...1.) In the memoir, look me in the eye: my life with asperger’s, by John Elder Robison there are several points that seem to be significant in the development of his interpersonal self regulation. Identify one of these time points (please use page numbers) and explain how you think this is an example of a shift in interpersonal self regulation. (10 points) Throughout his memoir, Robison recounts upon his inability to communicate socially and his desire for fluid interpersonal skills. He notices that people who are extroverts and are socially capable often “go far in life because interpersonal skill is one of the most important predictors of success” (207). As he grows and becomes more socially capable, he is able to recognize his interpersonal shortcomings and work to change his awkward habits. Because of this, he inherently has more social problems when he is a young boy. “Starting at about six years of age, [he] learned not to submit [him]self to repeated humiliation from people and institutions” (239). Unfortunately, humiliation was the impetus for Robison’s education in interpersonal self-regulation. In chapter 3, Empathy, Robison’s mother has one of her friends over. She comments on a tragedy of someone’s son being killed by a train while playing on train tracks. For lack of an understanding of social and emotional norms, Robison decides to smile at this remark. “She turned to me with a shocked expression on her face. ‘What! Do you think that’s funny?’ I felt embarrassed...
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...to believe that I am blind from my right eye. For fourteen years I have been living a normal life without seeing from my right eye. I’d say for about six or seven years I would cry when people asked me what happened or just stare at me and talk about, well my eye. It was really hard for me but like my mom says, “You are a strong beautiful girl, you are better than them, and plus those are just words. And hey, if they keep talking their nonsense, then say something back, don’t just stay quiet. Look up for yourself.” Freshman year was the most exciting, scariest and adventurous year for me. I never knew how much people would care who you talk to or hang out with, you know, all the stuff you see on TV. I thought it was just entertainment but no; I was living it for real. As usual we introduce each of us to the class and talk about each other. Well when I was up in the front talking some guy interrupted me and said, “Ha ha look, she has a lazy eye.” Some students laughed and said other things. Of course the teacher sent him to the office. As I was standing in the front, I was just starring at them laugh and say other things. I wanted to cry SO badly, but my mom’s words came to mind and I just went to my desk and sat down quietly. Throughout the summer, going to my sophomore year, I had gotten more aggressive. Not mean or anything for no reason, I just stood up for myself. I was tired of people laughing or making horrible comments about me. Math is something I enjoy doing and learning...
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...The Reason Why I Can’t Look a Person in the Eye In grade nine, during semester two I had gym last period. It had been a long day, I was exhausted and I just wanted to finish this class and go home. To make everything so much worse we were going to be playing a game that I absolute hated. Soccer-baseball. Both classes were standing in one large circle, while the teacher with boorish brown eyes, was in the middle yelling out instructions. Her voice echoed throughout the huge gym, as she was saying “Everyone has to pick a partner!” and so on. So I looked over to my good friend faith with glamorous green eyes. And mouthed “want to be partners”, and she mouthed back “sure”. So I smiled to myself, until I caught the glimpse of the boy standing beside me, just staring at me, with considerable, confused, brown eyes. Now you see this boy was supposed to be very popular, everyone knew his name, (but I seemed to have forgotten) and everyone thought that he was funny. Even I chuckled at his resistance to a teacher’s demand, his English presentations, and his sarcastic comments during class. So of course I looked back at him into his eyes, and then whispered impatiently to him “what do you want?” he looked at me all wide eyed and pointed at himself. At first I didn’t understand, and then I realized he must have thought that I was taking to him, when I asked faith to be partners. So I shook my head and mouthed “No”, then pointed to faith. His gaze followed my finger...
