...My schedule varies from week to week depending on my work schedule) Monday 7:05am daughters wake me up to take them to school 7:15am-7:25am dropping them off to school and driving on the way back home 7:40am tidying up the living room and kitchen area once I am done fall asleep in the living while watching espn news 8:05-2:20pm still sleeping 2:22pm my girls come from school fixing lunch before going to work 3:00pm- 100am (sometime I work overnights) I’m at work Tuesday 7:30-8:00am getting home from work (the day before probably worked an overnight shift) 8:15-2:00pm heading to school/ in class working on assignments or group activity 2:20pm –leaving school heading home getting ready for work 3:15pm-1:00am- at work Wednesday 7:10am- take the girls to school 8:00pm- working on any or making up any homework assignments that I may have missed 1:15pm- help prep dinner e.g., marinating the chicken 2:20pm sometimes I willl pick up my daughters up from the school bus stop 3:00-fixing them lunch…and helping girls with home work 5:00-6:00pm wife comes home from work would talk to her about several of topics 8:00pm-8:30pm eating dinner with family 9:00pm-9:30pm-send the kids to bed Thursday 7:05am-7:15am-waking up and taking the kids to school 8:30-1:30am-school 2:25pm-girls comes home from school 3:15pm fixing lunch for them to eat 3:20-help with any homework I can and the rest when my wife comes home...
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...Fisherman and His Wife [calm water, the fisherman arrives] One morning, as a fisherman was fishing in the sea, he caught a golden flounder. [the fish rises from the calm water] This flounder was actually an enchanted prince, so the fisherman granted his request to be released back into the water. [the water goes away and is replaced by a small house] Upon returning home that evening, the fisherman told his wife about the magic flounder. [enter the wife] WIFE You just let him go? FISHERMAN Well, yes. I could not kill an enchanted prince. WIFE He would have granted any wish you had! Go back and catch him again. This time, when he asks you to release him, ask him to grant you a wish. FISHERMAN Alright. What should I ask for? WIFE Ask him for a grand house. We have lived in this hovel for too long! [exit wife and hovel. The water returns, but the waves are turbulent] The fisherman caught the magic flounder yet again. FISH I am an enchanted prince. Please release me back into the water. FISHERMAN First, you must grant me a wish! FISH Sure. What is your request? FISHERMAN I would like a bigger house. FISH Release me and return home. Your wish has been granted. [exit the fish and the waves] Upon returning home, the fisherman is greeted with a grand mansion. [the hovel with the first larger overlay] WIFE Oh, it’s exactly what I’ve always dreamed of! FISHERMAN It is truly grand. Now we can live comfortably instead of in that hovel. WIFE But this...
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...Refining Solutions Travis Lara March 24, 2014 PHL-458 Carrie Woodhouse My issue happened about a year ago. I had to decide weather or not I should stay in the military or get out. This decision would change everything, not just in my life, but my families life. My first solution would be to stay in the military. With this solution came a lot of sacrifice. If I stayed in the military I would be receiving orders out of California, which is where home is, unaccompanied. Unaccompanied means that I would be moving without my family. I would be in a different state or country for two years without my family. The second solution would be to get out. The scary part about that is that I didn't have a job secured for when I got out as of yet. I had been applying through several law enforcement agencies and interviewing, but had not yet received a yes from any. I was given 24 hours to make the decision. I soon decided that the best solution for me was to get out. Although this is a decision left a lot to the unknown I just could not imagine being away from my wife and kids for two years. According to Ruggiero in Chapter 11 there are three steps to refining a solution. Step one is working out the details. In this step you need figure out exactly how your decision will be applied. Step two is finding imperfections and complications. In this step you check for common kinds of imperfections, compare the solution to competing ones, consider what changes your solution...
