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Girl is a short story written by Jamaica Kincaid about a mother who speaks to her daughter about the responsibilities she need to uphold as she grows into a woman. These are not just duties that she need to uphold as a woman, but in order for her to be respected in society. For example, the mother tells the daughter to soak her clothes right after she takes them off because clothes play a factor when it comes to first impressions. When you wear proper clothing it shows that you have self-respect and a high level of maturity. In other words, someone who is poorly dressed displays a sign of poverty. Even if they are not poorly dressed men can see them as sluts because women dress with low maturity and no respect and that is what the mother is …show more content…
Though the mother is worried she still wants to guide the daughter into being the best woman she can be. For example, she teaches the daughter how to smile at people she likes and dislikes to show that even if you dislike someone, when you smile at them you are showing them a great sign of respect. The mother’s advice given to the daughter is only to show her how to live a fulfilling life by offering relationship advice, how to do household chores, and how to behave when she is put in different situations. For example, the mother teaches the daughter how to love and keep a good relationship, and if it does not work do not worry because there are plenty of ways to fix it including ending the relationship. Regardless, if the mother is worried about her daughter becoming a “slut” and has little faith that she will become a remarkable woman, she will do whatever she can to give her daughter the tips she need to be respected. The mother also wants her daughter to be the best wife she can be with an income instead of a single mother with no income and is forced to sell her body to make a living out of

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