...To Thine Own Self Be True By Dong L., Irvine, CA “Do you notice how Rachael always kisses-up to her teachers? It’s disgusting. She’s so fake.” Ten minutes later… “Heyy Rachael! Haven’t talked to you in a while. Wanna go to Starbucks after school?” Fake – this is probably the most commonly criticized and yet most widely adopted trait in everyday life. Everyone openly condemns it, but consciously or not, everyone exhibits it. Consider these daily examples: that convincing smile put on just for a teacher or boss, that superficial compliment uttered to flatter and please, and that boastful exaggeration intended to impress. At this point you might be thinking “I’m not like this. I’m not fake like everyone else.” Really? You’re not? Take a step back and contemplate whether you have altered the way you act/dress/talk over the past few years. And if so, why? Is it because you think Ugg boots are simply gorgeous or because they are the vogue these days? Is it because you are genuinely interested in latest gossip or because high school life has made you attuned to it? And do those expressions on your face always reflect real emotions or are they oftentimes merely a disguise? It seems that while most people understand the importance of individuality, the “individual” they claim to be is really just a well-garnished, phony mask. Therefore this is the pivotal message that is both universally professed and universally ignored: don’t be fake. How hard could that be? In theory...
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...“To Thine Own Self Be True” “Honey, how do you like my new dress?” The dreaded question that every husband hates to hear. Having learned that an honest answer to such a question will throw the household into turmoil , he tells a little white lie, he looks at his wife and says automatically, “it looks great honey”. It doesn’t matter if the color of the dress makes her look like she has jaundice or like she’s a Paris Hilton wannabee. How many times a day are our abilities to tell the truth put to the test? Daily, we make decisions to questions like, “How are you?” We respond with the obligatory “fine” or “great” or with a truthful five minute description of all our aches and pains, both mental and physical. Constantly society dictates, “Good people don’t tell lies”, but day in and day out we have to make the decision whether we will express our true feelings, the truth, and accept the fallout from others, or say a lie to protect ourselves or our peers. We have to ask ourselves, what is a lie? How often do people lie? At what point does lying become addicting and behavioral? When it comes right down to it, Shakespeare probably had it right when he said, “to thine own self be true.” If truth is what we seek, then we should try to avoid lies. It’s helpful to take these questions out and examine them so that the truth that Shakespeare referred to is something we’ve thought about and made those “self” decisions about. What is a lie? According to Wikipedia, “A lie is a type of...
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...you can be true to your word, goals, fears, ambitions, emotions—yourself—you will have no trouble being equally honest with other people. In a twist the author might have appreciated, this piece of advice from the pompous, often ridiculous Polonius has become one of the most frequently quoted bits of wisdom in all of Shakespeare. In fact, it’s sometimes misleadingly ascribed to Shakespeare himself, as opposed to his invented character. The advice is eloquently phrased, and there’s no evidence that we’re meant to interpret it in context as bad or mistaken. However, Hamlet, and Hamlet, forces us constantly to question the gap between “being” and “seeming,” the distinction between authenticity and role-playing, and the nature of identity itself. For example, there is arguably a certain integrity to the “antic” persona Hamlet adopts, since it liberates him to speak uncomfortable truths. At the very least, the play suggests that “being true to oneself” is not as straightforward a concept as it seem 1. This above all: to thine own self be trueAnnotate, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. Home 2. Blogs 3. The Proverbial Skeptic "To Thine Own Self Be True." Really? by NICHOLAS CLAIRMONT JUNE 6, 2013, 2:03 PM "To thine own self be true," says Polonius in Hamlet. This phrase has become enormously popular, so much so that there are entire Tumblrs of photographs of people bearing "to thine own self be true" tattoos...
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...This above all: to thine own self be true.” -William Shakespeare It is amazing how many of us are not true to ourselves. Some of us allow others to define who we are as people. Some of us do not accept ourselves and try to act differently. Some of us do not even love ourselves. Shakespeare’s quote “this above all: to thine own self be true” is perfect advice that tells us to act, know, and love ourselves as human beings. The first thing I think Shakespeare was trying to tell us was to not let others shape our personalities. I think that the media and our peers often try to make us who they want us to be or what they think is cool. Shakespeare was telling us not to let that happen. In reality, the coolest you can be is yourself. Others will love you for who you are, not who you act as. If they don’t, they are not the people you should hang around with. The second thing I think Shakespeare was talking about in the quote was accepting ourselves. One of the hardest yet best things to do in life is accepting who you are. We all have flaws, but you need to overlook them in yourself and in others. Before you can accept yourself, you also have to know yourself. I believe that there is good in every single person on earth, and whether you intend to or not, you learn more and more about your goodness every day in your kind actions and thoughts. Therefore, when you truly know yourself, which happens over time, you know that you are good, and when you know that you are good, accepting yourself...
