...Tsinghua SEM | Stepping Out of Comfort Zones | Leadership and Organizational Behaviors | Zhang Xiaohao 2012213230 | Table of Contents Introduction2 Motivation2 General flow2 Literature review3 Definition of comfort zones3 Exploring the uncertainty4 Defeating the fear of failure5 Stretching the comfort zones6 Real life experiences8 Small circles formed unconsciously8 Risk avoidance due to fear of failure9 Development plan12 Mentally prepared and force to step out12 Proactively step out in new environment12 References13 1. 2. Introduction: Motivation of this paper “Comfort zone” was the first word that came into my mind when I was thinking about the topic of my paper, because I know I am the one who always want to stay in my comfort zones, which may impede my way to become a good leader or a successful person. So, I need to step out of my comfort zones on purpose once in a while, to improve my leadership skills and interpersonal skills. To finish this paper, first, I conducted a wide range of research on internet about “comfort zones” and “leadership”, finding that a lot of people shared the same feeling with me and there are plenty of articles in this specific area. I’ve learned a lot from the literature review stage, and knew more about how the “comfort zones” formed and its impacts. Then I reflected to some real life experiences of myself, further understood the reason why I would like to stay in my comfort zones and...
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...Remember growing up and going to carnivals with your parents and begging them to let you go on the bouncy castles and rides? “Mommy! Mommy! Can I please go on the bouncy castle!” and then getting to go and asking again. “Mommy! Mommy! One more time, pretty please!” Well, that was never me when I was growing up. And it was not until last spring when I stepped into a bouncy castle obstacle course for the first time. Think about getting to go on a bouncy castle obstacle course for the first time. You are excited and pumped to see what this new experience will feel like. You wait anxiously in the line to get on that bouncy castle, even better, you get on to race your friend. You are on and you race to see who will win. You or your friend? Just...
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...she huffed, pissed that her co-worker had turned on the lights. She thought to herself, "Just make it through the day Taylor. You only have to be here until 12:30. Once the interns get here, freedom will be yours...You can do it." Work for Taylor, isnt what most people would call work. She works for EVP, Elite Vision Productions, a social events company that was created by a sorority sister-turned-stripper who got tired of the stage rotation and meth-addicted coworkers. As an Executive Event Coordinator (an inflated title, with inflated pay), Taylor was considered to be pretty high up on the chain of command. She managed 10 people, 3 interns and had keys to the building. Yet there were still quite a few people above her, which, at this point in time, she was ok with. There are two offices for Elite Vision Productions in sunny California. Standing at 4 stories tall on X Ave in Beverly Hills, CA, the headquarters of EVP is a reconstructed warehouse, looking like it would fit better in some hipster infested district in New York City, than in the glossy glamour of LA. The look of the building is that of a steel prison, cold and unwelcoming to those who go through its 12 foot double doors. Stepping through the doors is like stepping into another world. Although the outside of the building is in a quiet neighborhood with little traffic, inside EVP is running on a 24/7, 365 day schedule. There is always someone...
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...today and be your new leader. My name is Justin Murray and I am from Paintsville, Kentucky. I recently graduated from Morehead State University with a bachelor’s degree in business. I am married and have a beautiful daughter. Outside of work and family time, I enjoy hunting, fishing, and traveling. When I was approached to take this position, I had four primary interests: this industry, working for a company with a compelling vision, capitalizing on great capabilities, and working with great people. Stan Slap once said, “You can’t sell it outside if you can’t sell it inside.” As I stand before you, these words ring more true when in a leadership role. What is leader? What does it mean to be in the leadership role? Leaders embody those innate qualities that are hard to define and even harder to create parameters for. Leadership does embody being principled, leading by example, and inspiring people to be the best they can be- to be the best for the world. Leaders need to inspire people to take action, to move towards a common goal or vision, and to do to willingly. At any company or organization, challenges and obstacles are continuously presenting themselves. But, how we view them, how we handle them defines us. Do we see them as stepping-stones to where we need to be or obstacles that are holding us back? If we see them as obstacles, then challenges that present themselves will be problems. However, at our company, we see the challenges as stepping-stones and...
