...The argument whether girls should ask guys out emerged because of the advancement in the women society of the world in the 21st century. Those days are redeeming when it was a man’s job to court a lady and never the other way round. However, there are still territories where for many women it is a thrust to ask man out. This is happening either because of the tradition or perhaps just a bad case of nerves. Interestingly there are parts of the world where every day is a Sadie Hawkins day. Sadie Hawkins day is a day where women got to ask men out on dates (Scroggins, 2012). According to Mills (2012), “The tradition in dating has been for the guy to take the risk and ask the girl out, while the girl would just sit back and give the guy signals that she’s interested, or not.” Men used to be superior in relationships. They were the ones who used to go to work, support their family and take the important decisions of the family whereas in today’s world women are taking equal part in it in most of the cases. Clemons, J, J (2012) said, “Part of the change in females is the progression of the feminist movement. Women have more confidence. Women are becoming dominant in the workplace. They are no getting married as quick. They are not having kids. They also have begun out-numbering men in college.” Even though still the debate remains if girls asking boys out is legitimate or not. The only way to get something is ask for it. This rule applies just as much to relationships as it does...
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...A Guy Explains: Can a Girl Ever Ask a Guy Out? By Scott Christian September 19, 2014 There is one question I get asked probably more than any other by my female friends: Can a woman ever ask a man out? And while the question maybe isn’t a rhetorical one, it’s rare that the asker doesn’t already know the answer. It’s really more of a test of the current cultural barometer than anything else, and the best I can offer on this one is—short answer, no, long answer, no but… Now, I’m certainly aware of how frustrating this reality can be, especially when a guy you like just isn’t doing any asking. And I don't necessarily agree with it and happen to really respect women who take the initiative. But if you want to know what the majority of guys out there think, then yes—it's better to let him as you out. If the roles were reversed and it was up to us as a gender to charm you into asking us out, let’s just say that the human race would have petered out a couple of thousand years ago. Yes, we are scared. And we sometimes fail to act, even when we want to. But the issue remains problem that when a girl asks a guy out, more often than not for the guy it just feels weird. Don't shoot the messenger! Success is not impossible—there are certainly some guys out there who would love it if a woman asked them to go on a date—but the reality is that, at best, you’re maybe looking at a 50 percent success rate. If you're still game to try it, here are four examples of how the whole thing can go...
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...family. A guy who wants to date a girl must ask for her parents' permission. In case no permission is granted, it is highly unlikely for the date to actually happen, unless in some cases that the girl and guy sneak out and date out secretly. However, this is morally unacceptable in Philippine culture. Filipino parents are very strict with their children having romantic relationships. Brothers are generally protective of their sisters. Even cousins and other relatives are protective of their young female cousins and relatives. They become more lenient when their daughters, sisters and relatives reach the legal age of 18. When picking up the girl at her home for a date, it is common to provide gifts to the family members (parents, grandparents and siblings) as well. Parents usually want to have some conversation with the guy and ask about his family and educational background before they can go out for a date. First Date The first date is officially a time to get to know each other. The couple ask about each other’s backgrounds and it is highly unlikely to have a passionate kiss after the date. Some girls allow a kiss on the cheek after the first date, but this varies per person and per couple. Some guys don’t even get the chance to hold the hand of their conservative dates. However, the more liberal females are more open to intimacy, even during the first date. Traditionally, the girl should not provide a hint that she actually likes the guy except that...
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...Your First Date with a Girl Information provided by Disabled World - Published: 2009-02-12 So you successfully got a gorgeous girls phone number and it's time for you to go on the first date? Are you feeling nervous? Don't worry, guys. That's perfectly normal | The fact of the matter is that we all get nervous at some point. It's not whether or not you get nerves; it's how you handle those nerves. When you are on a date with a girl you hardly know it's always best to move at a nice pace and not force anything. There will be many openings throughout the night (if she likes you that is). Signals and positive body languages will permeate her soft skin. So you will know if she wants you to take a step further (inviting you in) or stay at bay (telling you to stay back). So how will you know if you are having a good first date? The first date is the most important date because it sets the tone. Does she feel like the date can go forever? Or does she keep looking at her watch and wondering why the time is moving so slowly? I will show you how to have the perfect first date and not screw things up. Follow these rules and she will ask you to follow her home... First thing is first... always be kind and respectful to her. I don't care if you think she is just a fling or a one night stand; treat her with some type of respect and dignity. All women like to feel cherished and appreciated. Compliment her on her beauty. Remember, she took the whole day just to get ready for the date...
