...’’Say Yes’’ by Thomas Wolff The short story “Say Yes’’ by Thomas Wolff is a story there show us how people’s opinions can come between relationship and put some discussions in progress. The main themes in the text are differences but also love. The story is open, so the reader has a lot to think about, after reading it. the story is told from the husband’s point of view, which means that it’s told in 3rd person. It is also told in chronologically order, which means that the story was told in how the things originally happened We are introduced to a couple, a man and a woman, there are arguing while washing the dishes. In the dialog, we can see how the husband trying to be the best husband he can be. For example, the wife’s friend tells her: ‘’A few months earlier he overheard a friend of his wife’s congratulate her on having such a considerate husband, and he thought, I try’’ It’s showing how the husband is trying to be good, by washing the dishes with her every day. This could mean that he actually cares about the way his wife is seeing him. He wants to be good and mostly of all a good husband. We can see that, in his comment where he says “I try’’. That means he’s trying to be a good husband to his wife He cares a lot about her, but in the other way he is pushing her to her limits. We can see that in the dialog; ‘’Sometimes his wife got this look where she pinched her brows together and bit her lower lip and stared down at something. When he saw her like this...
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...Say yes The characters of this story are Ann and her husband, who remains unnamed throughout the story. The story begins in the late evening with a husband and his wife, Ann, are doing the dishes. As she washes and he dries them, the subject of white people marrying black people comes up. He feels that it is wrong, since they would never “know” each other, because of their cultural backgrounds and cultural differences. While doing the dishes, Ann, the wife, cuts her hand, the husband rushes to the bathroom to get the first aid kit to help his wife. he cleaned and bandaged her, and continued to do the dishes. He hoped that they were done arguing but she immediately continues with the question “would you marry me if I was black?” the husband gets quite upset now, and bursts out a big no. Ann then rushes into the living room and starts reading a magazine, rapidly going through the pages. The husband started cleaning the entire kitchen, and when he walks out with the garbage, he starts thinking about the argument, and the life they have had together. When he came in the house Ann was in the bathroom. He apologized through the closed door and promised to make it up to her. When she questioned this, he said he would marry her. She tells him to go to bed, and to turn off the light, as he laid there waiting for her in the darkness, his heart began to pound really fast, just like the first time they were together, or when hearing a stranger in the...
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...There are many positive effects of inclusions where both the students with special needs along with the other students in the classroom both benefit. Research has shown positive effects for children with disabilities in areas such as reading individualized education program (IEP) goal, improving communication and social skills, increasing positive peer interactions, many educational outcomes, and post school adjustments. Positive effects on children without disabilities include the development of positive attitudes and perceptions of persons with disabilities and the enhancement of social status with nondisabled peers. Several studies have been done on the effects of inclusion of children with disabilities in general education classrooms. A study on inclusion compared integrated and segregated (special education only) preschool students. The study determined that children in the integrated sites progressed in social skills development while the segregated children actually regressed. Another study shows the effect on inclusion in grades 2 to 5. The study determined that students with specific learning disabilities made some academic and affective gains at a pace comparable to that of normal achieving students. Specific learning disabilities students also showed an improvement in self-esteem and in some cases improved motivation. Now a day’s many Filipino’s had a lessen IQ. They cannot understand well in a short day, and in a short year of education so, I think K+12 programs...
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...Science says there is 6 reasons people say yes! The Six Principles of Influence ( Six Weapons of Influence) were created by Robert Cialdini, Regents' Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing at Arizona State University. Cialdini identified the six principles through experimental studies: The six principles are as follows: 1. Reciprocity As humans, we generally aim to return favors, pay back debts, and treat others as they treat us. According to the idea of reciprocity, this can lead us to feel obliged to offer concessions or discounts to others if they have offered them to us. One example of this concept was tested with Mints being handed out with the bill at restaurants. Tips increased with server giving more than three mints and telling the customer that for being great customers she gave them extra. Tips increased exponentially. 2. Commitment Cialdini says that we have a deep desire to be consistent. For this reason, once we've committed to something, we're then more inclined to go through with it. For instance, you'd probably be more likely to support a colleague's project proposal if you had shown interest when he first talked to you about his ideas. 3. Social Proof This principle relies on people's sense of "safety in numbers." If you have ever been in a hotel and read the sign suggesting reuse of towels. Hotels learned that by putting a statement saying how many guests reuse towels the number actually increases. “90% of hotel guests reuse their...