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...AFTER DINNER SPEECH I asked the chairman how long I should speak for this evening and he said; “Speak for as long as you like; but we’re going home at ten.” Before I start my speech, the management of this hotel have asked me to point out that the sign in the gents ‘Wet Floor,’ is a warning not an instruction. Before coming here today, I was forced to give my wife a lecture on home economy; and believe me there are going to be some changes. For starters I will be giving up drinking. I am afraid I have 2 disappointments for you today; the [eg Prime Minister] couldn’t make it;---but our next speaker could. Police cordoned off Liverpool City Centre this morning, when a suspicious object was discovered in a car. It later turned out to be a tax disc. I am sorry to report that # was in trouble with the Police recently for alleged assault, although he swears it was self defence. He was in B&Q, when an elderly man with orange overalls asked him if he wanted decking. On the way here I stopped in the local village and asked a man, “Which is the quickest way to [place you are at]?” He said, “Are you in a car or on foot?” I said, “In a car”. He said, “That’s the quickest way.” Another sign of growing older is, when you are faced with two temptations; And you chose the one that will get you home by 9 o’clock. I am not trying to say that Dave is a bad driver; but I would feel safer being driven home by Richard Hammond. One of the most bizarre MP’s expenses...
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...gray headed man could hardly stand. He wore a ragged shirt and dirty pants. Many people in the small town which they lived, looked up to the man for supporting his wife and kids, however there were a select few that saw him as trash. Never letting the words of others bring him down the old man perused on day after day in his routine. Every night after a long day his wife would run a hot tub of water and bathe her husband. On Wednesday’s the old man and his wife would wake up extra early and take what little money they had to the town shelter. There was a lady that worked at the store across from the shelter, her husband owned several street side stands and they were quiet wealthy. She would wait outside the store every Wednesday morning waiting on the old man and woman and say the same thing “you should keep your money, you all are just as poor”, and the old man would respond the same every time “we have what we need, and would like to help others have the same”. Sticking her nose up to the old man the thin blond haired lady would turn around and walk in side. His wife began to question him, “maybe she’s right, we don’t have much more than they do” she would say, dismissing her comment he would tell her she was talking nonsense. It was a regular Wednesday except the woman wasn’t outside; the husband looked to his wife in confusion and continued inside the shelter. They went home and...
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...In the essay “Why I Want A Wife” Judy Syfers explains why she desperately needs a wife. Also she explains why equality among men and women is important. Judy Syfers mentions wives roll in a relationship and how she thinks that every man really wants a maid not a wife to love. Young and with an education women have a need to be accepted. This thought might not be agreeable with a partner. Wives shouldn’t be treated like maids because they are the ones who keep the family together. And the most important part is when the two have a child. Both husband and wife must be there for the child. I believe that Judy showed that her massage was women are all used up and that she is fed up with it. That men take wives for granted. I think most of the essay she explains that she is a wife and wants to show other wives that they aren’t the only ones fed u with the system of marriage....
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... Cespedes1 Professor Wilfert English 101 25 February 2013 “I Want a Wife” By: Judy Brady Judy Brady is a freelance writer, writing topics mainly relating to the roles of women in society. Judy wrote the piece I Want a Wife right after the second wave of the feminist movement in the United States. The purpose of the movement was to have the right to vote and have the same equal rights as male citizens. Judy’s essay appeared in MS. Magazine in 1971. She used feminist humor to persuade her readers to look objectively at a man’s expectations of what a wife is and should be. Brady’s intended audience was women and men of that time period. Not only does she write to married couples, but people in general. I believe she is trying to get out to the public that these stereotypes of roles for women are wrong and should end! Judy writes in her article about the many demands of being a wife. According to Judy, a wife is also a worker, homemaker, mother, provider, and a sexual partner. She stresses that the roles of women are unfair to the roles of men. And she illustrates this by telling you all the roles. I want a wife who will cook, clean, take care of the children, and my sexual needs all while providing for our family so I can selfishly pursue my dreams (442). She is stirring up emotions for the reader in hopes that this will persuade you to take action. She is clearly telling women to stop...
