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Narcissism In The Short Story Pancakes By Joan Bauer

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“Perfection is an illusion and those who seek perfection will find themselves unfulfilled their whole lives” (Fiona Childs). In the story Pancakes by Joan Bauer you will read about a girl named Jill and how she feels that everything always has to be perfect. You will see how she attempts to do everything by herself just to make it turn out the way she feels is best. You will also learn the lesson that no matter how hard we try nobody is perfect. As you read this story think about if you would classify yourself as a perfectionist like Jill does.

Andy broke up with Jill for being a perfectionist because he could not deal with someone who couldn't be happy unless everything went the right way. Jill had no choice but to classify herself as a perfectionist because that is exactly what she is. Whether it's how she has to iron all of her clothes before she puts them on, or having to get all the orders right a work, or feeling like she has failed, she had to have everything perfect! That definitely shows at her work, Jill was having a long day at work and everything turned inside out and backwards when a table of 66 came in. At this point of time Jill didn't even know where to start, after the huge table came in everyone started coming in. And she was the only waitress there. …show more content…
She didn't know weather to turn left or right, every table was filled and people were even getting there own coffee, which was not a good sign. At the end of her breaking point Andy her ex boyfriend came in with is family, at first she didn't even want to see him. However at the end she was so happy he came in because him and his family gave Jill all the help they possibly could. And that is where she realized that she needed to stop being a

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