be, a significant representation in our foundation of meaning. Food, as an everyday necessity of social life, is an important aspect to study as it expresses current social studies through distinct relationships of class, education, gender, and sexuality. In addition, the customs of sharing foods and meals have been key in communicative practices in cultures all over the world. In the following paragraphs, the Taiwanese feature film Eat Drink Man Woman, managed and written by well-known director Ang Lee, who also successfully directed movies such as Brokeback Mountain and Hulk, will be analyzed to see how food is constructed and represented in the movie. In the film it is stated by character Jia-Chien that they “communicate by eating” (Lee, A, 1994). This is important because it displays that food is a form of expression and communication, a form that is commonly misunderstood or avoided. The film Eat Drink Man Woman, articulates communication family and loved ones by representing food as a symbol of the presented themes of relationships, displayed through illustrations of love and admiration. According to PBS, “There is no closer relationship than kin, and food plays a large part...
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...Film Title: Love Actually Year of Release : 2003 Film Director: Richard Curtis Film Length: 135 minutes Interpersonal communication concepts: Non verbal communication, conflict resolution, communicating across different cultures. Film Description: The theme of the film is that love is all around us. As Christmas approaches, we meet a loosely connected group of Londoners. They are an eclectic group, from the newly elected Prime Minister to a man mourning the loss of his wife to cancer on to a footloose young man who delivers sandwiches .We watch as some of these people form relationships, others find their ongoing relationships changing. Some are dealing with grief, others with family members, still others with pressures of new jobs. Love grows and we watch our characters move together or grow apart. The director skillfully weaves the lives of these people together as he moves the story along..Most of the plot lines move toward a joyful resolution. But, as in real life, not all end happily. One of the concepts I chose from our course was non verbal communication. The director uses facial expressions, body language, gestures effectively to convey his messages. His actors portray the full range of emotion from grief and betrayal, to joy and love. Application of concepts: Discussion Question #1: Choose one of the sets of characters in a developing relationship and discuss how non verbal communication forms an important part of their plot line.. Response to Discussion...
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...While all relationships can be difficult, romantic relationships seem to be some of the most complicated types. Sometimes two people can care for one another so much, yet they cannot seem to communicate effectively. When a lack of communication occurs between two people for a long period of time, it most likely will lead to a huge confrontation and possibly a complete dissolve of the relationship. The Break-Up is a prime example where we see that interpersonal communication is key when trying to maintain a strong and healthy relationship. We begin this romantic comedy with Gary, which is played by Vince Vaughn, trying to capture young Brooke’s attention with his initiating sense of humor. But as the film progresses we see how something as little as lemons can ensue an argument which had been slowly building up over time. As we look at Knapp’s model we quickly come to find out that, The Break-Up, was a film primarily based in the “coming apart” stage. Throughout this paper I will focus on the stages of circumscribing, stagnating, and avoiding and how they ultimately led to the downfall of Brooke and Gary’s relationship. As we look at Knapp’s development model, what exactly does circumscribing mean? In the circumscribing stage, communication between members decreases in quantity and quality. Rather discussing a disagreement (which requires energy on both sides of the relationship), members opt for withdrawal. Circumscribing involves the shrinking interest and commitment. (Looking...
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...Stand and Deliver Stand and Deliver (1988) is a film about a teacher and a group of students who went above the expectations of everyone around them and all passed the AP exam. The concept of self-concept is very evident in this film. Self-concept is the “sum total of everything that encompasses the self- referential term ‘me’” (42). A person cannot isolate themselves and develop a self-concept. It is built around social communication; it has to grow from interpersonal communication. The film is based in East Los Angeles, not a place where you want to walk in the streets alone. There, all of the students live and go to school at Garfield High School. Because they live in such an under-privilege neighborhood and go to a school in that neighborhood, they aren’t seen to be as intelligent as someone who lives in Beverly Hills. There was a part of the film during a teacher meeting when Mr. Escalante brought up that he wanted to teach calculus to his students the next school year. This was when the principal laughed and sarcastically said “Boy, that’s a jump.” Because self-concept is developed through interpersonal communication, the fact that even the principal of their school doesn’t believe they could do such a feat like pass the AP exam, they haven’t thought much about their education. School was a joke to them so they focused on their own personal lives at home and with their friends. That is, until Mr. Escalante became their new math teacher. Self-concept can change...
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...Technology Strategies Valerie McQueen-Vance BSA/310 March 2, 2015 Jennifer Streker Technology Strategies Optimizing communication between employees and constant access to information is becoming more significant to how businesses operate each day. How can a business expand the capabilities of these two necessities for their employees? Throughout the last week I have researched access to information and communication options that are currently on the market today. There are a many that are in the developmental stages. The ability to link employees through the use of technology can improve the company’s overall operation. I found two interesting initiatives that are proposed and felt that they would be relevant in our Week 5 team project: Bubble Films. The first prospect is a joint effort between AT&T and Microsoft. “The new solution, AT&T Mobile Office Suite, helps to improve employee productivity while in the office or on-the-go.” (AT&T, Unk) The new merger will provide user access to a cloud-based solution at a reasonable cost. The second prospect is a new personal assistant application that will help manage an employee’s calendars, emails, and contacts related to their job. “The idea is to offer individuals whose business requires them to maintain relationships an easy way to receive reminders to reach out to those most important to them.” (Perez, 2015) Although I chose two new technologies to highlight, there are many options available to consider...