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...entails the changing of the characters. Since the setting doesn’t remain static, each time it changes there should be some “turning point”, from which moment on the further development of events becomes completely different. But what exactly this turning point is, what are those “triggers” that help to create this dynamic picture, how can we trace the changes and the molding and development of characters’ personalities, the changes of their identities? The thing is that the authors of both above-mentioned novels create series of “threshold experiences” taking place at the most significant, climatic points in the lives of the protagonists, acting like triggers, indicating some transformations in the outer world of the characters that entail the changes in their inner world as well. These thresholds operate on all levels: separating the interior and the exterior, the real and the imagery, the free and the determined, the past and the present, the lost and the found, the old and the new. Further on I want to focus on two types of thresholds: the threshold separating the exterior and the interior, and the one separating the real and the imaginary. These two types of thresholds are interconnected in a way that they both are...
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...Sport is friendship, Sport is health, Sport is education, Sport is life, Sport brings the world together. There are many people who adore sports and some schools want to take that away from people. A lot of people that love sports get good grades and get a good jobs later in life. Although, schools want to get rid of sports that is not a good idea because sports help relieve stress and school sports are less expensive than doing sports outside of school. Schools should not get rid of sports because it helps relieve stress. First of all, in the article “Should Schools Get Rid of Sports” says that “Physical activity can be the antidote. Stepping away from your books can help sharpen your brain.” Secondly, going to gymnastics gives me a break...
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...begins to establish a barrier between a fictitious world and a world of actuality when they encounter a rude awakening of reality. As our main character Connie goes about life, she realizes things about herself. She starts to believe that “she [is] pretty and that [is] everything” (50). The exaggeration and connotation of something being someone's everything can tell how they are ignorant to everything else in the world. The fact that looks are more important than everything else, in this context, shows the fact that being oblivious to the outside world can cause bad occurrences to happen in the person's life. Connie's life is impacted by her vanity, which causes her to lose touch with the safer, important things in life. Once she...
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...What would it be like to be kept hidden and protected from a war zone, yet you still know what’s going on outside? Could life on the outside of a safety zone affect how life is on the inside? Anne Frank and the people from the Secret Annex were hidden from the outside world, but they still knew what was happening, and knowing what was going on caused them to change. The Historical Events from the Holocaust shaped the character’s feelings and caused people to do unnormal things in the play of Anne Frank. Character’s Feelings were changed by the historical events that happened during the holocaust. Anne Frank’s feelings of safety were changed by her fear of the Nazis. {Pg. 130- Mr. Dussel brought this information} “You don’t realize...
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...script to use to relax your client and settle them down before you start the induction proper. All right, you just make yourself comfortable and close your eyes now... just separate your hands and let them lie loosely in your lap... or by your sides if that's more comfortable... it's better if your legs are uncrossed... but it doesn't matter if you feel you need to move just slightly, now and again... you don't have to be absolutely still... just be comfortable and relax the whole body as much as you can... now I want you to take a deep breath and hold it for a moment before breathing out slowly... just allowing your whole body to relax as you do so... and I want you to keep your eyes closed now and just keep listening quietly to the sound of my voice... you'll be aware of those other sounds, too... sounds inside the building, sounds from outside, maybe passing traffic... but these won't disturb you... in fact, they'll help to relax you, because just for now the world outside is absolutely unimportant to you... the only sound you're interested in is the sound of my voice... and while you're listening to the sound of my voice, I want you to concentrate for a moment on your breathing... breathing slowly and steadily and evenly, just as if you were trying to convince somebody that you were absolutely sound asleep... and as you breathe out each time, just allowing your whole body to relax more and more... so that you gradually find yourself feeling as if your whole body was sinking...
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...Tramond Taylor Dr. Clements Popular Literature February 27, 2011 Eduora Welty Delta Wedding In the Short Story by Eduora Welty Delta Wedding the family seems to build this boundary that seperates them from the outside world. In my paper I will discuss some of the things I believe to be members stepping over the boundary that the family has seemed to build over the years. There is a character named George. George is spoken in a positive manner by the Fairchild family. It is because George, in my opinion, is the only family member to be “sane” for lack of a better word and appears to be the “hero” to the family. Everyone takes a liking to George but, George has separated himself from the family by moving away and he learns to decipher the family members from the whole family in its entirety. Geroge meets the love of his life a woman named Robbie Reid. To the family George has now stepped over that boundary and married Robbie. Robbie seems to pose a threat to their social position. Before she married George she was a clerk at the family store. To the family this seems to be very embarrassing to know that a member of your family is marrying someone who used to work under you. Robbie does not want to comply with the family traditions and she is seen as an unfit wife for George who is put up on a petal stool by the family. Dabney, another member of the Fairchild family, is able to understand why George has separated himself from the family and is concerned about the...
