My primary caregiver who was my mother used the dismissive attachment style. My mother was not one to say that she loved us, but she would show her love in other ways. I can remember her saying, that she doesn’t need a man to do anything for her she could do it all on her on. My dad was not involved in my life from an early point. Moving forward having being raised by my mother with this dissimive style completely shaped and molded me to be the same way. For instance, I have always been very independent always doing things on my own without the help of anyone. I had my first job at fourteen and my own apartment at the young age of seventeen. My mindset was always that I would ask anybody for anything I would rather suffer and go without rather