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...A Knack for Excellence Is striving to graduate with Honors really worth the struggle? You might be wondering, is he really taking it there? Well, Yes I am. What if you gave and dedicated your life and soul, solely on achieving this honor and still don’t make it? Yes, I’m sure it looks great on a resume and one may feel like they have accomplished life’s greatest feat, especially when graduating from a Harvard, Yale, Princeton or any other highly-notable University with such prestigious of a honor; but neither life nor success in life is solely characterized by acquiring A’s in school. So is it really worth it, and what does it truly mean to graduate with honors? As the film “With Honors” depicted, for Harvard it meant everything, but he realized the bigger picture in the end. I believe graduating with ‘Honors’ should be considered more than a goal. It should be considered a way of life, a lifestyle so to say. In the film, “With Honors”, ‘Harvard’ was at the mercy of Simon, the ‘Harvard Bum’ who found his thesis paper. Even though Harvard failed to graduate with honors from Harvard, he essentially did one thing right when he chose to chase a dream of graduating with Honors. He set his goals high! He set his eyes on the prize and began a figuratively climb upward the likes of a Mt. Everest; with Mt. Everest being his graduation from Harvard with quote, unquote, honors. Simon taught them that just graduating with a flimsy piece of paper can only get them so far, that...
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...times out of ten I am the first employee an incoming customer sees. Nine times out of ten I am the first employee to observe a customer’s behavior, prepare myself to act as fake as the ingredients in processed foods, and provide the customer service that I am required to do as specified in my job description. There are several factors that play into where a customer lies on the “enjoyable” to “ready to march my-underpaid-self straight out the front doors” scale, and I within a 60 second interaction with a person, I can put them exactly where they belong. Like most food based businesses, we have our regular customers that come in anywhere from 1 to 15 times per week to get their favorite drink, snack, meal, or bakery item. I can proudly say I adore approximately 80% of them. I have multiple “family members” that aren’t necessarily blood related to me. This 80% of the regular customer population fall under the enjoyable, crazy (but lovable) family members, tolerable idiots, and Chatty Cathies. Some occasional and even first time customers can also fit into these categories. Joyce and Rich come in once or twice per day, if weather permits, to get their hot and iced decaf/hazelnut coffee with a little bit of cream in each, sit at a booth big enough to play cards but small enough to easily get in and out of, and to...
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...“IT Doesn’t Matter” Management Information Systems The Idea that “IT Doesn’t Matter” as proposed by Nicholas Carr in the Harvard Business Review article that was published in 2003 raises just as many questions as it does answers to this very question as well as it has stirred up quite a bit of controversy over since its publication. What Carr is saying unlike the title of the paper he does not say there is no need for IT. The idea was to draw up controversy. Carr’s argument is to have a strategic advantage within IT. Something no one else has is extremely important. IT has become a huge cost for many organizations but other things have gone down in cost. Our Infrastructural technology of today in terms of transportation of goods it helps deflate prices. It is essential for competition to have IT but inconsequential for strategy for many organizations. What Carr is saying essentially is yes IT is an important to tool to help organizations achieve their goals daily however it is not the core of the business. The core is the strategy that each company possesses that makes it stand out from the rest and ultimately make that organization successful. The title of the original HBR article was misleading. Mr. Carr is not arguing that information technology doesn’t matter. Of course it does. Among other things, IT improves productivity by reducing communications, search, and trans- action costs, and by automating all sorts of tasks previously done by humans. But Mr. Carr asserts that...
