...Who is the Real Arnold Friend? Joyce Carol Oates’s “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” is a chilling tale based on true events that involved a serial killer and his young victims that occurred in the 1960’s. “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? “ Is a story about a young girl’s daydream that turn into a nightmare as she faces the evil of reality in the form of Arnold Friend. Arnold Friend represents a supernatural figure that creates a forbidden dream life that Connie craves, but fears at the same time. Arnold has set his sight on Connie; he will become something so familiar to Connie that she will lose her ability to discern fantasy from reality. Arnold Friend will take Connie from the safety of her home and childhood dreams...
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...The Truth Behind Arnold Friend In Joyce Carol Oates short story, “Where Are You Going? Where Have You Been?”, it is argued that the antagonist in the story is the incarnation of evil; Arnold Friend. Connie, the protagonist in the story, was a naïve fifteen year old who was fascinated by boys and was constantly out of the house with her friends. She always talked about the positive effects of her looks, but never realized the negative attention that could draw from how she dressed and acted outside of her house. Arnold Friend was drawn to Connie from the first time he saw her. One day Arnold visited Connie's house harassing her to come take a ride with him and he would not take no for an answer. That was the negative attention that Connie did not want. It is concluded at the end of the story that Connie gave in and went with Arnold knowing her fate would probably be death. Joyce Carol Oates never actually let her audience know who or what Arnold Friend represented, but it is argued that he may or may not be the devil. Throughout the story, Oates used many different ways to show that Arnold could be the incarnation of evil including lust, symbolism, and various religious references. At 15, most young girls in the 1960s were not as adventurous with boys as Connie. It was looked down upon by just about any adult for girls to be alone with any boy at her age. Connie was never really interested in the individual boys she had met, but more of the feeling she got from being in that...
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...seems pure at first but ultimately ends in the worst way. Arnold Friend is symbolized as satan through the development of the plot, characterization, and point of view. Oates foreshadows the fall of Connie to Arnold Friend by setting most of the story on a Sunday. “One Sunday Connie got up at eleven- none of them bothered with Church” (Oates 2). When Oates uses the words “none of them bothered with Church” it implies that Connie’s family is not religious and they do not care to...
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...bright colors; people were friendly and happy. I was dreaming to see this wonderful world. When I finished first semester in college where we had an exchange program for student. I participated in this program and won a trip to United States. It was a first time for me to leave my hometown. But I was very happy about my dream that comes true. Arnold and me have sacred places. Where we spend time with family and friends. But sometimes these sacred places it is not enough to become whom you want in your life. Arnold left Reservation to get better education. As an Arnold I left my country to live independent life. Novorossiysk situated in the south of Russia on the Black Sea. It is the country’s main port on the Black Sea and leading Russian port for importing grain. Novorossiysk is not very big; there are only 300000 citizens in it. The Caucasian mountains surround my city. Novorossiysk is a historical, cultural and health center. It is one of the few cities honored with the title of the Hero City. During the Great Patriotic War Novorossiysk became the arena of very severe combats. Due to courage and firmness of soviet warriors the enemy, who was heading for the Caucuses was stopped here by the wall of the city in September of 1942. There are lots of monuments in Novorossiysk. On the square of Freedom, in the center of the city, the sculptural group of city defenders. Above them proudly flutters the standard of victory. Novorossiysk is a health center. It has mineral springs, sanatoriums...
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...The Effects of Distress in the Mind In “Where Are You Going Where Have You Been” by Joyce Carol Oates, Arnold Friend is a manifestation of Connie’s subconscious. Illustrated within the passage Connie, who is under emotional distress, seeks salvation from her family life. Neglection and abandonment from the family, subconsciously induced depressed and rebellious impulses within Connie. Arnold Friend is a figment of her imagination whose persona helps combat her depression with fear, this makes her stronger and more independent. On account of the neglection and lack of attention on Connie from her family, it is inevitable that Connie would become depressed and attempt to seek help. Subconsciously, Connie’s desperation for help goes to the extreme of conjuring up an imaginary male figure to help her in a time of despair. In the story, Connie's Father plays a...
