THE REAL 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS THAT GIRLS DON'T KNOW!. SO GIRLS PLEASE READ THIS **
HERE'S 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS
1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards. /
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is. /
5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile. /
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! /
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will. /
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. /
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands. /
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you. /
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate nice boy!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses. /
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can. /
31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
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99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
Signs that that show if someone likes you (Based on the psychology of love) Subconscious closeness: Our subconscious mind thinks in a primitive way. That’s why we may feel scared while watching a horror movie even though we are completely safe. The same goes for love, our subconscious minds think that physical closeness can result in emotional closeness. If someone likes you he will move towards you while talking to you until he becomes very close. If you stepped back he will unconsciously step forward in order to maintain the small distance between you. For more information check out The state of interest in body language Automatic rapport establishment: We usually mirror the gestures of those who are close to us without noticing. Try watching the way you act with your close friends and you will notice that most of the time you are unconsciously mirroring each other. This doesn’t happen except with close friends or with people that you really like. If someone mirrors you even though he barley knows you then there is a very big chance that he likes you. (see rapport establishment for full detail on that topic). My toe loves you: In my book How to know if someone likes you in 30 minutes i said that When someone likes another person he unconsciously tries to keep him in his line of sight. This results in letting his toes point to the person he likes wherever he is. Unconsciously, your mind thinks that as long as your toes are pointed somewhere then you can move towards that place easily. This can also happen the other way around , if you are at a job interview and you really want to leave then your toes will point towards the exit. Tons of body language signals: The person’s body language is controlled by his subconscious mind. Even if he was trying to ignore you his body language will reveal whether he truly likes you or not. Signs like hair tossing, being anxious around you and larger pupil size when seeing you can indicate that the person likes you. For more information check out the body language love signs.
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Not filtering what should be filtered: Our minds receive 2 billion bits of information per second. For example you are currently noticing your browser’s window, your screen size, the noise coming through the window and the sound of the ticking of that clock near by you. If all of this information was processed by your subconscious mind you will become overwhelmed that’s why most of it is filtered and discarded until you end up with only 7 bits of information per second. This is why we never notice slight changes to someone’s appearance unless we are interested in him. If someone likes you he will notice the slightest changes in your appearance because this type of information won’t get filtered by his subconscious mind.
Flirting Signs and Gestures
Whether you find them strange or whether you find it hard to believe in them still they are clear signs of flirting. These signs does not represent my opinion about flirting body language but they are proven facts. I am not asking you to believe in them without testing them but all I'm asking you is to test them and see for yourself.
Here the body language flirting signs: Pupil size: When someone sees something or someone that he likes his pupil size gets bigger!! I know that this is a bit hard to notice but by training you will be able to detect these slight changes in the pupil size and so know if someone likes seeing you. Playing with her hair : This sign is for girls only. When a girl wants to flirt with someone or when she finds him particularly interesting she may start to play with her hair (twist it or flicker it). This could happen once or several times during the conversation; the more the sign happens the clearer the message is!! Pointing towards you with his toes or feet: If someone was interested in you and if he wasn't sitting right next to you then he will point directly towards you using his feet or toes. A clearer flirting sign is when he sits with his body totally facing you. Seeing his/her teeth through the smile: A smile should be wide enough to reveal at least the front teeth otherwise it may be a fake smile or a smile that has nothing to do with you. Keeping you in his/her line of sight: The person who is flirting with you will try to keep you in his line of sight As a result you may find him taking a look at you every now and then or you may find him continuously orienting himself to be facing you even if he is standing with someone else. Clothing: The person will generally pick his favorite clothes and wear them if he believed that he will possibly see you. You could ask him about his favorite colors and observe whether he wears them a lot when you're around or not.
Body language and attractiveness
In my book, How to make someone fall in love with you i explained how you can use such signs to increase the chance of making someone fall in love with you.
By being able to read these signs then use other ones that can make you appear more attractive your chance of attracting someone is going to be much easier.
Many More Signs
The urge to flirt means that the person found you interesting and that’s why I strongly recommend reading the section about the state of being interested. In addition to the above signs you can use the signs of interest to make sure that the person really is flirting with you.
2knowmyself is, without doubt, the only complete guide to body language on the entire internet. If you dare challenge this statement, then check the 2knowmyself’s
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body language section and you will know what I am talking about.
10 Signs Someone is Interested in You
1. They stand closer to you or they keep a smaller distance when they’re around you. It shows that they are comfortable with you and want to get physically intimate.
2. They are more likely to face you when talking to you as opposed to standing sideways or away from you. However, if they are shy, then maybe this point won’t apply so much. Instead, they will periodically take glimpses at you when you’re not looking.
3. They’d try to get your attention for trivial things such as calling you about what homework they have or when the homework is due.
4. They smile more frequently because of you. Even if they don’t show it while around you because they don’t want you to find out they like you, they will smile when they think of you.
5. Their behavior can be passive aggressive. They may appear to show interest in you one day and not the other. Sometimes, this leaves you wondering if you pissed them off without realizing. When someone likes you, little things you do can hurt them, because they have taken a bigger notice to you.
6. They prioritize their activities with you. They may cancel plans just so they can meet up with you or assist you with something.
7. Their friends know about you. They have probably at some point confess to at least one friend their feelings about you.
8. They want to find out more about you to see if you’re single or available or/and if you’re compatible.
9. They will care about you if you are upset and they will often try to do something for you. Remember, people may not always tell you how they feel, but they will always show you. You just have to pay attention.
10. Last but not least, the most obvious sign is that they will feel upset or hurt if they learn that you don’t like them or when they get rejected by you.
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The more of these signs someone shows towards you, the higher the chance they are interested in you. However, 1 or 2 of these signs alone may mean nothing at all. Furthermore, each person is different and this may not apply to all types of personalities, but this does relate to most. You can add more tell-tale signs below.
