...rather, will people be the same person they were before adding money to their life? I believe that true happiness is the friendships that people make in life and the family that they spend their time with, because whether they are poor or rich, it hardly makes any difference if they have no one to spend time with doing things. Also, the happiest people in the world are some of the simplest people, and they are familiar with what makes them happy. The general argument made by Eduardo Porter’s essay “What Happiness Is”, is that “citizens of much the world – expand large amounts of time and energy pursuing more money and a bigger GDP because they think it will improve their well-being” (461). He cites...
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...Santiago Psy101 May 3, 2015 1) My overall lesson from the movie is that everyone has the opportunity to be happy. Not just the people who are born into a rich family. Also, I learned that we have the opportunity to make us happy. That is, everyone can be happy and can continue to make themselves happy. 2) From the information that I gathered from the film, is that in most cases it is not necessarily about what you do that makes you happy but who you do it with. Socializing with others makes people happy. You could be doing anything kind of activity with others but as long as you are with others you could be happy. 3) One of the biggest misconceptions about what makes us happy is money. Most people think that money will make us happy but it does not. It is even suggested in the film for people with money to find meaningful work that will provide more than just money for us but an experience that will make us happy. 4) Most of our daily routines involve counteractive activities that people continue with to be happy. Many people work in a certain job that holds a promising future for them however the requirements on the job will not make you happy. People are blinded with what they should be doing to be successful since many people assume that being successful in their job will lead to happiness but that is not always true. 5) Two things I could do to make myself more happier is spending more time with loved ones and working on something that I actually...
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...entities will make us happy. We are trapped in the idea that the more we consume the happier we will become. Many Americans are waking up from this disillusionment through their realization that happiness is not derived from stuff but from a positive perspective on the coexistence of people and experiences. Material possessions on their own do not make people happy. Alex Honnold, a free soloist who lives a simple life devoted only to climbing, insists that what makes people happy is their concentration on community, family and their own tight nit little web. Family and friend groups are ultimately where people find the most satisfaction because there they feel they belong and are accepted. Yet simple experiences such as eating at a dinner table with family are becoming more and more rare. Instead, family members are often focused on their iPhones, laptops or eat completely removed from the table in front of a television. These material objects that are believed to make a person happy instead inhibit the simplest of enjoyable experiences like a family dinner. Outside the family, young people are not experiencing the happiness that is the present moment and the people in front of them. They are constantly connected with everyone they know through services like facebook and texting which offer quick jolts of shallow happiness but remove people from the immersion of the present. Although material possessions have their place in happiness, American culture entices people to the belief...
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...Personal Response Paper to Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler’s: Inner Contentment It is possible for one to be happy if they could not have everything they wanted and had to accept what they were given? There are many desires for things one can and cannot obtain. These desires can be good, useful, or cause problematic issues. They can lead to greed which can lead to people expecting too much in life. Even if one can obtain what they want, they may still not be happy. That brings the concept back to whether people can be happy even if they cannot have everything? Materialistic things do not fulfill peoples’ lives and are only representing temporary happiness, satisfaction, and pleasure. Eventually it runs out and the depression and lost feelings return, leaving one wondering what to buy next to fulfill that void. In Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler’s essay on Inner Contentment, they argue whether it is possible to have inner contentment. Inner contentment is not expecting things that can make one happy, but being happy with whatever is given, without expecting more. Life is just and everyone cannot have everything they want, they have to deal with what has been given and live life. In the essay, Lama and Cutler state that “The true antidote of greed is contentment” (1002). What they were trying to say was that no matter what one has, one can still be content and happy. They argue that there are two ways to be content which are: to obtain everything one wants and desires, but eventually...
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...on Happiness 20 September 2013 Happiness Depends on Ourselves Happiness; the quality or state of being happy, having good fortune, pleasure and/or joy. That is what “happiness” is defined by Dictionary.com LLC. If that was the definition of the word, I would be done with this paper and I would be hitting print as we speak. Unfortunately it is not that simple to slap a universal definition to this word, or any word rather. The author of Stumbling on Happiness, Daniel Gilbert, attempts to define the word. With several factors being put into play such as the measuring of happiness, different memories and different feelings can vary Gilbert’s definition from mine. Writing a book with 263 pages based on the topic of happiness, Gilbert shows us his own definition of the word relatively early, “Happiness, then, is the you-know-what-I-mean feeling” (35). Do I even have to explain his quote? Because according to Gilbert we already “know what he means”. On the serious note, Gilbert is trying to make a point that it is extremely difficult to describe this word. He goes on to say that if we were to try and describe this word, we would most likely ditch the idea of using a definition and try and describe it by pointing out examples of what makes us happy. Well then if you go down that route, you are already looking at millions of different possibilities of what makes people happy. You can see why it is so difficult for Gilbert because everyone in this world is made completely different...