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...when Clark arrives, he shakes things up by recasting instructors as well as calling all of them ineffectual. And it is not long before a lot of individuals demand for his removal. However, but at the same time, Clark gains the admiration of some of the instructors and the learners when he gradually turns round the fortunes of the school. Information is exchanged for a variety of reasons and it flows both ways. Communication plays a crucial role in modeling and upholding acceptable superior-subordinate relations. There are numerous concepts at play in superior-subordinate communication. Key among them include feedback, upward influence, and trust. First, upward communication or influence refers to the process where information is transmitted from the lower (subordinates) levels of an organization to the upper (superiors) levels of an organization. Such kinds of communication include estimations, proposals, complaints, grievances, petitions, reports among others. This is very important because it plays the role of the feedback to a successful downward communication that may have been made...
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...Table Of Content 1. Introduction 2. Interpersonal Communication 3. Characteristics of Effective Interpersonal Communication 4. Concept 5.Process involve in Active listening 6. Perception 7. Conclusion 8.References INTRODUCTION This assessment is going to identify and analyze interpersonal communication skills and behavior exhibited and observed in a movie titled Twilight, a 2008 American romantic fantasy film based on Stephanie Meyers popular novel of the same name. Interpersonal Communication Communication is not an easy process. It involves verbal and non-verbal attempts to assist the other person to understand what we are trying to communicate. Yet it often fails. Communication occurs every day in our lives and it happens in every situation. All our daily activities require us to communicate in one form or the other. It is important to communicate in order to pass on information to people that we interact with. Communication is any action, verbal and nonverbal, which is conveyed by a person and received and understood by at least one other person. These actions or behaviors can be ideas, feelings, values and attitudes. When the receiver perceives the message, a meaning is obtained from the message. A relationship is formed between people as they engage themselves in a communication process. Communication can take place with or without words. Our communication output is composed of verbal, vocal and visual signs or...
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...Interpersonal Communication in the Movie Crash Jamillah Gleason COMM 200: Interpersonal Communication November 12, 2012 Instructor: Marcia Wynn Interpersonal Communication in the Movie Crash The movie "Crash" shows numerous examples of interpersonal conflicts between different characters in which all are interlocked with another. Interpersonal communication is "the process of exchanging messages, usually between two people, to create and share meaning" (Sole, 2011). This paper will identify one of the interpersonal conflicts of many that was poorly handled, and how it could have been dealt with in a different way. Conversation is an important part of connecting with others and forming relationships. It is the way things are said verbally or non-verbally to how an individual will react or decide to form a relationship with another. The character named Anthony is constantly struggling trying to prove that everyone is stereotyping black people. His constant complaining about stereotyping shows how low his self-esteem is to worry about what other people think. In the beginning he talks about how a waitress acted towards them by stereotyping. "That waitress sized us up in two seconds. We are black and black people don't tip, so she wasn't wasting her time. Now somebody like that, there is nothing you can do to change their mind" (Haggis, 2004). Anthony non-verbally self-disclosed a side of him that reveals that he also stereotypes individuals. ...
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...Conflict within families has been present in human societies since the beginning of humans themselves and has remained extremely pertinent wherever families may exist; in fact, you could say that familial conflicts began a long time ago and could even exist in a galaxy far, far away. Even in the midst of a galactic civil war, it is possible to identify interpersonal problems within families and examine how different methods of communication could provide remedies for the conflicts. In this essay, we are going to be discussing the hit 1977 blockbuster Star Wars--later retitled Star Wars: Episode IV - A New Hope--and how our study of interpersonal communication in family relationships can be exemplified in the film. In particular, we will analyze...
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...Interpersonal relationships in “HITCH” COM200: Interpersonal Communication Kyle Foster 7/14/14 Robert Strain In this movie, Will Smith’s character, Hitch, finds himself experiencing some dramatic irony when he seemingly sabotages his own love fife while attempting to create one for his client, Albert. This film is filled with areas that could use more thorough communication. One area in particular is when Hitch finds himself in trouble with the girl that he likes, Sara. After she discovers what Hitch does for a living, Hitch finds himself at an awkward point when he has to face some morality in what he does. The interpersonal conflict here stems from the animosity that both Hitch and Sara both face in other aspect of their lives. Hitch with his struggles in commitment, and Sara with her distrust in men. This internal conflict here brings both of them to a point in their lives where they meet and eventually fall in love, but not without some questionable interpersonal conflict handling regarding communication, first. Another mishandling is Sara’s investigations into who exactly the famed “Date Doctor” really is, she begins to put the pieces together that Hitch is actually him. She digs deep because she believes that this “Date Doctor” is only out to get men to be able to sleep with women, so therefore has a predisposition based on questionable sources (her best friend) and that this guy must be just like all the other bad men. Here we see that Sara needs...
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...In Advertising and promotions, communication process is used to obtain the favor of customer. Communication process is operated to impress customer. A communication process model contains nine elements. The elements are sender, receiver, message, media, encoding, decoding, response, feedback and noise. In the case study of BMW every elements of communication model is present. BMW is sending a message to their customers as a sender. A simple message of this car manufacturing company encoded as “The ultimate driving machine”. The message contains the meaning of the best performance in any one`s driving experience and the supreme innovation of this car manufacturing company is also expressing positively. Many kinds of magazines, BMW websites, internet, billboards, tradeshow, telesales campaigns are using as the receiver of BMW. The media elements are based on these communication channels. The sending messages through channels are decoded by the users. The ultimate receivers of the message are the consumers. The consumer’s response to the brand message of this company is “performance driven car”. This response was not in favor to the brand. BMW realized to be inhumane brand due to excessive emphasis on their performance of mechanic. The noise factor of communication process is the pushing performance of being inhumane to consumers. This noise factor caused errors which are unwanted. The dynamic controlling system of BMW makes their communication process more effective in their total...
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