1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer presentable & neat girls
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, & then forget you afterwards. (This actually goes for strangers.)
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. Guys love girls with brain all the more than girls in mini skirts. (When we say brains, we don’t mean geeks.)
6. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get away from stammering.
7. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think the girl they truly care about.
8. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
9. Guys go gaga over a girl’s smile.
10. Guys try to find the stuff toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
11. Guys can be wastrels especially when they want to get an impression from you. But they are actually price conscious people.
12. Guys virtually brag about anything.
13. Guys cannot tell secrets than girls tell them.
14. GUYS THINK TOO MUCH!!
15. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
16. When a guy wants to meet your parents. Let him.
17. A guy wants to tell you things, but he can’t. And they sure have one bad habit to gain courage (and spirit) to tell you everything and that is drinking & smoking.
18. Guys cry.
19. Guy’s fantasies are unlimited.
20. Don’t provoke a guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
21. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
22. Guys usually try so hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept the defeat.
23. When you touch a guy’s heart there’s no turning back.
24. Giving a guy a hanging message like, “You know what. Uh, never mind”, would make him jump to a conclusion that’s far away from what you’re thinking.
25. A guy goes crazy when a girl touches his hand.
26. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to the girls they really like.
27. When a guys makes a prolonged “um.’ Or makes many excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like to and he cannot lay down the card for you.
28. When a girl says “NO”, a guy hears it as “TRY AGAIN TOMORROW” especially when they are given clues that the girl likes them.
29. A girl’s height doesn’t really matter to a guy. But her weight does.
30. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So, watch out girls!
31. When a guy get something that is too unyielding for a girl, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
32. It’s not easy for a guy to forget his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 or more years.
33. Flings follow after a guy breaks up with the girl he got so involved with and it would take too long before he commits himself again.
34. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clear.
35. It’s not actually cute giggling behind a guy’s back it’s more of an insult for him.
36. Girls mature faster than boy’s in the physical & emotional aspects. But take note; once a guy matures you girls would surely be impressed with him.
37. A guy has to experience rejection because if he’s too good-never been busted, never been in love & hurt he won’t mature & grow up.
38. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
39. Guys can only be violent when they are provoked by their enemy or by another guy but not with girls. Guys who meddle with girls could either be gays or bastards.
40. (Some) guys hate gays!
41. Even the seemingly nicest guy can talk dirty behind a girl’s back.
42. Guys hate it when girls try to do what they do, like smoking & drinking.
43. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
44. Guys are curious beings.
45. Without girls, guys would end up zombies without anything to do or to talk about.
46. Guys talk about themselves too much and are turned off by girls who do the same.
47. Guys have strong passion to change but have a weak will power.
48. When a guy pretends to calm & collected, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he’s nervous.
49. A guy acts super nice to a girl he likes. He may pick on her & start teasing her.
50. When a guy says he’s going crazy about a girl, he really is.
51. Guys feel secure when a girl phones him. The act doesn’t look cheap for them.
52. When you keep a guy waiting for 80 minutes of course, it isn’t OK! He’s just trying to be nice.
53. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s actually saying, “Please come & listen to me.”
54. It is fact that guys are physically superior to girls but emotionally inferior. Girls easily cry while guys can hold their emotions but cannot control it once they burst it out. They could cry, smoke, drink or be violent.
55. Guys don’t have final decisions.
56. When a guy loves you bring out the best in him.
57. When a guys starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
58. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
59. Guys believe that there is no such thing as love at first sight, but courts the girl anyway & then realize at the end that he was wrong.
60. Guys hate girls who act as if they’re going to hell.
61. Guys go gaga over a girl who has a cute bedroom voice on the phone.
62. Guys like femininity but not feebleness.
63. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
64. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
65. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but c an never be sure unless the girl tells it to him herself.
66. A guy would waste his time over video games & basketball; the way girls would do over their romantic novels and makeup’s.
67. Guys love girls who can cook.
68. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
69. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
70. Guys love their moms.
71. A guy has more problems that you can’t see with your naked eyes.
72. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
73. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this for your advantage.
74. Guys often think about girls who like them but this does not necessarily mean that the guy likes her.
75. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
76. Don’t be bias. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
77. Girls who bathe in their eau de parfum do more repelling than attracting guys.
78. Guys don’t comprehend the word “get lost” too well.
79. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
80. When a guy tells you about his ideal girl. Don’t try to duplicate it, otherwise he can see it right through you.
81. Guys really think that girls are strange & have unpredictable decisions but still love them all more for that.
82. Beware: A guy can make gossip scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than the girls can.
83. When a guy gives a crooked and pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them either unamusing or offending and he’s just trying to be polite.
84. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls do.
85. Guys tend to generalize girls but once they get to know you, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
86. If a guy tells you about his problems it doesn’t mean he needs your advice. He only needs someone to listen.
87. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
88. Guys hate it when girls find themselves cute.
89. Guys find it so secure when a girl swears.
90. Guys learn from experience and, not from romance novels, giving girls a quite head start.
91. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help about his problem with you, may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
92. When your boyfriend looks at another girl or a stranger, it doesn’t mean he’s cheating on you.
93. Guys hate being leashed by their girlfriends.
94. A guy tends to get jealous when his friend steals his girlfriends attention away from him.
95. Guy’s weakest point is at the knee.
96. Like Eve. Girls are guys weakness.
97. Guys are very open about themselves.
98. No guy is bad when he is courting. (YEAH, RIGHT!)
99. When problem arise, a guy usually keeps his cool but is already thinking of a way out.
100. It is good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
101. Guys are not too conscious about heir looks, which shows their not good in fixing things.