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...defined as Enjoying, displaying, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy. When people think of happiness, they think about having to joyous feeling inside. There are many types of happiness, which are expressed in many ways. Happiness isn’t something that you just get. It comes from your within your soul. The amount of happiness you feel can change many times a day, through numerous things that happen in our everyday life. Happiness according scientific studies comes from dopamine chemicals around the brain, which is a transmitter in the brain that controls the nervous system. These chemicals in the brain have the power to make us happy or sad. Happiness can mean many different things to many different people. Some happiness comes from peace and other happiness comes from your experiences or expectations of being fulfilled in life. Happiness is an emotion like being sad or angry. Some people feel happiness from the simplest things in life such as reading their favorite book; other people are more complex and they only see happiness as something only other people have. Some feel they will never be happy. You will only be as happy as you let yourself. Weather it means just laughing at a joke, or telling funny stories. People show there happiness in many ways, some people smile, laugh, giggle or their face just glows in pleasure and gratification, while others don’t show their happy emotions physically they keep those feelings inside to themselves. Even dogs have...
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...Many people believe that happiness can be bought, or that money helps create happiness. Happiness is defined in different ways. Some may say that living free is a form of happiness. Others may say that family brings happiness to one’s soul. We can say that most people would like to feel some form of happiness. Happiness can determine how your life will succeed or not. Happiness can be maladaptive and adaptive in an evolutionary perspective. My happiness will help me and my future, survive in this modern world. My happiness is determined by my career. I have obtain a position as a police cadet that has brought me my happiness. My happiness is to defend those who can’t and to offer any help possible. My daily routine is different and exciting. The adrenalin rush I get from deterring crime or giving advice to people in need makes me happy. The...
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...Most people want happiness, so they determined to achieve contentment. Some people believe happiness is based on what they can buy or touch. For instance, people believe having materials and possessions will make them happy. However, studies have shown that most happiness is within and it can not be bought. Having a positive outlook or perspective on life will provide people with happiness. In addition, people can bring others happiness. For instance, people who have supportive family and friends tend to be happier. Additionally, people find happiness in religion. Some people are happy when they have a connection to a higher power. Therefore, people will have happier lives if they interact with supportive people and focus on positivity. Happiness is living a delightful life that is filled with joy. Happiness is having a fulfilled life. According to Madhu S. Mohanty, author and researcher of “What Determines Happiness? Income or Attitude: Evidence From the U.S. Longitudinal Data” believes happiness “includes the experience of joy, contentment, or positive well-being, combined with a sense that one’s life is good, meaningful, and worthwhile” (81). More simply, happiness is...
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...In the World State Huxley uses conditioning to make the people believe that they are truly happy. Huxley shows that there are many ways for people to be happy. Happiness is something that everybody achieves in different ways. There are many things in my life that I would consider that make me truly happy. One would be my family. Whenever I have something going on in my life I can always count on my family. My grandparents play a big role in making me happy. Anytime I just need to get out I can go to their house. My family once a month gets together at my grandparents to eat dinner. I always enjoy going there because the sound of everybody’s laughter and stories always seem to brighten my day. Drawing is a way of making me feel happy. Anytime I am having a...
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...that people can feel. one essential standard for living is being able to be happy. Happiness can be found in many different forms. Positive people are happy people. No matter what type of hardships they have to endure, they try to overcome and believe the day they hope. They know what happiness is and try to forget something negative. There are three effects that make me happy which are are having energy, having money and having good health The first effect of being happy is having energy. There are many ways of having energy. Exercise is one of the ways that can gain energy. Exercise can help prevent excess weight gain or help maintain weight loss. When I engage in physical activity, I burn calories. As a result of burning calories and lose wight, my body will lean and fit. So this is one of the effects that usually makes me more confidante, improve my self esteem and make me happy. In addition, having energy makes me live longer. For instance, exercise and have energy make my healthy, and less likely to get diseases. So, this is one of the important reasons that makes me happy. Furthermore, Do an actual workout is also one of the effects that makes me happy. For example, physical activities such as ride a bicycle or walk for 30 minutes stimulates that brain that may leave me feeling happier and more relaxed. The second effect of being happy is having money. Having money allows me to buy what I want and need without thinking of the price. Usually when gets what I want...
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...About Sharing Happiness We can only share happiness with others when we ourselves know how to be happy and are happy. If we are not happy (it means we don't know how to be happy), then how can we share happiness with others and ask others to be happy, when we don't have happiness in ourselves? We can share our joy and happiness with all beings without any discrimination of human beings or non-human beings, good beings or bad beings, happy beings or unhappy beings, wise beings or ignorant beings, but we cannot give happiness to others nor can we make other beings to become happy. If one can give happiness to others or can make another being to become happy, then there shouldn't be any beings being unhappy in the world, because we can just give happiness to everyone and make everyone happy. But it doesn't work like that. Not even Buddha nor any enlightened beings can make another being to become happy or to become enlightened. If it is so easy, we can just ask for happiness or enlightenment and be happy forever and be enlightened. It is all come from within ourselves. Happiness or enlightenment, it is up to our own efforts to realize them within ourselves. It cannot be given or be bought from someone else. All the teachers and teachings are there to guide us to attain true happiness and enlightenment by our own effort. When beings are unhappy, have no peace in the heart, the mind is full of attachment, ignorance, anger, hatred, jealousy, arrogance, dissatisfaction, frustration...
