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I never thought that a single moment could change not only the trajectory of my life, but also, the way I see, feel, and hear everything. The moments leading up to the birth of my daughter, I would not have believed it to be possible. However, the second I saw Nova’s dirty blonde hair make its entrance into this world I knew my thinking was flawed.

All the trees in town were barren, their leaves long since made their ways to obscenely large black trash bags and compost piles. November had just said goodbye, while me and my wife we’re anxiously awaiting our chance to say hello to our first-born daughter for the first time.

Having been carrying the burden of two for every bit of two hundred and eighty days, my wife was exhausted. We spent hours on every mommy blog we could find -- filtering through all the myths on how to naturally induce labor in hopes of finding something that actually worked. We tried them all; Spicy foods and certain teas, but, as one would expect, none of them worked. That is until we read about how walking could help encourage labor. While it might have been coincidence, during a short walk around the block my wife’s contractions started screaming it was time. …show more content…
I was at a crossroad. My life was about to take a sharp turn to the right, and I was not sure if I was ready. I did not read the books I should have and I did not know the first thing about taking care of a child. I was not alone, though, I had a partner for this journey, I had my wife. What I did not read, she read. What she could not provide, I would. Knowing that, I gently sat my wife in a wheelchair that had been gathering snow by the entrance to the hospital and rolled her through the automatic sliding glass doors to our new

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