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...THE REAL 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS THAT GIRLS DON'T KNOW!. SO GIRLS PLEASE READ THIS ** HERE'S 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS 1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls. 2. Guys hate flirts. 3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards. / 4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is. / 5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering. 6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics. 8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile. / 9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention. 10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend. 11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. 12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! / 13. Guys cry!!! 14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will. / 15. Guys can never dream and hope too much. 16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat. 17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back. 18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would...
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...50 Examples Of What To Text A Girl Posted by Carlos Xuma on Apr 19, 2012 in Miscellaneous Dating Tips For Guys | Comments Off Sure, there are lots of blog posts on what to text a girl, but none that reveal 50 things to text a girl AND why they create so much attraction, until now! And before I give you this incredibly long and pretty awesome list of what to text a girl in specific situations, I just want to say that these are guidelines. These aren’t rules you MUST follow dude… Because you don’t have to use ALL my examples of what to text a girl to GET the girl. Just experiment, see what works best for you, and keep doing what works. And secretly? I want to show you WHY all of these examples work so well, so you can invent many more yourself and become a rock star of texting girls. But more on that later… Let’s check out some examples of what to text a girl already! What To Text A Girl When You’ve Just Met Her When you’ve just met her it’s important to keep the attraction going. To keep her interested. What does that mean when it comes to what to text a girl? It means challenging her, teasing her, being picky, being mysterious, being hard to get, being dominant… and the list of things you can do via text to keep her interested goes on and on. Let’s see what to text a girl to keep her interested is all about… 1. “Hey you. Yeah YOU! Can you keep a secret?” Of course when you text a girl like this she’ll be curious and say “YES” and ask why, after which you’ll say: ...
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...when trying to pick up girls in any situation. This report will go through the basics of these methods so you will know just how to pick up ladies! Opening You can either open a lady directly or indirectly, each have their own unique purposes. Direct is going up to a lady and directly telling her that you are interested. E.g, Hello I just had to come meet you because you're stunning. When being direct you are stating that you are interested in her and if she accepts this and starts talking to you, you are well in. Indirect is when you ask a lady a question. For example, Who do you think lies more men or girls? Then let her know why you are asking her this null my friend thinks guys, but I'm 100% sure its girls'. This opening will start up more conversations due to the fact you are not hitting on her, thus your not a threat. Having said that null could end up in the friend zone I prefer direct in most cases as it is a lot more efficient, as you find out the truth about where the interaction is going a lot faster. Make yourself stand out from the crowd Since she is now opened up, we need to prove we are not like the regular men who open her, with all the same boring questions e.g., what do you do? Null. Now I can't stress this enough, avoid these questions at all cost in the first 5 minutes as they are boring and we want to make the woman happy to meet you! We need to prove we are not one of those regular guys who is just going to ask her the same questions...
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...most ridiculous stuff imaginable but, only by trying different things, was I able to find out what worked for me. You see, sometimes failing is the only way to LEARN your lesson but it should never be a reason to give up. If you think you're failing, or want to fail a whole lot less, this article is here to show you the 40 most important rules that I've learned to live by. Read them, remember them and who knows, you might actually succeed without having to fail so much 1. Don’t give a shit. Not giving a shit is hard to fake and I’ve yet to meet a successful player that cared. 2. Always scout the chicks. Going for girls that have a low "banged by you" probability just means you're wasting your time. 3. Don’t fantasize about her before having sex. Chicks are always more interesting and beautiful before the actual act, fantasizing before only makes you sad when it doesn’t happen. 4. Know the importance of alcohol. While you can take girls out for coffee, taking them out for drinks will dramatically increase your chances of scoring. 5. Stay on your toes. While approaching girls may be the easiest way to score new prospects, it’s never the only way. 6. Know how to close and do it when the time is right. 7. Approach at least 7 girls a week. If you’re not doing this, you’re not exploiting your true potential. 8. Always have an opening line. When in doubt, just say “Hi”. 9. Never go out if you’re not feeling your best, you’ll just waste everyone’s time. 10. Only compliment women...