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...TOPIC Happiness Abstract This paper talks about what happiness is in general. How happiness is perceived among people today in various countries, cultures and religions. “Happiness is the meaning and purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.” - Aristotle. Everyone has their own meaning to happiness in the way their emotions, goals and desires play out in their everyday lives. Some people may find happiness in music, friends and family gatherings. Others may find happiness in work, movies, sports and books. But, what truly makes a person happy? I will discuss how happiness can be found by individual people, cultures and the world as a whole. Every person in one way or another is on the journey to pursue their happiness and once they find it realize their whole life is focused on that one thing that makes them happy. It takes some longer to find what truly makes them happy than others and some never really find what makes them happy before their lives end. Some people may find happiness in the Arts such as paintings, music and theatre arts. These forms of art have drawn the attention of many over the years. Inspirational paintings are sold all over the world at expensive prices to willing buyers not only for the beauty but because the paintings give a sense of happiness and joy in one’s life and it also portraits something significant such as what the person desires (passionate about) when viewing the painting. One of such paintings is the Luncheon...
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...Phenomenological Reflection Paper Phenomenology of Happiness What can make one person happy might not have the same effect on another. With this, it is difficult to find the perfect recipe for happiness. However what is true is that happiness is the one thing that people do not tire of. We continue searching for happiness even if we know that we will eventually tire of what provides it, and we will have to search all over again. For thousands of years, human behaviour has largely been about and driven by the pursuit of happiness. Even if we have not yet understood its complete nature up to now, we still continuously look for it. This unending pursuit is an evidence of how important happiness is to us. Happiness is a positive feeling and it is quite contagious. On the surface, it can be defined by a heartfelt laugh, a smiling face, or even a touching tear. Often times when we hear laughter, we associate it with happiness Whether you know the person who is laughing or not, you know that person’s laughter is a very strong indication of his or her happiness. This is also true when we see a smile, or when we witness tears of joy. It is often hard not to be at least quite affected by the happiness of another person. A person who is dear to you may express his happiness through stories that he will tell you and you in turn will be glad for him, and possibly for few moments, you may even forget your own worries and just join him in this feeling of elation. An old couple sitting...
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...squash championship. He thought that the championship he had trained for, for five years would make him happy, and fill that emptiness he always had. It did right after he won the championship it really alleviate the emptiness. He was ecstatic and happier than he had ever could imagine him self be, but after they had celebrated the victory, and he came home to sleep at night, it came crawling back. The emptiness. His happiness didn’t come from squash anymore, so he tried to find out what happiness really means. He used a lot of time to search what the word happiness really meant, books, internet and philosophically. Nowhere could he find what his emotions was telling him and fleeting too, but he experience one thing, and that was sometimes you can have a really hard and bad day, and you can still enjoy overall happiness in the end. Outline of what makes people happy and what does not In text two Michael Chrichton writes that happiness isn’t something you can buy or get. Some people even say happiness is an illusion, but we do know it isn’t. Everybody have experienced happiness, maybe only in minutes, for some it is days and a few people are happy 24/7. Happiness is the thing that matters for you, that could be friends, family, the one girl or a pet, even the small things, like a letter or you see you friend is happy. The rest is commercial hustle that is things you think will make you happy and maybe it will, but that is only for a short time. The thing is that a car, a degree,...
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...day. It's only 9pm and I can already tell you that I've been happy and unhappy many times today. If I asked a group of people what they wanted most out of their lives for themselves or their family, whether for tomorrow or the rest of your life, most people would say happiness. Some might say money, but only because they think money will make them happy. Yes, money can buy things that will provide you with brief happiness, but for true happiness, I believe, you have to be focused on it for the majority of your life. Aristotle once said, "Human happiness is so important it transcends all other worldly considerations." If the meaning of life was to be completely one hundred percent happy; forget about all your goals and plans, the only thing you have to attempt to do is to be happy: happy in your life, your relationships, your family, your home, your job... but then of course you would only have a job and a family because they make you happy by providing money, a social group and companionship. It is interesting that seeking personal satisfaction in every aspect of our lives seems unrealistic. Isn’t that what life is about? We are on this Earth for a finite amount of time, time which we can never regain no matter how hard we try & for no amount of money. Each moment that slips by is another moment gone. Why should we accept our lives the way they are if we are not satisfied or if we are unhappy? It makes no sense to spend life knowing that we could be doing better for...
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