Notes on “The Last Kiss “Film!

An interpersonal conflict is a disagreement or some kind of differing opinions, thoughts, or actions among two or more of us people. I have chosen the film called “The Last Kiss “This movie was actually a good movie and a movie based on real happenings that go on everyday amongst people. The couple Anna and Michael was not married but were expecting a child and throughout the movie we could see questionable thoughts, concern, tension, and all of that causes us at times to feel overwhelmed with stuff which is what we don’t want to happen. This couple was fixing to have a baby possibly get married and in his eyes he I guess was scared and in question but still at the very least had no right to do what he did! There should have been communication, togetherness, compromise, and then things could have worked out so much better instead they fought, there were hurt feelings, anger, and a situation that went totally sour when it shouldn’t have. It wouldn’t have if both would have been honest with their feelings from the start and if temptation had not played a huge factor with Michael. If Jenna and Michael had taken a step back during all of the new stuff that was happening in their life especially the baby bit then they could of taken one day at a time and got through it together. Communication will always play a big factor in any type of relationship and can help keep one positive. Without compromise and communication we will continue to see the mishaps of our relationships and we will continue to see the hurt, the pain, the anger, the sadness and yes even the feel for revenge at the time of anger. In this movie when the lie comes out they both are angry and she kicks him out so in turn he goes on and goes to the younger girl where he now makes the lie totally worse than before and cheats on her again. With the compromise and communication they could have talked about the questions and concerns and really worked on things together before it even begun to expand as dramatically as I saw it do in this movie. Finally Michael realizes what he wants and what he wanted had already been right there in front of him the whole time. By this time everything of course had escalated and now she and he will have to work even harder to get things back to where they were if that’s even possible. They have to rebuild trust and rebuild back even stronger the relationship they once had but with it will come compromise and communication and honesty amongst one another so that they can go on with their lives again. We all sometimes are unsure of things and have questions or concerns even about our relationships that are why we both have to always be on the same page. Be honest and communicate with one another let the other know our feelings and our thoughts before things do become so overwhelming that by the time you figure out anything it has already been escalated to the point of no return. Lashing out and fighting does nothing but make things worse you have to really talk to one another and understand where the other is coming from or why they may feel the way they feel. In any relationship it takes two to work out not one. You have to work together and not separate. Let the other one know how you feel and what you think even if it is to say “I love you “or “I am so glad we are together”. Just something, to let the other person know where they are at in your life. If there questions or concerns then the two needs to sit down and talk these things out I mean we are adults here right and in this movie the couple were adults.

References
Goldwyn, T. (2006) The Last Kiss (Film) Los Angeles, Dreamworks