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...and made me look worse. You tainted me and made me pitiful. You took the only thing I had and put it in your neck. You silenced me. I held out my hand to you but you let go. You deleted me from your eyes. On the 18th of September, you’ll find me in the corner. Hanging on the noose you made me wore. On the day I died, I cursed you. I hope your happy but surprise! YOU’LL DIE TOO! Kylie Isidro, You debunked my secrets and made me look worse. You tainted me and made me pitiful. You took the only thing I had and put it in your neck. You silenced me. I held out my hand to you but you let go. You deleted me from your eyes. On the 18th of September, you’ll find me in the corner. Hanging on the noose you made me wore. On the day I died, I cursed you. I hope your happy but surprise! YOU’LL DIE TOO! Athena Mendoza, You debunked my secrets and made me look worse. You tainted me and made me pitiful. You took the only thing I had and put it in your neck. You silenced me. I held out my hand to you but you let go. You deleted me from your eyes. On the 18th of September, you’ll find me in the corner. Hanging on the noose you made me wore. On the day I died, I cursed you. I hope your happy but surprise! YOU’LL DIE TOO! Mr.Dela Cruz, You debunked my secrets and made me look worse. You tainted me and made me pitiful. You took the only thing I had and put it in your neck. You silenced me. I held out my hand to you but you let go. You deleted me from your...
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...Homework On Eye Contact I read the article, “Just Look Me in the Eye ” and wondered, how true! This is exactly what the era of technology has done to the nature of personal conversations. The paired activity we had in our last class was quite interesting too. It helped me realize that holding eye contact for more than 20 seconds was very uncomfortable. It made me question a lot of things in my mind such as if my looks are okay or if my smile is perfect or am I too stiff, however the moment our professor rephrased the activity by telling that we had to make the other person feel comfortable, the equation in my mind changed instantly, I became relaxed, tried smiling and making I guess funny faces to make my partner feel comfortable and good. I believe, eye contact helps you establishing a deeper connect with the person you are speaking to. In case of professional relationships it tends to make your conversations more real and add a personalized touch. While in personal relationships, it makes you feel good, accepted and most importantly understood. And in intimate relationships, it helps you create romance and love. As the proverb goes, the eyes are the windows of the soul. When introduced to someone new, it helps you sending information across your acquaintance whether you are really interested to hold a conversation. It is always polite to keep brief eye contact and offer either a nod or a smile. That makes it look like a welcome sign. On the other hand, it can be really...
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...As I walk straight through the old rusted, stained door. I stand right in front of what looks like a large tower. I hear what sounds like a pack of wild dogs. When I walked around the wooden corner I only see three. One which has three brown spots, and the rest of its body is black. He looks at me like he wants me to walk the five steps over to him and take him out of the vets office. I look around the office and I see more and more pets screaming “ Help me, Help me”. They have those deep brown eyes that look deep into my soul. I listen to the vet's assistant come out of one of the squared exam rooms. She says “ Patches.”. I lady stands up with a dog that does not look very tall. When he stands up the dog looks as if he stands six feet on...
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...Tuesday, July 15, 2014 Girl's Day - Look at me 걸스데이 - Look at me Girl's Day - Look at me hangul 푹 빠졌어 꾹 참았던 내 맘을 그렇게 넌 왜 그리 몰라줘 내가 어려서 알면서 모른 척 하는 거니 얼마나 오랫동안 이 순간만을 기다렸는데 어린애 취급만 동생으로만 바라보는 게 싫어 하루 종일 계속 꾸미고 꾸미다 보여주고 싶어 남들처럼 알건 다 아는 나도 여자라는 걸 don't you know look at me now look in my eyes 니 앞에 훤히 보이잖아 예전에 맘 여렸던 아이 철 없기만 했던 아이 더 이상은 아냐 look at me now look what you see I’m a beautiful lady 제발 오빠 오빠 날 사랑해줘 지금 all day all night 날 니 꺼 라고 해줘 look at me now 제발 look what you see 제발 깜깜한 밤에 난 니 생각만 내가 더 오히려 이쁘게 보이려다 자꾸 꼬이면 넌 억울해 하루 종일 계속 꾸미고 꾸미다 보여주고 싶어 남들처럼 알건 다 아는 나도 여자라는 걸 don't you know look at me now look in my eyes 니 앞에 훤히 보이잖아 예전에 맘 여렸던 아이 철 없기만 했던 아이 더 이상은 아냐 look at me now look what you see I’m a beautiful lady 제발 오빠 오빠 날 사랑해줘 지금 all day all night 날 니 꺼 라고 해줘 진심이 담긴 너의 그 모습을 바라지 청순한 여자든 섹시한 여자든 널 위해서라면 니가 원하는 여자 되어줄게 사랑에 빠지면 난 바보 같애져 그래도 이 마음 숨기면 더 아플 것 같애 그래서 말할게 look at me now look in my eyes 니 앞에 훤히 보이잖아 예전에 맘 여렸던 아이 철 없기만 했던 아이 더 이상은 아냐 look at me now look what you see I’m a beautiful lady 제발 오빠 오빠 날 사랑해줘 지금 all day all night 날 니 꺼 라고...