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...as the “Pied Piper,” written by Joyce Oates. As the story follows a teenage girl named Connie, the reader is introduced to several different people in Connie’s life, including friends, family, and foes. One foe in particular, Arnold Friend, makes a strong impact on Connie’s life and the reader’s mind. The big question here is whether or not Arnold Friend’s impact is positive or negative: civil vs. evil. The appearance of both a civil and evil Arnold Friend shows us how complex human nature is, and the intricacies that go into creating someone’s personality. This complexity of human nature is shown through Arnold Friend’s actions and...
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...Arnold Friend potentially tends to be a beast. In the story, it argues whether Arnold Friend represents Satan or not. I think he does, because he represents a devil figure for the main reason of tricking Connie to ride off with him. Arnold is portrayed of having shaggy black hair and drives a convertible jalopy painted gold. Arnold is not a teenager when Connie realizes the features, such as the painted eyelashes, wig structure, and his stuffed boots. Those features led to her thinking that he wasn’t a teenager, who he isn’t and he’s way much older actually. Oates portrays Arnold to be a psychopathic stalker, but never states the value of his role. She asks him how does he knows her name, and his response was he knows a lot about her. He begins to tell Connie all her friends’ names and tells her where her parents are. The passage below paints a picture of Arnold’s character. But I know what it is. I know your name and all about you, lots of things, Arnold Friend said. He had not moved yet but stood still leaning back against the side of his jalopy. I took a special interest in you, such a pretty girl, and found out all about you—like I know your parents and sister are gone somewhere and I know where and how long they're going to be gone, and I know who you were with last night, and your best girl...
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...you know who have had their innocence taken from them? A fifteen year old girl named Connie is forced to grow up entirely too fast by a man named Arnold Friend. Without meaning any harm, she flaunts herself around town acting like a mature woman, showing the world she thinks she ready to grow up. Joyce Carol Oates’s short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” illustrates how evil and manipulative one man is to a not so innocent Connie. Although Connie thinks she wants her independence as a woman, Arnold Friend, who is not who he seems to be, destroys her youthful innocence and introduces her to a world of evil. Connie begins to find independence in her appearance. She is constantly admiring herself in the mirror and being scolded for it by her mother. She tries to make herself sexually attractive in search of her own independence (SparkNotes Web). Connie goes out with her friends and flaunts her beauty and body, making herself look interested in older men; she thinks she is doing no harm when she is flirting. Like most teenagers, Connie wants to express her independence by going places alone with her friends. Being only fifteen, she is not able to drive, so she is dependent on the older people in her life. Connie is resentful of not having her full independence, but her family and friends constitute as the only life she knows. While Connie believes she is only making herself look older in order to appear beautiful, she is actually luring an older man who can quite...
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...Arnold’s Determination Arnold is a boy born with many brain problems, despite his brain problems he turns out to be one of the most determined people in his community. The Absolutely True Diary of a Part Time Indian is a book by Serman Alexie about a boy named Arnold and his life. Arnold grows up with two undependable parents, and his dad was an alcoholic while his mother was an alcoholic. He grows up having a hard life because of his brain damage, so if he gets hit in the head he will suffer severe consequences. Also his parents do not have much money that would help get treatment for his condition. Arnold lives on a reservation with his best friend Rowdy, one day Arnold decides he wants a better life and decides to switch to an mostly all white school called Rearden, with this decision he lost many friends and community members but stays devoted to stay at Rearden. Arnold with his brain damage stays insistent to go to Rearden, make the basketball team at Rearden, and eventually beats his...
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...Myles Hypse February 3rd, 2017 English 1B 3:30-4:40pm Two Psychopaths Both of these stories give the reader a good look into the eyes of two characters, who both refuse to take no for an answer. One of them, Arnold Friend although at first appearing friendly and charming, is nothing more than a malicious predator, similar in kind to The Misfit, who greets his victims in a much more sinister way. The two characters, when stood side by side, almost seemed as they become one, yet are polar opposites. When one compares the character Arnold Friend to that of The Misfit, many similarities and differences bubble to the surface and reveal themselves to the reader. Out of the many character traits the two killers had in common; the one that...