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...3. Type/name of the program: How I Met Your Mother, CBS channel 4. Title: How I Met Your Mother, season 2 episode 7 – The Crazy Eyes (Swarley) DESCRIBE THE 20 MINUTE ACTION: Ted, Marshall and Barney are sitting in a coffee shop where they figured out is not as fun as sitting in a bar. While drinking their coffee, Ted notices a heart on Marshall’s cup. He and Barney assume that coffee shop girl has a crush on Marshall. They are encouraging him to invite her on a drink. Marshall brags about how she likes his pumpkin jokes. That in Ted’s opinion can mean only two things – either girl has never heard a joke before, or has a crush on Marshall. Marshall is, however, not convinced. Ted and Barney try to prove him that heart next to his name is meaning something. When doing that, Barney discovers that his name is not written correctly. Instead of Barney is Swarley. He realizes this name will stick to him. Second scene takes place at Robin’s apartment. Robin is girlfriend of Ted. She is on the phone with her mother, but she is willing to talk to Ted even though her mother is still speaking. Ted tells her about Marshall and his date and that he helped him get the girl. Robin discovers that look, that made her sleep with Ted was fake. She can’t believe she fell for it until Ted reminds her that she has a familiar look for seducing. Lily, Marshall’s ex-girlfriend appears with plans for next evening. She is considering inviting Marshall too, but Ted tells her that he is busy. Lily...
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...A Look into a Guys Mind Amber Guenon Tall, dark, and handsome are just some characteristics that a female would want in her man. Throw in a crooked smile and a warm body to cuddle up with, and a girl would be set and stone with this guy. But, wait she’s dreaming she could never get a guy like that unless he’s looking for the same thing, right? What does a guy look for in a girl anyway? Do they want skinny, blonde, dumb, and will absolutely do anything for him (like make a sandwich)? That is what most girls would believe about a guy, that all they care about is looks and sex. Well that isn’t the case so I have found out recently. I have created a survey with 15 simple questions that I know a guy would understand; I had 25 men take this survey and be completely honest throughout the questions. Guys ranged through the high school from 15-17 years of age, all who have different outcomes of what they look for in a girl. First will be body type, second will be about the women sense of style, and thirdly the women’s maturity and sex drive. Let’s see what you boys’ have said. Bodies type what could this mean to a guy? The #1 question asked, “Do you prefer a female with a small built, medium built, or a large built body?” Out of those 25 men 85% wanted a medium built woman, 10% wanted a skinny woman, and nobody wanted a bigger woman. Leading to our next question was what they’re perfect female height, weight, and age would be. The men averaged out to about 5 foot 6 inches for...
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...and I already want to go home. You want to know why? I don’t know either. I just don’t feel like going to class today, but I have to. I went to my first class. And guess what? The teacher was boring me to death. I wished this semester was over because of her. I sighed. Then someone from behind me tapped my shoulders. “Yes?” I said as I turned to look at the person. Oh, a girl. “Sighing on the first day? That’s not good.” Then she smiled. Okay. That was weird. I was like ‘are we close or something?’, though I didn’t tell her that straight to her face. I just laughed. I’m not good with talking to girls, especially those who are prettier or cuter than me, even though I’m a girl too. I get intimidated by them. I’m the kind of girl that’s more comfortable with guys. “Is there someone sitting beside you? Is it okay if I sit there?” “It’s okay, I don’t mind” “Thank you!” and then she sat. We didn’t talk the whole time after she sat beside me. Maybe she doesn’t like me. I didn’t want to talk to her anyway. She seemed like a bitch. I sighed again, and then the teacher dismissed us. I was in a hurry to get out of that room but someone tapped my shoulders, again. And it was her, again. “What’s your next class?” she asked. “Its Business Communication, but I still have a 2-hour break before it starts. What about you?” “That’s my next class too; I think we have the same schedule. Mind if I look at your schedule?” “Sure.” Then I gave it to her. After a few scans, she gave it back...
