Self-help books do work, but only if you take action.
And if you want to make sure you take action, then follow a plan.
Progress won't happen overnight, but if you can stay consistent you will see results.
Here is to a better you!
“My actions are my only true belongings.” —Thich Nhat Hann
P.S. You know I think most people get caught up in self-help when all they are really looking for is friends. How do you get friends? You take action. You get out there, find a group, and meet people.
How to Stop Masturbating
I hate the term "NoFap" and that was the last time I'll use the word. But the most successful people I know—both in their financial and personal lives—don't look at porn (I would know I work on their computers). And since they are almost always in healthy, loving relationships, they really have no reason to masturbate.
Any guy should know the extra energy and vitality you get when you abstaining from masturbating for a day or two. And when you combine that with all the 1,000s testimonials online about how it change their lives, it's a no-brainer.
And I…show more content… Obviously, you are going to say this goes against completely my article of selfishness is the ultimate selflessness. Actually, it doesn't. If you let people make you miserable, then you can't put your focus 100% on others. What that article is saying is to not go against your instincts. When you need to eat, you don't think about it, you just eat. That's instinct. To follow your dreams is an instinct in every human from the day they are born (remember, you follow your dreams, you don't think about them because if you do then you ruin the adventure). But all your thoughts should be about making other people happy (and that's how you help them live their adventure). That's the gift you need to be giving them. It's like what Steve Chandler talks about to stop people pleasing and serve them instead. And if you don't put the focus on others, then you'll just be starving your
