...University of La Verne Graduate School of Business BUS 585 Strategies in Change Management Individual Research Paper: Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Five Stages of Loss Xiaohan Liu Professor John C. Sivie July 11, 2013 Background Information In people’s life, it is usually to be seen that some tragedies happens. This may result in horrible experience because people have to cope with such tragedies for a long time. The tragedies may be health-related, family-related, job-related, accident-related, and so on. For example, if someone in your family is diagnosed with a chronic or terminal disease, it may be regarded as a tragedy in your life. It is not only physical accident, but also mental and emotional anguish. According to Torrey (2012), millions of new victims suffer medical mistakes and errors in healthcare every year. Hundreds of thousands die. More and more people feel debilitated for different reasons, and the medical mistakes result in life-changing, which are also tragedies. The effects of how people cope with tragedies may be a combination of physical, mental and emotional. Here is a question: if you are diagnosed with a terminal disease, or if your life quality is destroyed by a medical accident, how can you get past the anguish and grief? And what are you going to do to cope with the accident? Thus, it is necessary to have general guidelines to help you to understand and get through the grieving process, as well as set the stage to help you begin coping. Introduction ...
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...Antigone, Haimon, nor Creon act with reason because of their intense personal losses and grief. Unfortunately, both extreme passion and radical reasoning manifest serious tragedy. Antigone, the protagonist of the play, lives with her father’s banishment and the death of her two brothers in a civil war. To add to the torment of the death of her brother, Polynieces, a decree passed by Antigone's uncle, Creon,...
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...How does Miller use language to make this a moving scene? Throughout the extract, Miller uses complex literary devices and carefully chosen words in order to make Willy seem desperate, in denial, wanting to be independent while not being able to and having a fear of failure. Miller’s use of language portrays Willy to be desperate for the job which is moving. Willy tells Howard that he’s ‘got to’ have his job, which sounds like Willy is trying to seem innocent – as if he cannot survive without it. It also sounds like he is demanding Howard to give him his job, which is not very professional and shows how Willy does not suit the business world. This is moving. As well as this, Willy, after having been denied a job which allows him to go to Boston responds by saying ‘Why can’t I go?’ Miller’s choice of words relates to those of a child who really wants to go somewhere, and is sulking. This reflects his desperateness to be able to go to Boston, and the relation to children adds to the moving effect of the quote, as children are associated with innocence. It also makes it sounds like Willy doesn’t understand what is going on, again like a child, which is moving. Miller emphasises on the fact that Willy loves the idea of being able to work and be independent but subtly underlines that Willy is unable to do so. This emphasis and subtlety is used when Howard suggests that Willy stops working and lives off his sons, to which he responds by saying that he is ‘not a cripple...
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...The techniques that people use to avoid unpleasant emotions are repression, denial, projection, displacement, regression, and sublimation. Denial is refusing to admit an uncomfortable truth despite overwhelming evidence. In this movie the main character Susanna refuses to admit that she tried to commit suicide, Susanna defends herself by saying she had a headache and that's the reason why she drank a bottle of aspirins. Susanna didn't realize that she was actually hurting herself more by denying it. Susanna denied she tried to commit suicide so she can protect herself from the current situation. Finally, denial is not always a bad thing in Susanna's case denial had a good outcome, it gave her time to realize what she has done. It took her a long time to completely realize that her decision was not the best choice. Susanna was making up excuses rather than taking responsibility for her actions, also known as...
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...Linda’s misguided attempts at restoring Willy to mental stability. Throughout the rest of the play Miller’s permissive characterisation of Linda catalyses the deterioration of Willy’s psyche and relationships. Miller presents Linda as Willy’s enabler; she is seen as not only allowing but socialising Willy into a self-destructive way of being. Miller incorporates the symbolism of the flute into the stage directions to symbolise Willy’s hamartia, a tragic flaw that leads to a character’s downfall. Although Willy Loman does not fit the criteria of the tragic hero, Arthur Miller wanted to show the fate of one of the many ordinary people who are rejected by a system which should support them. In Tragedy and the Common Man, he wrote, “I believe that the common man is as apt a subject for tragedy in its highest sense as kings were”. As Willy enters a “small fine melody on a flute is heard”. A flute is an artificial object; it could be interpreted that its elusive and indistinct sound represents fantasy, a product of the imagination. Furthermore, its “small” and “fine melody” hints at childlike imagery. All of these attributes relate to the character of Willy. Children strive for unattainable fantasies; Willy, as an adult, should be more rational. Miller presents Linda as being a contributor to this flaw due to her need to conceal the cracks in their relationship, covering up issues rather than confronting them, “They can’t expect you to travel to work every week” and to bolster Willy’s...
