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Children hurt and tease each other, from the clothes they wear to what

they look like. Children do not have the maturity to understand or realize how

cruel comments can affect someone. When we see someone with a physical defect

or someone that may not look “normal”, its human nature to stare, but we have to

teach our children to be sympathetic and supportive towards people like this. In,

Beauty: When the Other Dancer Is the Self, Alice Walker suggests that a

psychological and physical scar can turn ones life into a downward spiral but can

overcome it all in the end.

Walker begins to describe how quickly she turned into a self-hatred human being in the blink of an eye. She takes us on an emotional roller coaster with present and past memories of her life. Walker depicts herself as a wonderful and beautiful child who at one point could stand proud in front of people with confidence, almost on the verge of cockiness. One day she is wearing beautiful and colorful dresses, and the next she becomes a rough and dirty tomboy. It was her Kelly 2 tomboy change when her life made a drastic turn that resulted in a physical scar and far worse, a psychological scar that she would endure for most of life. As she became older, Walker regained her confidence. She had been given a life-changing opportunity to repair her physical defect. Instantly, she became a happier person, however, it wasn’t until her concerned daughter tells her something that almost ended her nightmare forever. Walker was eight years old when her parents decided to buy her brothers their own BB guns. Her brothers turned into shooting machines that would shoot at everything in sight. Unfortunately for Walker, she became a victim of her brother’s careless behavior. Walker had been hit in her right eye by a BB pellet. After being taken to the doctor, Walker hears terrifying news. That moment changed her life and the confidence she once had was shattered and headed into a downward spiral of psychological despair. Hearing the probability of losing both eyes, did nothing to stop her from being more concerned about her physical appearance. Where there was once a beautiful eye that could see the world, was now replaced with a blind eye that looked like a glob with whitish scar tissue. Depression came over her like a spell. She didn’t realize it then that her appearance could be repaired, but the psychological effects would prove to be Kelly 4 much harder to fix. For six years, she would not raise her head because she was convinced that teasing would surely follow next. Walker had not realized that she was causing more attention to herself by not raising her head. For the first time, Walker began doing poorly in school. She was tortured everyday by her peers and called names like “one-eyed bitch”. She endured kids instigating fight with her when she wouldn’t tell them what was wrong with her eye. After months of torment, Walker was sent to live with her grandmother. She returned to her old community and old school. She found some comfort knowing at least one teacher there loved her no matter what she looked like. Life was bearable because of her teacher. Walker was still emotionally broken. She had feelings of hatred, shame and ugliness. Her nights were filled with rituals of rants and raves towards her eye. She verbally abused her eye in front of a mirror with words like despise and hate. Walker prayed desperately for beauty, not sight. Walker expresses how a psychological and physical scar can misery but possible to overcome. She overcame some of that misery when her brother and his wife take her to a hospital to have her eye operated on. She recalls, “almost immediately I become a different person from the girl who does not raise her head” (Walker 325). With her new confidence, she begins giving speeches at Kelly 5 school, becomes most popular, most beautiful, and leaves high school Valedictorian. Although Walker’s life seemed fulfilled because she had this incredible confidence that allowed her to hold her head up high and blessed to share it with a new husband and daughter, she continued to struggle with the insecurity of her eye. Walker recalls the moment her pain left was when her daughter looked into her eye. Fearing her daughter would be cruel like most children; she continued to watch as her daughter held her face and studied her eye. Suddenly with great concern, her daughter says, “Mommy, there’s a world in your eye” (Walker 328). Stunned and filled with emotions, Walker ran to the bathroom crying and laughing because she had never thought of her eye in this way and she felt a sense of relief and joy. Time went on until one day, while admiring the beauty of the desert, she finally confronted the words the doctor told her so long ago, “eyes are sympathetic” and “if one eye is blind, the other will likely become blind” (Walker 323). Walker was haunted by these words physically and psychologically for a long time. She began to realize how she allowed anger and despair to exhaust her life mentally, physically, and emotionally. She acknowledged the fact that she had missed out on life experiences and might have even missed out on seeing the beautiful desert. The amazing feeling she felt carried over into a dream of Kelly 6 dancing happily with another person who was beautiful, whole and free. She realized the other dancer was also herself. Is everyone’s life really that different, or is there a thread that connects us all? I imagine most people can relate to having insecurities and how we allow these insecurities to consume our lives negatively. In, Beauty: When the Other Dancer Is the Self, Walker made a connection between a physical scar and a psychological scar and although connected, they were still very different. Walker’s story was a prime example of mind over matter; one is much more powerful than the other. The power of her psychological effects had, weighed heavily on her. Everyday we watch shows of people receiving surgeries to improve their look, but yet they wonder why they still don’t feel happy. It proves that anyone can be repaired physically but you shouldn’t be naive to believe it can actually repair how you feel. Walker was fortunate to have been able to change her appearance but it didn’t help the suffering and the absence of peace within her. She didn’t find peace as quickly as she might have wanted, but she did find it and she couldn’t have been more excited than at the moment peace finally came.

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Works Cited
Walker, Alice. Beauty: When the Other Dancer Is the Self. (Ed) Diyanni, Robert:
Fifty Great Essays, Fourth Edition. New York University, Pearson, Longman, 2011, print (321-328).

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