Who has to take responsibility for your life and actions?
Only you can and only you should.

Whoever has that virtue of taking responsibility for their consequences that came from their intentioned acts and their non-intentioned acts really knows what is to take responsibility for their actions.
Today in our society they would like for us to believe that whatever it was that prevented us to reach what we desire in any subject is someone’s fault. It is clear that, in the bottom of our heart and mind we know that this is completely false. Responsibility is the road, not assuming responsibility signifies that we can’t accept to blame ourselves for our actions and current situations.
Scott Peck in The Road Less Traveled affirmed that one of the most difficult psychological conditions to treat the disorder of not taking responsibility for ourselves is the actual person - when the person really believes that is someone else’s fault for all her unfortunate situations. As you treat that person that always blames everything and everybody they need to get through their heads that they did it, they need to take responsibility for it and actions to fix what happened.
A great example of not taking responsibility for your actions is just by watching a judicial trial caused by an adult that doesn’t take responsibility for the crime they have committed. Another great example are the people who love suing the fast-food businesses, but wait didn’t they drive to the place? Didn’t they order the food? And haven’t they eaten it already? No one from the company made they go to their business and no one forced them to buy or eat the food! So now that they are obese and have health issues should they take responsibility for themselves and stop blaming someone else for the actions they made in the past? In my opinion individuals that blame others for their past actions not just abandoned the responsibility, they transferred the power, and the control they once had in their life into influence from others and just let someone else or something else take control of their life. Taking responsibility for your actions being good or bad is the key to a successful and healthier life style.
Point is that an important part of being a responsible adult in life is assuming responsibility for your actions, no matter what they may be. Many of us still have that child mindset that it’s better to blame someone else for our actions especially when they are bad ones. The reason we still have that is because when you were a child and tried telling the truth maybe our parents got very angry and instead of explain and saying why what we did was wrong, they would just get very angry. Punishments came along the way and sometimes even beating. Making the child scare of telling the truth and trying to solve or taking responsibility for their actions, because when they first tried to take control and follow through with their actions they saw the consequence of a punishment or beating. That shouldn’t be they way to explain to a child what they did was wrong and that’s definitely not the way to teach them to take responsibility for their actions.
A person can be very responsible to assume responsibility for their actions all they need is to be raised and taught how to reach responsibility.