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...300 SECRETS 1. A life is a terrible thing to waste. So easy to beat yourself up over mistakes you've made. So many amongst us live in the past rather than loving the present and building a brilliant future. First of all, no one tries to fail or mess things up. Every one of us wakes up in the morning, walks out into the world and does the best we can do based on what we know and the skills we have. But even more importantly, every so-called "mistake' is actually a rich source of learning. An opportunity to build more awareness and understanding and gain precious experience. Just maybe what we could call failures are actually growth lessons in wolf's clothing. And just maybe the person who experiences the most, wins. 2. A world-class company puts systems in place to ensure consistency of results. If you want to get something done and if you want to see consistent results, build a system around it. Celebrate the previous days wins and then rededicate to work for the mission. Systems‛ thinking builds structures into your life so that your best practices actually get integrated into your life. Systems allow you to live in a proactive rather than in a reactive way. And having a bunch of systems in place to keep you at your best doesn't mean that your life will be overly structured and full of stress Because nothing deprives a human being of happiness as much as seeing a life being wasted. 3. ABC. Always Be Connecting with everybody, everything around you. The best leaders build strong...
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...experienced one of these and it’s kind of a routine. Anyway, this may sounds a little bit a bookworm of me but the truth is, I have read a hundred and twenty three books on how to win a girl's heart and with those incessant thoughts and words I have come to meet, none of it actually work. I don't know if I read the book cover quickly or didn't understand the selection really or getting dumped is just really in our blood. But as far as I can see, all of uncles, cousins and even my father has become the Hercules of every lady's heart and the way i figured it, I can never follow their footsteps. But everything changed when I met the acquaintance of Audrey Griffith, a classmate of mine in a military school, mystery, yes it is, that of all the high schools, I got involve with those gun...
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...likelihood, they didn’t. Consider the many women who have left large corporations to start their own businesses, obviously exhibiting enough confidence to succeed on their own. Judgments about confidence can be inferred only from the way people present themselves, and much of that presentation is in the form of talk. The CEO of a major corporation told me that he often has to make decisions in five minutes about matters on which others may have worked five months. He said he uses this rule: If the person making the proposal seems confident, the CEO approves it. If not, he says no. This might seem like a reasonable approach. But my field of research, socio-linguistics, suggests otherwise. The CEO obviously thinks he knows what a confident person sounds like. But his judgment, which may be dead right for some people, may be dead wrong for others. Communication isn’t as simple as saying what you mean. How you say what you mean is crucial, and differs from one person to the next, because using language is learned social behavior: How we talk and listen are deeply influenced by cultural experience. Although we might think that our ways of...
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...ENGL111 Common phrases for Social Exchanges You will face many situations in your life when will need to use English in short social exchanges with others. These social exchanges can help us fulfill various ‘functions’ such as ‘Introducing ourselves’ or ‘Asking for permission’; social exchanges vary according to the informal or formal relationship between the speakers. Several ‘functions’ are listed below; in the left column are just a few examples of appropriate phrases which can be used, while the dialogues in the right column demonstrate short illustrative examples of common social exchanges. It is expected that you will practice these phrases and social exchanges during the Semester and become fluent in performing them, so that you develop skill and confidence in using English appropriately in various social situations. A | Greetings | Hi!Hello!How are you?How are you doing?How’s everything? How are things?How’s it going?What are you up to?Same as usual. | A: Hi! Mandy. How are you?B: Hi, Phoebe. I’m fine. Thanks. And you?A: I’m fine.A: Hi! Mandy. What are you up to?B: Not a lot. And you?A: Same as usual. | Hi!Hello!I am fine, thank you. And you?Fine, thanks. And you?Good!Great!Very well.Not bad. What about you?Can’t complain. I know how you feel. | A: Hi, Jacky. How are things?B: Hi, Sam. Great. How’s everything with you?A: Everything’s fine. A: Hi, Jacky. How’s it going?B: Can’t complain. Just finished a project and have another due on Friday.A: Yeah I know how you...
