I Want a Husband
Every woman wants what she thinks is the perfect husband. Not every woman wants the same thing in a man. Some women want a man who is a little rough or some want a man who is college educated. A few things all women can agree upon is we all want a man who is gives attention, committed, a good provider, great listener, educated, and handy around the house. That is just to name a few things us women want in a man. When I think of what the world says a good man is to me it is like they are looking for the perfect man. To me the perfect man cannot be found every man has there flaws. You just have to find the man with the flaws that you can deal with. Every good man is not college educated; but they know how to get up and go to work to make an honest living. To find a man that is educated is a good thing that means that they are on your level and can keep up with you. Education is important to every woman when it comes to finding a husband, because you know that their values are in the right place if going to school is important to them. What woman you know wants a man that is not committed to them. If a man cannot be committed you might as well say there is not a relationship. Woman want to know that they are the only one in a man's life. Women like to know the man is not out and about doing things that he should not do. When a man is turns into a husband commitment is important. No woman wants to find out that her man was not committed totally to her cause it hurts. A husband should not be out all times of the night doing God knows what when he knows he got a wife at home. I always say “the measure of your love is only the measure of your loyalty”. Being committed is making sure you are the only one. To be is a successful relationship means to be committed. Most women in modern times are independent now, because it is hard to find a man that is a good provider. A husband should be a good provider no matter what. He supposed to make sure the bills and anything else is taken care of. No woman wants to take care of a man and the household as well. That man is supposed to make sure that his wife does not come home one night and the lights are off, because he forgot to pay the bill. If a husband cannot be a good provider then that woman might as well not get married. After a long day at work you want to be able to come home to your husband and tell him how your day has gone. Having a man that is a good listener is almost needed. I'm sure no woman wants to come home and their man cannot pay attention to you long enough to hear how you day went. Some men like to listen and others like to talk; sometime you have to find that balance between the two. That man that likes to listen may not always have the answer but he will listen to you even if he does not want to. If that man is a good listener even on one of those days he does not want to listen to you will never be able to tell he did not want to listen. I know most women want a man who can fix things. As a woman some of us cannot fix a whole lot of things, so then we have to spend money to get it fixed. If something breaks at the house we want our man there to fix it. If your car breaks downs you should be able to call your man to fix it. Getting a man that can fix things is great, but the trick is finding a man that can fix it right. It is easy to fix something, but then find out it is still broken. By having a man that child fix things to me it saves money that would have been spent calling someone in to fix it. Most women like a man that can pay attention to them. Why get a man that does not pay you any mind when you are there. If that man cannot pay attention then what is the point in being there. Woman like to know that you see them and know that they are there. No woman wash pants a man that will watch TV all day and act as if you are not there. When a man pays attention that lets us know that he sees us that he acknowledges you. Every woman wants a man that will walk in a room and give us his undivided attention. Having a man that is an at least good communicator is sometimes needed. If I find a man that his only response is “ok” or “yea” to everything I have to say then maybe I need to rethink something’s. You want to be able to have a decent conversation. If you cannot have a conversation with a man that says no more than two words then that is sooner or later will become a problem. Every woman likes to talk to their man, so having good commutation skills are important. Most men say that women ask for a lot, but that isn't true. Some women like I are simple we do not ask for much. My ideal husband would have good commutation skills, educated, committed, pays attention, a good listener, good provider, and handy. That is not a lot to ask for from a man. No man is perfect, so there is no point in looking for a man that is perfect. Perfect is only what your mind thinks is perfect to and for yourself. Every man has flaws, but if you can look past those flaws then you may find your ideal husband.