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Crack the whip Recently I don't know if it's just me or not, but I've noticed that everywhere I go there happens to be a child that is throwing a fit, crying or even scream at their parents. Generally it seems to be the subject they're not getting what they want that day at that moment. And it doesn't bother me that it's happening, the thing that bothers me is that parents give in to their child's or children's demand and walks them back into Walmart, Toys R Us, Target or whatever store that I happen to be at that day and them whatever it is that they want. It's kind of sad to see that today's kids lack discipline and that parents don't do anything about it beside turn. Kids today are spoiled and parents are not doing what is necessary to fix. As I said last kids are spoiled, at least kinds where I live are spoiled. I believe it starts with the parents. Parents who don't feel like standing their ground because their kids happen to throw a tantrum, cry, and complain at them. Parents have become pushovers and cave in at the signs that their children might become upset or cause a scene. The parents have I believe gotten lazy when it comes to keeping their kids in line or so self-absorb they care more about their image and how their children are acting. Parent who believe that they can buy their children's affection by giving them everything they want. Are just as bad those parents are just trying to fill a void that they have made with material items saying yes to everything their children have to say for the sake of having their children loving them. In the end it all falls down to the parent. Parents need to step it up a little and be firm on where they stand and put their foot down and say no or say no I am spending time with my child today. There are some very simple solutions to fix this problem. It’s easy in essence but hard in execution. One parents need to stand firm and resolute and not give into their children and second parents don’t buy your children’s love. First off parent need to not give in into every demand their child, I know doing that is especially hard. Children will say that they're unhappy; they want to run away, or not love their parents anymore. The thing is they're only words that children say to hit the sore spot on the bleeding hearts of parents. Most parents will hear that will give in to demands that instant, but the correct course of action are to say no, you can't have that. Not only will children use words to get to their parents they will also use the patented temper tantrum. Not only are temper tantrums are loud and annoying, but they draw the attention of everyone in the area. When this occurs parents will quickly quiet their children and giving in to them so as the people who have noticed the tantrum will not think they're bad parents. That's where parents are wrong; parent shouldn't care what the general public thinks about how they should raise their children. So when a child throws a temper tantrum let it happen, show the child that it won't work.
Secondly, do not buy your children's love. It only works for so long and then children will begin to realize that their love has a dollar value that parents can buy with money or material good. Soon children will feel like their love is worth a little more and begin demanding more and more. Instead of going and giving children material good and money while saying, "I love you because I gave you this so you should love me too." The solution is Parent's actual need to connect with their children on some level before things get out of hand.
Some people don't get the point that parents shouldn't spoil their children and say kids will be kids and it is best to keep them happy no matter what. So that one day when they grow up and attend high school they are so used to having everything handed to the them, they get mad when I show the slightest amount of integrity and turn down the idea of doing their homework for them? If so that is great parenting, I loved having someone telling me off because I refuse to do their homework and I love even more the look on their face when they get caught for cheating. As I see if children don't have a structure where they know their limitations they will continue to develop into a self-serving, arrogant, narcissistic type person.
When comes to it all in only my word against the whole world's and typically the world drowns me out, but every once in a while I do make a valid point about something. I believe that parents need to stop spoiling their children. Every now and then is perfectly fine, but as a daily occurrence I see as unacceptable. There is a reason why parents are parents and children are children and it shouldn't be where the parents who want to raise their kids are met with demands of their children and are in essence force to follow through with the demands. If children are to be our future, then parents need to guide them in the right direction.

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