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...1960’s Connie and her friends are going to a local diner to hang out with the older teenagers. This where Connie met a boy named Arnold Friend. In the story, the author is using symbolism to mainly talk about the purpose of meeting Stanger in public. In the beginning, Connie view the car as important symbol of independence, power and freedom. When she first recognized the car “she draw her shoulder up and sucked in her breath with the pure pleasure of being alive” (Oates 201).When Connie noticed the car “convertible jalopy painted gold” she knew it was Arnold Friend. When she first saw Arnold “Connie slit her eyes...
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...The Absolute True Diary of a Part-Time Indian On The Outside Looking In Being an outsider in a new place is never easy. One has to do twice the work to make friends, and fit in. While reading the novel, I could relate to the character of Arnold Spirit. The obstacles he faced going to a new school, with a different culture reminded me of struggles I faced myself when I started school in America. Trying to “fit in” to a culture foreign of your own is especially hard when you’re a teenager like Arnold, and you haven’t even figured out who you really are yet yourself. Fortunately, time goes on, and we overcome our battles eventually. They say “sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” My very own name used to wound my self-esteem. During my several years at elementary school, I struggled to fit in with all of my classmates and friends. The thing I had the biggest problem with was being Bosnian, and the way my name was spelled. S-E-J-L-A, pronounced “shayla.” Every morning before we’d start class, the whole school would have to listen to the announcements on the loudspeaker made by the principle. They included the pledge of allegiance, the weather, special events for the day/week, and birthdays. That meant that the whole school would hear the principle butcher my name, on my birthday, so the entire world could laugh at me. I used to always go home crying on those days after school and yelling at my mom asking her why I had to be different, and why she...
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...Joyce Carol Oates is an author who is known for writing about the violent behavior of humans and its outcome on everyday people, typically women, and children. In her short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” Oates introduces the antagonist named Arnold Friend who is a sexual predator that preys on a teenage girl name Connie. In the story is she fifteen- years old and Friend lures her into what the readers believe is her rape and death. Oates uses Arnold Friends character to demonstrate how easy it is to be deceived by a person’s appearance, how evil a person can be and how one can use psychological torture to persuade an individual. In the beginning, Oates sets up the plot of a questionable character during Connie’s and Friend’s first encounter. Connie often went to the drive-in to hang around older kids. Her desire was to find a love that is “sweet’ and “gentle”. When she encountered Friend at the drive-in he was driving a convertible that she liked and he dressed in a way that appealed to her. Connie’s misperception of Friend’s appearance ultimately leads to her down fall. Arnold Friend is much older than Connie first thinks he is. He...
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...with some awkward teenage habits that are commonly seen in teenage girls and she does this when she is around her friends and boys. These habits involve nervous giggling and always constantly looking in the mirror. She also wants to live in her dream world where she listens to music all day and lives with her prince charming. Connie’s confrontation with death comes in the form of the stranger, Arnold Friend. He symbolizes death in that he comes to take Connie away from her home and the world that she once knew. Although she didn’t actually die, she dies in spirit and would never be the same person again. Connie’s longing for independence has a bad result when Arnold Friend comes along and takes her out forcefully of her...
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...In the short story, Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?, Carol Oates symbolizes Arnold Friend as representing the devil who comes to lure Connie away to her home. In the story, Arnold Friend portrays similar characteristics a demon would have; such as, his height, looking ageless, and having a fake appearance. The devil, known for pretending to be someone who he isn’t to lure people in, Arnold Friend does this perfectly by driving up in a flashy car, “ It was an open jalopy, painted a bright gold that caught the sunlight opaquely. Her heart pounds and her fingers snatch at her hair, checking it, and she whispers, "Christ. Christ," wondering how bad she looked”(2), and caking on makeup, “His whole face was a mask, she thought wildly,...
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