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...the book is “the desire to avoid the truth” basically the truth about his history. He's the son the prophecy foretold the one who would kill his father and marry his mother. Unfortunately, oedipuss desire to avoid the truth only puts off the inevitable and the tragic irony is that even as the facts are piling up against him, Oedipus can't seem to make even the most obvious connections. The desire to avoid the truth manifest itself, all along Oedipus continues to look at the truth, but never to really see it. There has been many reviews on showing how Oedipus is in fact a tragic flaw or tragic hero, for example, “If we give ourselves up to a full sympathy with the hero, there is no question that the oedipus Rex fulfils the function of a tragedy, and arouses fear and pity in the highest degree.” (Oedipus Rex as the Ideal Tragic Hero of Aristotle) by Marjorie Barstow. Another good example is, “But it never was the habit of Oedipus to do more thinking than seemed necessary to the particular action upon which all the power of his impetuous nature was concentrated.” (Oedipus Rex as the Ideal Tragic Hero of Aristotle) by Marjorie Barstow. At the beginning Oedipus is given a prophecy he's destined to kill his father and then have children with his own mother upon hearing about this terrible fate, he decides that he could, on his own out with the gods and the forces of the universe. It seems innocent just looking out for his own good considering Sophocles message about respecting the power...
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...To justify why we need the brutal border protection polices, he said "If you want to stop the deaths, if you want to stop the drownings, you've got to stop the boats." To add to his disgusting remarks, he said “we’ll continue to have the illegal trade, we'll have the people smugglers in business and we'll have the tragedies at sea." Tony Abbot displayed many questionable remarks, much denial and ultimately fueling the moral dilemma. His quotes came from conflict of his refugee convention, challenging that of the UN. Where he starts to show much denial against them...
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...Oidipus’ Downfall Plato once said, “We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” Some people grow old too fast and become wise too late. In Oidipus the King, by Sophocles, a man named Oidipus faces a prophecy that soon leads to a tragic end. Although there are many contributing factors to the downfall of Oidipus, Oidipus and Jokasta are most responsible. Oidipus is responsible for his own downfall. He kills his own father and solves the riddle of the sphinx. These actions became the start to a new world of irony. All of Oidipus’ actions are puzzle pieces that are connected together to make the prophecy come true. Oidipus proceeds with a rant about the killer of Laios saying, “I also pray that if he shares my heart and home, with my own knowledge, I myself may suffer these same curses I have just called down on other heads” (249-251). It is ironic that he talks about the punishments of the killer of Laios, even though he is the one who he has been talking about. Oidipus is unaware that his actions build up to only stab him in the back in the end. Although Oidipus is the reason for his own downfall, there is someone else who helps put the pieces of the puzzles together. Jokasta is the main cause of the prophecy coming true. Jokasta and Laios are aware of the prophecy even before Oidipus is born, and they come up with a plan to kill Oidipus after his birth. If only they just kept Oidipus instead of sending...
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...We all go through some sort of tragedy at one point in our lives. Me, I lost a dear friend and a wonderful teacher. The person I lost goes by the name Jon Sokoloff who was a great person at heart and tried to make people laugh any chance he got using sarcastic lines or rhetorical statements. I didn’t know what it was like to lose someone that I was close to until that fateful, Saturday morning April 25th 2015 when I was at a friend’s house and I got that heart-retching call from my mother. I am going to tell you all about this and more but first I need to take you through the five stages of Grief. The first stage I am going to explain to you is Denial. When we lose someone, we instantly go into a state where all phenomena declared never occurred...
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...suffered in many ways. Wes Moore one was given a better future by his parents, location, and education, but the same could not be said about the other wes moore. The Tagline for The Other Wes Moore is: “The chilling truth is that his story could have been mine. The tragedy is that my story could have been his.” What does it mean, Do i agree with it? Why or Why Not? In literature, a tragedy is a work in which the protagonist is brought to ruin as a consequence of tragic flaw, a moral weakness, or the inability to cope with unfavorable circumstances. Given that definition, would i say that the other Wes Moore's story is a...
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...CONTEMPORARY ISSUES IN SOCIAL WORK By Student's Name Course Code and Name Professor’s Name University Name City, State Date of Submission Q1. The effect of globalization has resulted in complex economic and social networking among people of the world. One of the main elements of globalization is the movement of people from one area to another area for various reasons. In most cases, people move to more industrialized and peaceful countries in search of better opportunities and safe environments. The 21st century has seen the increased migration of citizens of one state to another, a period termed as the age of Diasporas (Helman, 2007). The research will focus on immigrants, mainly asylum seekers and refugees with particular emphasis on the 72 asylum seekers from Lebanon who perished off the coast of Indonesia while heading to Australia. The research will address the plight of asylum seekers as one the most vulnerable populations. Migration to another country may be voluntary or voluntary. The involuntary migrants include asylum seekers, refugees, returnees ad internally displaced persons (IDPs). The primary cause of this category of people changing their location could be political upheavals, wars, natural disasters and poor states of the economy. The voluntary migrants migrate to other countries in search of employment and new ventures for personal growth. However, the involuntary migrants have multiple psychological, physical and social vulnerabilities due to their experience...