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...1. | Question : | Please choose the best mechanics correction for the sentence below: “To thine own self be true”, says Polonius to Hamlet in Shakespeare’s tragic play. | | | Student Answer: | | “To thine own self be true” says Polonius to Hamlet in Shakespeare’s tragic play. | | | | “To thine own self be true,” Says Polonius to Hamlet in Shakespeare’s tragic play. | | | | “To thine own self be true,” says Polonius to Hamlet in Shakespeare’s tragic play. | | | | “To thine own self be true”, Says Polonius to Hamlet in Shakespeare’s tragic play. | | Instructor Explanation: | For information on how to correct a mechanical error with a quotation, visit the Ashford Writing Center https://awc.ashford.edu/grammar-punctuation-quotation-marks.html | | | | Points Received: | 0 of 1 | | Comments: | | | | Question 2. | Question : | Please choose the best mechanics correction for the sentence below: In The Writer in All of Us, author June Gould (1989) tells writers that the process of revising an essay allows them to “see with new eyes.” (p. 121). | | | Student Answer: | | In The Writer in All of Us, author June Gould (1989) tells writers that the process of revising an essay allows them to “see with new eyes (p. 121).” | | | | In The Writer in All of Us, author June Gould (1989; p. 121) tells writers that the process of revising an essay allows them to “see with new eyes.” | | | | In The Writer...
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...smile! 3. Call People by Name. The sweetest music to anyone's ear is the sound of his or her own name. 4. Be Friendly and Helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly. 5. Be Cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do were a real pleasure. 6. Be Genuinely Interested in People. You can like everyone if you try. 7. Be Generous with Praise, Cautious with Criticism. Praise will win out when it comes to gaining friends. 8. Be Considerate of the Feelings of Others. It will be appreciated. 9. Be Thoughtful of the Opinions of Others. People love their opinions as they do their own children, calling them ugly won't get you anything but anger. 10. Be Alert to Give Service. What counts most in life is what we do for others! "THE TRUE DECALOGUE" by Apolinario Mabini First. Thou shalt love God and thy honor above all things: God as the fountain of all truth, of all justice and of all activity; and thy honor, the only power which will oblige thee to be faithful, just and industrious. Second. Thou shalt worship God in the form which thy conscience may deem most righteous and worthy: for in thy conscience, which condemns thy evil deeds and praises thy good ones, speaks thy God. Third. Thou shalt cultivate the special gifts which God has granted thee, working and studying according to thy ability, never leaving the path of righteousness and justice, in order to attain thy own perfection, by means whereof thou shalt contribute to the progress of humanity; thus; thou shalt...
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...THE SONNETS OF WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE Click here to jump to the Table of Contents COPYRIGHT © 1993 by Adobe Press, Adobe Systems Incorporated. All rights reserved. The actual sonnets of William Shakespeare are public domain. The design and electronic implementation of this book, however, are copyrighted. Reproduction of this electronic work beyond a personal use level, or the display of this work for public consumption or viewing requires prior permission from the publisher. This work is furnished for informational use only and should not be construed as a commitment of any kind by Adobe Systems Incorporated. Adobe Systems Incorporated assumes no responsibilities for any errors or inaccuracies that may appear in this work. The software and typefaces mentioned on this page are furnished under license and may only be used in accordance with the terms of such license. Adobe, the Adobe Press logo, Adobe Acrobat, and Adobe Photoshop are trademarks of Adobe Systems Incorporated which may be registered in certain jurisdictions. This work is electronically mastered in Adobe™ Acrobat™. Text was composed in Minion, 13-point. Illustrations were scanned electronically then manipulated using Adobe Photoshop™. CONTENTS I II III IV Copyright How to Use This Book Introduction Numerical First-line Index Alphabetical First-line Index The Sonnets of William Shakespeare V VI Click any line to jump to that section HOW TO USE THIS BOOK • Click the Bookmarks and Page button...