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...accuses his spouse of adultery. In this article we examine the claim made by a christian writer that only husbands have the right to practise Li`aan' in islam, or in other words only husbands ( according to the christian writer ) have the right to accuse their spouses of adultery. The case of Li`aan' is explained in Soerah 24:6-11. Soerah 24:6-11 And for those who launch a charge against their spouses, and have (in support) no evidence but their own,- their solitary evidence (can be received) if they bear witness four times (with an oath) by God that they are solemnly telling the truth; And the fifth (oath) (should be) that they solemnly invoke the curse of God on themselves if they tell a lie. But it would avert the punishment from the wife, if she bears witness four times (with an oath) By God, that (her husband) is telling a lie; And the fifth (oath) should be that she solemnly invokes the wrath of God on herself if (her accuser) is telling the truth. If it were not for God's grace and mercy on you, and that God is Oft-Returning, full of Wisdom,- (Ye would be ruined indeed). The christian missionary comments: a woman apparently cannot charge her own husband similarly. A woman apparently can only defend herself against charges brought against her. She cannot play the equal role of the man as accuser. Response: The above comment made by the christian missionary is not correct and untrue. The scholars of ourdialogue.com comment: “When we speak of the masculine gender...
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...there were four processes, and these processes combined can signal an impending divorce. The four processes are the following: Contempt, criticism, defensiveness and stonewalling. Using examples from real life friends and family as well as the novel Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn, I will attempt to demonstrate the four processes. One clear indication of the first process, contempt is eye rolling. This shows that the eye roller feels that they are superior and contemptuous of their spouse. An excerpt from Gone Girl, a novel by Gillian Flynn shows the two main characters, Nick and Amy (husband and wife), who are involved in a difficult marriage. Here Nick is discussing his feelings on his marriage: I couldn't think of a decent thing I'd done in the past two years. In New York, those first few years of marriage, I'd been desperate to please my wife […] For two years I tried as my old wife slipped away, and I tried so hard—no anger, no arguments, the constant kowtowing, the capitulation, the sitcom-husband version of me […] Each action, each attempt, was met with a rolled eye or a sad little sigh. A ‘you just don't get it’ sigh… Nick Dunne This excerpt shows Nick’s frustration at his wife’s contempt....
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...Values Paper “The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.” Samuel Jackson The ethical dilemma that I would like to focus in on in my business is the ethical dilemma of spouses that are supervisors over there wives. This is a very serious dilemma and should be addressed in yours or my business atmosphere. This problem is unhealthy for a striving growing business and should not be tolerated by any means. From another perspective it may not look as an ethical dilemma, but working in the middle of this atmosphere you can clearly see the unethical practice of it. I will attempt to give you an inside view of the problems that are associated with spouses being supervisors over their wives and I will produce to you why this is an unethical dilemma. In this paper I will define all the relevant information using the four quadrants of the Potters box. I will show you the facts, just the facts. I will attempt to show you the eroding foundation of the loss of core values, the unethical principles behind it, and the loyalties that are compromised and destroyed in these situations. This dilemma is what we face in our business and it can and will be detrimental to any business. We will focus on the consequences that actions and policies have on the well-being of all persons directly or indirectly affected by the actions and policies. The most ethical one will produce the greatest balance of benefits over harms for all that are...
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...Who Wouldn't Want a Wife Marriage is one of the basic institutions of society. It has been researched and analyzed for centuries. Most beliefs have developed and changed, but some have remained as the fundamental basis. They are called marriage stereotypes or tenets being declared as true without giving proper reasoning. . In her essay " I Want a Wife", Judy Brady uses a pathos to describe the duties of a wife in the 1970's while writing in a persona of a husband. She explains why she would like to have a wife. Marriage stereotypes are certain ideas which are held true about marriage and roles of a husband and a wife in it. In Genesis 2:18 God states that it is not good that man is to be alone and He makes a helper suitable, or comparable to him. (Bible) A woman takes on the role of a helper when she marries, along with cooking, cleaning, and meeting the families need, according to society. At the beginning of the essay, Brady mentions that she belongs to that classified group of wives, married and with a child. As Brady is ironing clothes she starts thinking "I want a wife" after she thinks of a friend that ended being divorced and was waiting to find a wife. The author then reflects on her life and starts to write in a persona of a husband narrating all the duties that a wife would perform, as if narrating her own personal life. Not only does she want a wife that works but also attends to children, along with keeping up with their doctors appointment and attend to their...
