I think about how prevelent cheating has become now these days. It is actually so disheartening to know and hear about how people are able to look into his or her significant other eyes, say, “I love you” and not be faithful. It actually hurt my heart to read that Myrna Ten Bensel thought people were supposed to be married forever and have a happy ending, but then came to the realization that was not what God had in store for her. “‘He came home one evening, the evening of my son’s swimming banquet, and got all of us together and said, ‘i’m moving out. I’m divorcing your mother.’I did not know anything about it. He didn’t say the reason,”’ (Collins 275). I could not possibly imagine ever having to go through that. What an awful person her husband is. I cannot fathom how people could even remotely feel that to cheat on his or her significant other to be okay. …show more content…
Ever since I was a little girl I have dremped about my wedding day. One thing that I have noticed was that people who already have kids before they get married or someone with kids dates someone who does not it seems as though things never truly quite the same. I know that is not the case for everyone, but I would not be comfortable dating someone who had kids. Reading this chapter it was evident that Maria K’s boyfriend was not ready to be committed. “One night, “he told me he loved me, followed immediatly by the words ‘but i dont want to get married.’ So we just went along that way’” (collins 276). Once again, this is just my opinion, but I would not be comfortable with that. I have always grown up thinking you find someone, date, get married, and then have kids. Going out of order is just not my style. Even if someone does, does not mean I think any less of