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...Or who is he so fond will be the tomb Of his self-love, to stop posterity? Thou art thy mother's glass, and she in thee Calls back the lovely April of her prime: So thou through windows of thine age shall see Despite of wrinkles this thy golden time. But if thou live, remember'd not to be, Die single, and thine image dies with thee . Sonnet V Those hours, that with gentle work did frame The lovely gaze where every eye doth dwell, Will play the tyrants to the very same And that unfair which fairly doth excel: For never-resting time leads summer on To hideous winter and confounds him there; Sap cheque'd with frost and lusty leaves quite gone, Beauty o'ersnow'd and bareness every where: Then, were not summer's distillation left, A liquid prisoner pent in walls of glass, Beauty's effect with beauty were bereft, Nor it nor no remembrance what it was: But flowers distill'd though they with winter meet, Leese but their show; their substance still lives swee SONNET1FROM fairest creatures we desire increase, That thereby beauty's rose might never die, But as the riper should by time decease, His tender heir might bear his memory: But thou, contracted to thine own bright eyes, Feed'st thy light'st flame with self-substantial fuel, Making a famine where abundance lies, Thyself thy foe, to thy sweet self too cruel. Thou that art now the world's fresh ornament And only herald to the gaudy spring Within thine own bud buriest thy content And, tender churl, makest...
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...According to the Britannica Encyclopedia, an allusion “is an implied or indirect reference to a person, event, or thing or to a part of another text. Allusion is distinguished from such devices as direct quote and imitation or parody. Most allusions are based on the assumption that there is a body of knowledge that is shared by the author and the reader and that therefore the reader will understand the author’s referent.” "allusion". Encyclopædia Britannica. Encyclopædia Britannica Online. Encyclopædia Britannica Inc., 2013. Web. 13 Mar. 2013 <http://www.britannica.com/EBchecked/topic/16658/allusion>. Dark Lady Sonnets 127-154 127 In the old age black was not counted fair, | Or if it were it bore not beauty's name: | But now is black beauty's successive heir, | And beauty slandered with a bastard shame, | For since each hand hath put on nature's power, | Fairing the foul with art's false borrowed face, | Sweet beauty hath no name no holy bower, | But is profaned, if not lives in disgrace. | Therefore my mistress' eyes are raven black, | Her eyes so suited, and they mourners seem, | At such who not born fair no beauty lack, | Slandering creation with a false esteem, | Yet so they mourn becoming of their woe, | That every tongue says beauty should look so. | 128 How oft when thou, my music, music play'st, | Upon that blessed wood whose motion sounds | With thy sweet fingers when thou gently sway'st...
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...Name:Darrion Duhart Date:2/7/16 Graded Assignment Research Paper First Draft Type your name and the date at the top of this page. Type or paste your draft into this document. Be sure that your draft is double-spaced and in 12 point, Times New Roman font. Save the file as: ENG402A_S1_5.1_Research Paper First Draft_FirstInitial_LastName.docx Example: ENG402A_S1_5.1_Research Paper First Draft_M_Smith.docx Total score: ____ of 200 points (Score for Question 1: ___ of 200 points) Answer: In his poem, 'Scorn not the Sonnet' (Poetical Works, 1827), Wordsworth famously said that the sonnets were the 'key' with which 'Shakespeare unlocked his heart' and whilst this can certainly be seen to be the case, the sonnets do much more than that. Writing of various forms of love, and indeed of love itself, using the contemporary sonnet form, Shakespeare develops the aspects of love which the sonnets reflect into an all-encompassing discussion on the major themes of life itself that continue to inform and direct the human condition, a fact which is perhaps partly responsible for their continuing popularity with both public and critics alike. This dissertation sets out to discover, through close reading of carefully selected representative sonnets and critical context, the way Shakespeare accomplishes this. The sonnet form as Shakespeare, whose 154 sonnets were first published in 1609, and his contemporaries used it was introduced into England in the sixteenth century by Sir Thomas Wyatt...
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...Collaborative Writing Bianca Rogers, Steven Rhodes, Danny Russ, William Lindsey Eng/215 April 21, 2011 Margaret Fletcher Collaborative Writing Collaborative writing is a concept design to bring a group of people together to collaborate on a specific topic or idea. The process of collaborative writing: research, rough draft, final draft is just as an individual paper; however, the workload is divided amongst the team. The importance of collaborative writing is to have a group of individuals successfully working together to builds character in the team members. The complexity of a group dynamic is in the team member themselves; with many personalities and different behavior patterns, group work can be undeniably difficult. For a successful paper, the group must demonstrate ethical working habits by dividing the workload evenly, communicating effectively, and demonstrating keen promptness. A divided workload can be very difficult to accommodate; team members generally do not share the same opinion, so common grounds must be settled on to start the paper. Writing collaboratively acknowledges ethos as, “collaborative practices involving distributed participation and collaboration, where rules and procedures are flexible and open to change” (Kittle & Hicks, p.2). This essay will break down the fundamentals of collaboratively writing, using different facts and ideas to describe its practices. A cliché most often used is, “there is no “i” in team.” People used this...