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...simply in charge of being the perfect housewife and the perfect mother to the kids. In Henrik Ibsen’s play “A Doll House”, he uses several characters, such as Nora and Torvald to portray what a typical 19th century family looked like. Throughout the play we start seeing a change in the characters behavior, causing Nora to really question herself in being the wife and mother she should be. Because of the different roles between men and women, this leads to gender inequality causing Nora to leave her family behind....
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...Final Paper COM 200 Interpersonal Communication Instructor: Laticia Dezell June 18 ,2012 Dear, John and Jenny Congratulations on your first step in your journey through life together. This is an exciting and wondrous time that you will remember for the rest of your lives together. I remember when my wife and I started out together, the uncertainty, excitement, moving in together after our honeymoon. Speaking of honeymoons, life honeymoon period of the marriage soon will end and real life begins. This is the delicate balancing act that you and your lovely wife have to master to keep things fresh and fun throughout your lives together. I have learned a lot though my experience and would like to share with you those things that I have learned along the way that met help you experience life more fruitfully.There are going to be many times in your marriage that you are both will be angry with one another. Fighting will likely follow here are some ideas in working through the rough patches. All things are equal in your relationship. If you split the burden 50/50 your marriage will go a lot smoother.(James A. Kulik Sept.2011). When you are young you tend to think you have everything figured out. Well… you don’t. There is a lot of life to live and experiences to be had to give you wisdom and life experience. When you are married you become part of a team or partnership and you have to meet in middle or your life will be miserable. When you are you young to tend without knowing...
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...Sorrowful Woman 1. FIRST RESPONSE. How did you respond to the excerpt from A SECRET SORROW and to “A Sorrowful Woman”? Do you like one more than the other? Is one of the women – Faye or Godwin’s unnamed wife – more likable than the other? Why do you think you respond the way you do to the characters and the stories – is your response intellectual, emotional, a result of authorial intent, a mix of these, or something else entirely? Both writings were very well written and very enjoyable to read. “The Sorrowful Woman” and A Secret Sorrow were similar, although they were very different, due to the inner sorrow they both faced. I enjoyed reading A Secret Sorrow more than “The Sorrowful Woman” due to the fact that I was able to somewhat feel what Godwin’s unnamed wife was feeling. I responded to the characters in an emotional way. I found myself able to sympathize with both Faye and Godwin’s unnamed wife. They both have very deep issues, but being a mother myself, makes me have more empathy for Faye. I could not imagine what it would be to want to push my child or husband, nor could I imagine not being able to have a child of my own. 2. Describe what you found appealing in each story. Can you point to passages in both that strike you as especially well written or interesting? Was there anything in either story that did not appeal to you? Why? In A Secret Sorrow, I found Kai’s love for Faye most appealing. He did not look at Faye’s inability to have children not as a burden...
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...FUENTES-RAYA NUPTIAL Evangelical Mission College Chapel, Countryside Bangkal Davao City December 18, 2013 3:00P.M. “Now that I Have You” “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord”. Officiating Minister: Rev. Allan T. Raya This wedding ceremony is special to me because the bride is my sister and the groom is my disciple. Let me remind everyone on the reason why we are here today. We want to celebrate with the couple as well as become a part of them in their special day. [Marriage was not invented by man, but instituted by God. It was divinely designed not only to be the basic building block of society, but also to provide an earthly analogy of spiritual truth.] I do hope that this ceremony will be a reminder to those who are married to bring back the spark of their intimacy as well as those who are single to be prompted on the value of right process. Above all the fascination and the grandeur of the ceremony let me bring you into the heart of worship as we ponder the word of God. He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. Proverb 18:22 Building a family is a pursuit of every individual and marriage is a pre-requisite to that. But before marriage there should be an attraction and commitment between two persons. In other words love precedes marriage. However, we Christians think in different perspective. Especially in our organization and church that emphasize the reformed persuasion. We re-count our...
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