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...When they were seventeen, they served as grass-root directors for four statewide political campaigns. At eighteen, they authored the most popular Christian teen blog on the web. These are just some of the things they have accomplished. Through-out this book, they talk about a word that they made up called “Rebelution” which means for teens to rebel against low expectations and to do the hard things. This does not mean doing hard things like break into a bank, or come up with a plan to take over the world. It means to challenge yourself to grab hold of more exciting options for your teen years rather than doing what our society sees us teens doing in today’s world. How do you do hard things you might ask? It could be by stepping outside of your comfort zone and doing something you would not normally do like Jared for example. His youth group’s worship leader was going away for a mission trip. Even though Jared had only been playing guitar for a short amount of time, he stepped outside of his comfort zone. A year later, he was leading worship for the entire church; and his band is looking to put out their first album. Another thing you can do is to get other people involved to help you do the “big hard things.” Studies show that one horse can pull an average of 2,500 pounds. The test was repeated with two horses. You would expect the weight to double- to about 5,000 pounds. Not so. Two horses...
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...and unkempt tree branches grazing the sides of the vehicle were the most familiar sounds in the world to us; a soothing melody that beckoned us deeper into the forest to a place we all knew as home. Soon, we would pass an old sign, dented and worn by the weather over all of those...
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...between parents and children, between husband and wife, between neighbors, between nations, between all relations and love also exists between humans and other living beings such as animals. Therefore, nobody can deny the existence of love in this world. Sometimes you need to describe the love you have for someone in words. * A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved. * What is love but acceptance of the other, whatever he is. * Love is like a fever which comes and goes quite independently of the will. … there are no age limits for love * There is no safe investment. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless – it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell. * Love can change a person the way a parent can change a baby — awkwardly, and often with a great deal of mess. * Nothing is mysterious, no...
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...Case Study #1 Human Resource Mgmt & Dev. Gen Y Rocks the Business World Gen Y employees are in fact rocking the business world. They are young, they are fierce and they know what they want. These individuals were once immature and naïve people who have developed a sense of self and entered the business world. They face many challenges but have many opportunities available that they seek eagerly. The generation y’s are disruptive not only because of their size but because of their attitudes. They attitudes mean business and they are taking over the industries with an image of what they want a company to be. In order for organizations to adapt to the influx of generation y individuals they will need to be open minded. They will need to understand that with time and the change in technology, the minds of these individuals work at different paces and do things in different manners then individuals from the baby boomer generation. Gen Y’s were brought up in a more advanced environment with different parental guidelines from the Baby Boomers. They are smart, witty and eager to learn. They don’t take no for an answer and they will seek out what they need to do to get the job done. These individuals may take time to surf the net at their leisure or update their statuses on Facebook throughout their workday but at the end of the day, their work is accomplished and done so in a manner of excellence. Generation Y is different from previous generations. They were raised in a different...
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...paradise in Northern California where relaxation and tranquility reign free. To the West, is the magnificent Pacific Ocean, and to the East, you see the power and grace of the Redwood Forest. I always enjoy being there and experiencing the beauty and free spiritedness through the adventures my family and I would take. No matter what time it is whether it is morning, noon, or evening, there are always experiences to be had. Mornings are always my favorite because the splendor of God’s creations roam free without a worry in the world. Every morning I wake up and run to the giant rectangular window covered with the mist from the sea to observe the beautiful deer consume the dew saturated ivy plants surrounding the house. As you turn your head towards the ocean you notice a collection of seals resting on a formations of rocks camouflaging the grey colored seals. It was always awesome eating breakfast while feeling as if you’re in a nature documentary. Stepping outside on the decks...
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