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Guilt is an unreasonable feeling, usually caused by the failure to do something. Many soldiers experience this feeling, but civilians experience this sentiment too. One of these civilians stricken by guilt is The Seventh Man in the story “The Seventh Man”. The Seventh Man failed to save a friend from a wave when he could, but should forgive himself or should he be held accountable? A story that provides evidence to answer this question is “The Moral Logic of Survivor Guilt” by Nancy Sherman.
Guilt “begins an endless loop of counterfactuals-thoughts that you could have or should have done”(Sherman 2). The Seventh Man, throughout his life, is stuck in this loop, he can’t escape. He believed he was guilty for K.’s death. K’s death was caused

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