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...hospital that belongs to the ministry of health of Saudi Arabia. The fire was tragic, caused the death of 25 people and 127 injuries. The crisis grabbed media attention and different official entities in Saudi Arabia. This report will describe the situation and analyze the communication management of this crisis, how the ministry handled it, the communication effectiveness and some ethical issues. In addition, the report will provide some recommendations to handle such crisis. Situation Description Crisis Situation Overview The hospital in which the fire happened is located in the southwestern region of Saudi Arabia. That region has a low population number. The fire started early morning on Thursday, the 24th of December 2015. The tragedy is high, as 25 people died and 127 were injured. The numbers are big and that caused the incident to be considered as a national disaster. People in social media such as Tiwtter and Facebook started talking about the fire. Videos and pictures were spread around and people shared them. Some citizens volunteered to rescue people from the fire and help in evacuation. Initial response from the ministry was to acknowledge the fire incident. It stated also that the evacuation of children was successful and all children were rescued. A later announcement from the ministry is to assign a call center number for patients’ families to call and ask about patients’ situation. A TV interview with the general manager of health affairs in Jazan was...
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...There is no denial that the criminal justice system in failing the African-American community, or handing them stricter punishments than needed. Glenn C. Loury revealed in his article An American Tragedy: The legacy of slavery lingers in our cities' ghettos that “Nor do serious people deny that the crime, drug addiction, family breakdown, unemployment, poor school performance, welfare dependency, and general decay in these communities” (1998). Recently the organizations and campaigns of “Black Lives Matter” has advocated for the deaths of Sandra Bland, Mike Brown, Laquan McDonald, and various other lives that have been taken by police officials who have not been penalized. These individuals did not even make it to court to receive a hearing....
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...Bethany Gavins A&P Mr. Schroeder My Sister’s Keeper When an individual is affected by an illness and death, the people that know the individual, usually the family, are affected, too. In My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult, Kate Fitzgerald is diagnosed with Leukemia, which affects every member of her family. The Kubler-Ross’ cycle of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance explains how each family member deals with Kate’s death and grief. Each member has a different way of dealing with Kate’s death. A chronic illness doesn’t affect just the person who has it, but also the people around the person. The Fitzgerald’s are all devastated and are full of grief throughout Kate’s struggle and death from Leukemia. The main character, Anna Fitzgerald, shows her acceptance of the Kubler-Ross cycle. Anna hates to admit that her sister will die regardless of what the family tries to do. Therefore, she tries to save herself and Kate from any more suffering by gaining legal rights to do what she wants to do with her body despite what her parents tell her. Anna knows that her parents, especially her mother, Sara, will go to any extremes to make Kate win the battle against cancer or at least live longer. Anna feels like winning the case will make her parents realize that Anna, too, has a right to live a normal life with a normal childhood. She’s accepted that Kate will soon die and doesn’t want to see Kate suffer any longer. Anna also feels that she’s doing Kate a favor...
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...Managing Grief and Culture Bharati Mukherjee’s short story “The Management of Grief” acts as a powerful response to the Air India Flight bombing on which many Indo-Canadian passengers were killed. “Management of Grief” focuses on an Indian community residing in Toronto as they deal with the aftermath of the tragic event. The characters are presented with a guideline for the stages of grief and are pressured to follow it: first denial, depression, acceptance, and finally reconstruction. Since the guideline goes against Indian culture each character in the story struggles to confront two different identities presented by separate cultures when forced to deal with death and grief. The narrative of this story is told from the conscience of Indo-Canadian woman Shaila Bhave as she struggles to deal with the loss of her husband and two sons. The opening pages set the tone of community, a strong value in Indian culture as Shaila’s home is filled with various neighbours and families making Indian tea, as well as a representative from the Indo-Canadian Society. All of whom join together with the intention and hope of aiding the victims’ families in their grieving. To further emphasize the strong sense of community, Shaila reflects on the day Kusum and her family moved in across the street. Upon moving, the new family invited the neighbourhood into their home for a housewarming party where they prepared traditional Indian cuisine while their daughter performed a dance. Shaila reflected...
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