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...In the process of carrying out this revenge, a troubled and restless Hamlet loses all that is dear to him — his family, friends, but most of all, himself. In the midst of his sorrow and frustration, Hamlet loses sight of his true self and turns into an impulsive, obscure, and seemingly madman. However, many scenes subtly reveal that Hamlet is deliberately feigning these fits of madness in order to disconcert King Claudius and throw the rest of the attendants off track. While Hamlet's "mad" behavior starts out as an "antic disposition," his mental state deteriorates over the course of plotting his revenge so that he ultimately ends up mentally ill and demented. The longer he put on this “antic disposition” act, the more it became genuine madness. In a way, Shakespeare teaches readers that it is impossible to wear an identity without becoming what one pretends to be. Through Hamlet’s madness, Shakespeare exemplifies the idea that “one is what one pretends to be” and the importance of always living a life of authenticity in order to avoid morphing into a false identity. William Shakespeare’s play Hamlet shares with readers the greatest tip of caution and advice on life through the simple, yet powerful, words of Polonius — above all, to “thine own-self be true.” After the Ghost saddens Hamlet with the news that Claudius has murdered his father, Hamlet warns his friends that he “…Shall think meet / To put an antic disposition on” (1.5.191-192)....
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...Kelley’s Attribution Theory Essay In this essay, readers will be presented with the literature review of Kelley’s attribution theory (1967), which was developed after the research done by Fritz Heider on attribution theory (1944, 1958). Moreover, a real world example relating to the theory will also be discussed along with the limitations and the three elements of the theory, which are consistency, distinctiveness and consensus. With that, recommendations will be given on how my experience can be improved with the chosen theory. There have been a great number of research done on perception over the last decade and social psychology had been primarily focused, perceiving causes of a person’s behavior (Kelley and Michela, 1980). In Kelley (1973), it is mentioned that Heider (1958) research has played a major role in contributing to the origination of attribution theory and it is still the major source cited in publications. Kelley’s attribution theory was also built onto Heider’s (1958) theory with an understanding that humans are “naïve psychologists” determining behaviors based on causes and effects (Hewstone and Jaspars, 1987). In Kelley (1973), it was mentioned that the central idea of attribution theory is the causal concept where human’s behavior relies on either the characteristics of the person (internal attribution) or the environment (external attribution). To determine whether a person’s behavior is caused by internal or external attribution, Kelley’s theory requires...
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...Integrity means a code of expected moral, the quality or state of being complete or undivided, honesty, soundness, incorruptibility, or an unimpaired condition (Carter, 1996). Many people believe that real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that no one is going to know if you did it or not. However, integrity may mean different things to different people, but in general it describes an adherence to morally or ethically sound principles. That means choosing the right path... even when it is not accompanied with accolades or praise. In fact, I was taught that acting with integrity may be met with opposition more than appreciation. As I reflect on myself and where I stand when it comes to this topic, I feel that integrity is a very important part of my life. I believe that by being ethical or unethical reflects not just on me but my loved ones as well. Some people pay no mind to integrity and simply believe that integrity is not an important trait to possess. I don't believe that integrity is something that someone is born with. I feel it is something that is implemented in you, throughout the course of a person’s life. Parents and family members are the first people who impact a person’s integrity or lack of integrity. When growing up, you learn from them and the morals and values that they possess, becomes yours. If some ones parent and family members fail to value integrity, so will you. Fortunately, research states integrity is something that people can gain over time...
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...talks about making a difference in the lives of the people you meet or - even more miraculously - possibly those you have not made personal contact with.(THIS IS OK FOR INTRO ) All this is exactly what I want it achieve; it is my aspiration. Even as a child, the burden of leaving a positive legacy has been engraved in my heart. The subtle want to be able to serve those in need was natural. And so, I chose to be a lawyer as it befitted the talents I have.(TOO SHORT FOR THE BODY DETAIL) And so, it is my greatest joy to say that though the path I walk might be rough, the potential for it seems bright. Who knows what life is to bring on my journey, what obstructions will come my way. However, as William Shakespeare would put it, "To thine own self be true" and I will seek no less of that: Determination to not let down my principles. With that, I find peace that someday my desires and wishes for my world will be fulfilled.OK FOR...
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