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...Sarah Crement 11/13/13 Compare and Contrast Dating Then Vs. Now I asked my mom the other day what dating was like when she was a teenager. I was shocked to find out that almost everything she told me was different than how dating is nowadays. From what she told me, dating seemed to be very traditional and what it still should be like. The point of dating was to find a husband or wife. But now it isn’t like that at all. There aren’t any teenagers that are looking to find someone to marry. There’s even kids in elementary school that are supposively “dating”. When it comes to a first date, my mom said when she was my age the guy would take her out to a fancy restaurant or a movie. The guy would ring the doorbell to get her and then have to speak to her parents first before they left. Sometimes on dates the guy would buy her flowers or a gift of some sort. And of course the guy would always pay for whatever they did. Now when it comes to dating, instead of going out somewhere nice, the girl is usually stuck at her date’s house. Doing nothing. Because the guy either doesn’t have money or doesn’t care about the girl enough to spend the money. Also, instead of being a gentlemen and coming to the door to get the girl, he would wait in his car and text her saying “here”. How most people met each other back then was through school, work, or maybe even parties. Meeting was always face-to-face because there was really no other way of doing it. But now I would say about 75% of...
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...get a hot girl to like you over text can be straight up frustrating sometimes! I have met some women and had great interactions with them, only to have everything fizzle out once we moved to talking through the phone. As texting has become one of the standards of communication, I realized how important it was to get my texting game down and handled.The reality of beautiful women When a guy first sees a girl, before speaking to her he is definitely attracted to the way she looks. The thing is, what is attractive to him can also be attractive to other guys, so some girls tend to get hit on A LOT. Think of the girl who gets “cat-called” when she walks down the street, or awkwardly started at by unconfident guys in a bar who are too scared to start up a conversation. Let’s say these types of interactions happen to her at least seven times a week (though it could...
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...and the procrastinators. But let’s get started first with the men. Firstly, we have the lunks and if you’ve ever been to a gym these are probably the guys you’re going to have a tough time tuning out. They’re storm around draped in their muscle tees and lifting belts with their tattoos gleaming from the buckets of sweat rolling off their skin. They grunt with every rep, drop their weights to the floor without constraint and are ultimately the nosiest people you will find at the gym. Next, you have the punks. These guys are the ones looked down upon at the gym. Often times they’re dragged there by their female companions who are looking to burn some weight and are in dire need of a cheer leader. These guys fill that role! They’re the weak ones, often times afraid to step anywhere near a free weight. They are there simply to provide support to their female companions. Thirdly, we have the hunks. Now these guys are dedicated to fitness but aren’t as boisterous as their lunk brethren. They go in, get their work done and look great doing it. They display proper gym etiquette, minding their own business, putting weights where they belong and never grunting or making annoying noises. They will usually be the guy that the girls are fixated to when scoping around for eye candy. They will probably the guy that girls will ask for assistance...
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...in that dress." Compliment the woman, not the article of clothing! * Never touch a girl on her hips until you get really serious. Make a romantic move if you feel ready. She will feel important, and that someone actually likes her. If she says to stop, stop. Nothing is worse than a girl seeing you as a harasser. If she acts a little odd, stop. Don't take it personally because some girls just don't know how to act around guys. Do it another day if this happens. * Show sympathy and affection. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a quick hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better. This works very well, because then the girl knows you care about her. * If you have braces,nnm glasses and acne... don't be disheartened! Most girls don't mind what's on the outside but don't be a total scruff. Girls put a lot of effort into their appearance, perhaps you should do the same. But don't think just because you have braces, glasses, or acne, that the world is over, sometimes it works! Lots of girls think braces and glasses are attractive, and many girls can get past a bad skin complexion (although they may tease you about it). * Have good posture! * Don't act tough or try to be a thug. This doesn't attract girls. * Don't follow her around everywhere. It automatically gives you a reputation as a stalker, and it will freak her out. Even following her just a little can create a stalker rep., depending on how you act....
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