Just as Eminem states, “The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed.” He is pretty accurate about this. You might have a feeling of how things will go, or plan you path, but the honest truth is, no one knows what speed bumps they will hit on their journey of life. You also never know who will jump out of nowhere and become one of the most important people of your life besides your family. For me this person came into my life at probably the best way possible. FFA brought many people in my life who will have a significant impact, but not many that will ever be able to leave my life. However it did bring a certain individual that made the most meaningful impact on my life so far. FFA brought Cody in my life and from the start I knew he would be around for a while. Cody’s’ impact on my life, or his Interdependency started our relationship stages off rather quickly. Interdependency, “is the quality that makes a relationship interpersonal, or the actions of one person have an impact on the other.” …show more content…
For example I found out about his future career goals, and hard stories about losing a close family member. We tried to push each other, and find out more about each other as we interacted alone, and in-group settings, around family, friends and livestock animals (which to us is family). As it states in the book, “ throughout the early relationship process- but especially during the involvement… partners continue to test each other,” we went further and asked more personal questions and got deeper into connection and started to develop more than friendly feelings, and started seeing a potential future in one another. (DeVito, 2015, p.