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An Awkward Easter
It was a perfect day for an Easter egg hunt, when we stepped outside that Easter morning we were met by the warm glow of the sun and a bird’s song. It was the first nice day of spring. We had just left our house to walk down to the park less than a block away to hide some Easter eggs for my two year old son Carter. The events that followed will make for a memory I won’t soon forget; between trying to make divorced grandparents happy and random drug addicts who don’t deserve parenthood my son still had a great day hunting eggs. We had just arrived at the park and my son was running through the grass chasing our dog Claire. My wife’s mother and her younger brother and sister were waiting for us to come over by the play structure; they had arrived earlier to hide the eggs. We took our time making it over to them frolicking through the grass chasing, growling and barking as Carter and I pursued Claire with Christina and Natalie not far behind. As usual my father was late so we all ran around on the play structure while we waited for him and my sister to show up. I noticed a girl a year or so older than my son also playing alongside us. I asked my wife if she had seen who was with the little girl and she replied “I haven’t seen anyone with her, maybe she belongs to the group of people over there” pointing to a group about two football fields away. I was starting to get annoyed trying to keep my son away from the hidden Easter eggs, twenty minutes had passed since I had called and told my father that we were leaving the house it had also been around fifteen minutes since I noticed the little girl with no supervision. A few moments had passed when two very obvious meth users walked in front of the playground, the little girl yelled out “hey Mom watch me, watch me Mom”. The mom replied “just stay there and play.” My heart immediately sank so I told my wife that I was going to hide some of Carters eggs for her, while hiding a few eggs in a different spot the little girl fell off the slide and busted her lip open. The mother was within screaming distance and took her time making it over to her crying child . She showed more anger as if she was inconvenienced by her daughter’s injury rather than compassion for her hurt child. The mother proceeded to pull her by the arm screaming and bleeding toward the parking lot in direct path of Carters hidden Easter eggs. The screaming little girl immediately stopped to a mire sniffle once she had discovered the brightly colored eggs, again my heart sank. I was thinking to myself how could I tell this neglected little girl the eggs weren’t for her. The mother started encouraging her to pick up the candy filled plastic eggs and was doing so herself when I finally said “Excuse me those are for my boy, but she can have some”. The mother threw all but one of the eggs down and grabbed the girl by the arm and headed for the parking lot about the same time I noticed my father and sister walking over from the parking lot by the tennis court. I quickly re-hid the eggs and we started the hunt, it wasn’t long before Carter had scaled around the giant tree trunk yelling “I found it” getting all the strategically placed eggs for optimal photo shoot capability. My wife was holding our newborn Natalie and taking pictures. Her mom, brother and sister were making funny faces and taking pictures while my dad and sister were trying not to get wrapped up in his dogs leash while also taking pictures. Despite the awkward paparazzi Carter was climbing all over the tree and eating his chocolate like the happiest Easter monkey you’ve ever seen. Holidays are always a strategically planed event in my house. We always try to make sure all three separate grandparents get quality holiday time with our son and his newborn sister, but like water and oil, separated grandparents don’t mix well. After the egg hunt we all started walking toward the tennis courts when we noticed my ex-step mother and her two daughters playing tennis whom I and my sister are still very close with. My sister went over to see them while we were saying goodbye to my father as he sneered over at the tennis courts mumbling a few snide remarks under his breath. He and my sister left shortly after that, turning down the invitation to come over for dinner despite my sisters’ wishes. After fooling around in the tennis courts and talking with my step mother and sisters we headed home. The hunt was over, Carter had eaten all the candy he could open by himself and all the grandparents were gone. While looking at my chocolate faced little boy I realized he didn’t see a neglected little girl with an unfit parent, he met a friend that he played and shared his candy with. He didn’t see or feel the tension between grandparents, he laughed and saw a bunch of funny people that care about him and most importantly I realized my son had a great day at the park hunting eggs with his family however awkward it may be between them.

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