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...and the linoleum floors make me feel nauseous. The stench of bleach and dead skin lingers everywhere in this place. I’ve spent too much time here. A sixteen year old boy shouldn’t be in the quarantine wing of a hospital. I don’t belong here. It’s his fault. It’s all his fault. He is the reason I have no friends. He is the reason I’m scared to look anyone in the eye. He is the reason I’ve been called a freak, a drunk. I’m pathetic. I hate him. I want him dead. I need him to be better though. I need him to be my dad. Ever since Mum walked out, I’ve been broken. I’ve had to look after him and take him to the hospital whenever it progressed into something worse than usual. One bottle, two bottles, three bottles, four. Once he’d...
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...in the face. Everyone was happy to hear the news and to see the death picture of Osama Ben Laden it was published and shared all over the internet, some people were ever making fun of that death picture. After that a picture surfaced on internet that looked similar to the Osama Ben Laden death picture and it became popular on the internet, people’s opinion on that picture and gave different death dates of Osama Ben Laden and some said Osama Ben Laden still alive. Those news made me confused about Osama ben Laden’s death. But I realize now that I didn’t know something about Osama ben Laden’s death. That why I will analyze the picture that look same as the death...
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...the car window to let in some fresh air to help chase away the sleepiness that fogs my tired brain. I have to drive for another hour and I can't fall sleep. Perhaps, some music would work. I turn on the radio; the loud music fills my ear and I become wary. My office documents and files are dispersed over the passenger seat next to me. It was a hectic week. My company had offered me a proposal I couldn't deny. It would be a profitable share for my production. One day, I would be a rich and powerful...
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...“Hyuk Hyuk, nothing, it’s just that the look on your face yesterday was priceless, Hyuk Hyuk”, the thing replied. “Those two detectives just surprised me”, Light replied. “Yesterday you didn’t say a thing to me all day even though I keep talking”, the thing said. “What do you expect? You’re a shinigami for crying out loud, and no one else can see you. They’ll think I’m insane if I talk to you”, Light replied. Ryuk, a Shinigami/Death God. He has a monstrous yet a bit human like appearance, has big red eyes, scary face and huge hidden black wings. “Oh yeah, that lady detective is fast and quite smart to have been able to think that, Hyuk Hyuk”, Ryuk said while chuckling. “To be honest, it was out of my expectation that she was THAT smart”, Light said irritated. “Hyuk Hyuk, guess Light can be outsmarted by a girl sometimes”, Ryuk said. “Hmph”, Light replied. General POV “Phew, finally done with the groceries. Good thing I’m not needed in the case yet, I can enjoy a day off-like day”, I said as I went out the grocery store with a bunch of plastic bags in both of my arms. I walked in to the nearest cake shop that I can find then bought a strawberry cheesecake. As I went back to walking home, I noticed something fell on a vacant lawn. I went to the lawn to check what it is. “Hm? What’s this?”, I said as I picked up the item. “Death note?”, added. “Well, well, well, a girl picked up my death note”, a voice said coming from behind me. “Who are you?!”, I exclaimed as I...
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...picture me and you together. They say dating is a numbers game... so can I get your number? Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot? Is your daddy a Baker? Because you've got a nice set of buns! Did you invent the airplane? Cause you seem Wright for me. If I were a stop light, I'd turn red everytime you passed by, just so I could stare at you a bit longer. I wanna live in your socks so I can be with you every step of the way. I thought happiness started with an H. Why does mine start with U? I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours? Hey baby, you must be a light switch, cuz every time I see you, you turn me on! Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile. For a moment I thought I had died and gone to heaven. Now I see that I am very much alive, and heaven has been brought to me. Do you know what my shirt is made of? Boyfriend material. Did you sit in a pile of sugar? Cause you have a pretty sweet ass. Do you have a map? I'm getting lost in your eyes. I don't have a library card, but do you mind if I check you out? Are you an orphanage? Cause I wanna give you kids. I was feeling a little off today, but you definitely turned me on. I'm sorry, I don't think we've met. I wouldn't forget a pretty face like that. My buddies bet me that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the bar. Wanna buy some drinks with their money? Are you a fruit, because Honeydew you know how fine you look right now...