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...Disclaimers: I don’t own glee… If I did there would be a lot of Faberry moment AN: They didn’t meet Quinn yet (except for a certain brunette) Please Read and Review because it would certainly make my day Chapter 1: Can I Be of Help? The cold breeze can be felt almost instantly in this blur night, Rachel sign and her breath can be visibly seen, and she shivers and hugs herself. She looks up at the 70 feet building. It all started when they all agreed to spend their vacation in Las Vegas, the place for relaxation, Entertainment and Gambling, and all of it happened when they luckily won 10 tickets at some lottery. It was just by luck that Puck clumsily tripped and disturbed, its’ momentum and got the jackpot, Kurt and Rachel squeal with all their might leaving everyone around them deaf. Each one of them went and packed their things and saying their goodbyes to their parents and went off. The ride to the airport was Hell, Santana always wanted to stop at every store they come into, Brittany occasionally wants to go at detours, Sam won’t stop talking about X-Men and the Avengers ,Finn is snoring really loudly and Jesse was disturbingly looking at the mirror, like his worshiping his face and was like trying to propose to himself the only normal there was Rachel, sitting quietly with Ear buds in her ear, Blaine and Kurt talking to each other, Tina doing something on her computer and lastly Puck who was trying to ignore his Friends weird antics, when they...
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...Say Yes to Marijuana Marijuana has been a big controversy over the last couple of years. There are many arguments towards it, many people say that it should be legal since it has shown no bad effects on people, while others say it has shown bad effects on people and should be legal. There have been many accounts of people saying that marijuana has helped them with pain when dealing with a severe disease such as cancer, seizures, chrons disease and even muscle spasms. Many have come out to say that marijuana has helped them with gaining back there appetite. While many people would say that marijuana should stay illegal, marijuana should be legal for medical reasons. Marijuana is a drug that comes from the plant cannabis sativa. Many use it because it gives them heighten perception, relaxation, and put them in a good mood. Some people also use it because it gives them an appetite and can help with the pain from chemo therapy. Recently a man from Australia was arrested for giving his 2 year old dying daughter cannabis oil. The daughter was suffering from late stage cancer. When he gave his daughter the cannabis oil he began to see that his daughter was getting and appetite and had started eating again. The man was...
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...execute these orders no extra effort at all. Well one things for sure this seems to be a daily occurrence in my life, and don't think its limited by the size of the task in hand. Well one thing I always think about in the moment of climax when said person tells me that they haven't completed the most basic of tasks is, what is going on in your head. This question I seem to find my self mulling over a considerable amount of time; as to really figure out what goes on up there. Is it just that they’re super focused on something else, like of piece of work that needs completing right now, but surely they can find some way to manage their life and do the tasks which they have been set. For your average everyday person it’s more understandable, yes it is heller annoying and we all hate it and sometimes it can be quite a significant thing not to do; but when its your job, when they are in a professional job and they still fail to meet your expectations. Then at this point dam I just wanna start busting some skulls. It’s just not fair when you are paying your own hard...
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...Henri Boulangerie: Creating and Using a Master Budget BACKGROUND PART I: CREATING THE BUDGET MEETINGS WITH DIVISIONAL MANAGERS Henri Boulangerie is a medium-sized regional bakery that specializes in providing orders to grocery and convenience stores. Because of the popularity of its brand, it has also opened a small café for walk-in business. In order to maintain its high quality standard, Henri produces only three products: breakfast muffins, fresh bread, and chocolate chip cookies. Although business has been good in the past few years, a lucky contact with a large chain has recently allowed it to expand its brand out of the local region. Growth has been high since the new contract went into effect. Andy Griff, the chief executive officer (CEO) and founder, has arranged a meeting with a venture capital firm next week. Hopefully the meeting will result in the sale of some of Henri’s stock and an opportunity to establish a significant line of credit with the venture capital firm. These extra funds, if Andy can secure them, should provide sufficient money to meet Henri’s growth targets for the next few years. The venture capital firm’s assessment team has asked Andy to provide a quarterly master budget for the year that just began, complete with pro forma financial statements, at the meeting. They have expressed special interest in Henri’s earnings per share (EPS), cash flow from operations, and profit margins, indicating that good numbers in these...
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