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...Dedication To my mother, who gave me the moment when Beatrice realizes how strong her mother is and wonders how she missed it for so long Contents Dedication Chapter One Chapter Two Chapter Three Chapter Four Chapter Five Chapter Six Chapter Seven Chapter Eight Chapter Nine Chapter Ten Chapter Eleven Chapter Twelve Chapter Thirteen Chapter Fourteen Chapter Fifteen Chapter Sixteen Chapter Seventeen Chapter Eighteen Chapter Nineteen Chapter Twenty Chapter Twenty-One Chapter Twenty-Two Chapter Twenty-Three Chapter Twenty-Four Chapter Twenty-Five Chapter Twenty-Six Chapter Twenty-Seven Chapter Twenty-Eight Chapter Twenty-Nine Chapter Thirty Chapter Thirty-One Chapter Thirty-Two Chapter Thirty-Three Chapter Thirty-Four Chapter Thirty-Five Chapter Thirty-Six Chapter Thirty-Seven Chapter Thirty-Eight Chapter Thirty-Nine Excerpt from Insurgent Chapter One Chapter Two Acknowledgments About the Author Back Ad Praise for Divergent Books By Veronica Roth Credits Copyright About the Publisher CHAPTER ONE THERE IS ONE mirror in my house. It is behind a sliding panel in the hallway upstairs. Our faction allows me to stand in front of it on the second day of every third month, the day my mother cuts my hair. I sit on the stool and my mother stands behind me with the scissors, trimming. The strands fall on the floor in a dull, blond ring. When she finishes, she pulls my hair away from my face and twists it into a knot. I note how calm she looks and how focused she is. She is well-practiced...
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...Running head: Japanese businessmen avoiding eye-contact during a meeting Japanese businessmen avoiding eye-contact during a meeting Abstract I would like to discuss the differences of Japanese Business men and their customs, but in particular their need to avoid eye contact. I will talk about my views and the views of others, surrounding this custom and why it is done or upheld. I will also discuss what is the driving force behind this custom. Japanese businessmen avoiding eye-contact during a meeting I have been working in the business community for over 20 years in a sales capacity. What I have found is that, you have to be extremely aware of the many cultures you have to deal with. For instance you have to know that many people from India are vegan, or that people in Hawaii are less formal than people in New York, so don’t show up in a suit. Or New York you better be dressed to the T, Tie and suit is not optional. One custom that I find hard to understand is Japanese businessmen avoiding eye-contact during a meeting. Japanese Business customs vs. American acceptance I have been working in the business community for over 20 years in a sales capacity. What I have found is that, you have to be extremely aware of the many cultures you have to deal with. For instance you have to know that many people from India are vegan, or that people in Hawaii are less formal than people in New York, so don’t show up in a suit. Or New York you better be dressed to the T, Tie...
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...from downstairs; I take one more look at my choice of outfit before going to the kitchen and eating my breakfast. "Where's dad?" I look up at my mum to see her over happy face, how can she be so happy about this? "He's gone to work; a different job means a different schedule." I don't question anymore as I finish my food, kiss my mum and little sister and run out the door. I get to school and head to the principal’s office, the woman at the desk lets me in and the principal stares me down. "Welcome Scarlet, here is you new class schedule, I have also assigned a buddy to help you get around the school." Before I know what's happening I'm out the office and facing a boy a little taller than me. "Hey." Man I'm awkward around new people, he doesn't look up as he whispers a small hello and walks off. I run after him and silently follow into a class room, he sits down and I get the feeling he doesn't like me. Too bad, the only open seat is next to him, I walk over and the teacher starts talking about random stuff. As the teachers going on and on I decide its best to at least have my 'buddy' half like me, so I write a note and slide it over to him, luckily he has a look and writes back. Me: what's your name? Him: Ben, yours? Me: Scarlet. Him: like red. Me: yeah, call me red if you want. Him: really? Cool, hey red. Me: hey Ben. Have I done anything wrong or offended you in any way? Him: no, why? Me: you looked like you didn't want to know me back there. Him: well, I thought...
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