...Through life’s difficulties and hardships one could always have a choice, a choice that will lead to his goodness or defeat. Life is never an easy course, but everyone is obliged to be enrolled, some would fail, but who cares? You could repeat it again and again. Failing is not an excuse for one to stop for at any given end is a wall, a wall that we could destroy. A choice, for whatever choice we will be doing one should remember a thing, that it should have him as a beneficiary. Life is nevertheless an endless battle, a battle that only great minds could surpass. Great minds nurtured by experience and few hurtful bumps. Experience and bumps that molded and made them ten times they were before. One should not give up upon defeat. Everyone knows that a fall could be a difficult place for one to stand, but isn’t it great that knowing its difficulty one can still managed to stand. A try is much greater than just accepting a fall. One should keep in mind that, life is a difficult course that even stupid people could manage if we could only learn to try, shed a tear, wipe it all out and stand. Life maybe too cozy yet to vast to be dealt with. We find it hard to focus on what life could be for us. Many people are too narrow to access the pleasures that life’s giving them. They focus on things that are not worth the stress and the hassles that one could be at. Life’s catastrophe never shuts. It’s in constant motion. And it talks about how are we able to make it up until the climax...
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...Native American Teen Health " Nearly one in Native American adolescents has attempted suicide, a rate four times that of other teenagers, according to a study that found alarming health problems on reservations." Suicide has a big affect on Native American teens. Providing more awareness about teen health in the Native American culture, would result in a fewer teen suicide." Native American teenagers/ Youth are planning on taking their life's or they have already took their life's for many reasons. Out of all the races Native American/ Alaskan Natives have the highest risk for teen suicide. In the article " Teen Suicide Statistics" has noted that "77.9% of all suicide are male and females has attempted suicide 3 times as often as males, fire arms are used in 51% of males suicides, also 38% of females suicides are use drugs ( poising) as the method of suicide." Statistics like these have shown many times they have tried to commit suicide. Suicide very's from Native communities to other Native communities around Native country. So many Native people are overwhelmed to be going to funerals...
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...“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” On Love Khalil Gibran What is love? Is it just a plain four-letter word? There is no concrete definition of the word “love”. It maybe just a word, but it can drown you from its deepest meanings. And it is an indefinite argument when we talk about it. Others might say that it is just a fraud, that it does not last long and it only exists in novels and movies. But for me, love is like a blue diamond, finding will be difficult because it’s so rare. And when the moment comes and you finally have it, you will realize that it was worth your sacrifices. The people who have realized the meaning of life have only spoken to those who can understand love, because love is the meaning of life. And very few of us have realized that love is our very flame. It is not the air we breathe, not the food we eat nor the water we drink, it is love: which keeps us not only alive but also gives us a life of beauty, hope, faith, truth, sincerity and millions of other things having a value beyond any price that no money can buy. Khalil Gibran’s “On Love” is an eye-opener for us to take risks; that we must have an optimistic approach towards love and allow ourselves to go with the flow of love. That when it invites us, we should embrace it for it is an extreme of its kind that is rare and pure. We cannot wish for love to reach only a certain measure, or to presume that we can direct the way of its course,...
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...announce that it was up for sale. To be able to cover the liability worth about £1.5 billion, it froze the value of all current with-profit policies and imposed an exit penalty of 5% on withdrawals. Fifteen prospective purchasers looked at the books of the company, but all but one – Prudential – walked away from a deal. The final straw came in December 2000, when Prudential reached the decision not to buy Equitable Life. Following the decision, Equitable doubled the exit penalty for withdrawals to 10% and closed the fund for new investors. Numerous legal actions, investigations, and reports followed. Yet the debacle is still far from over, and new inquiries into this perhaps the most shocking collapse in the insurance industry keep pouring. Equitable Life’s growing problems and policyholders’ growing despair grab headlines in British press almost daily. On December 12, 2003, BBC News ran an article on Ann Berry, 65, a former physiotherapist from West Sussex, who should have been enjoying her retirement. Ann saw her £6,000 pension slashed by nearly a quarter in the past 18 months. "It is very worrying, I did everything the government asked me to do - I saved hard for my retirement," Ann told BBC News Online. "Now my pension is being used by Equitable as a cash cow to pay for promises it couldn't keep." It doesn’t appear things are going to get any better for Ann and many other British retirees: “I have to forgo life's treats - holidays, meals...
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...2000, life appeared awfully inequitable to policyholders of Equitable Life Assurance Company. Equitable Life, the staple of Britain’s pension industry, with over a million policyholders, including a plethora of the biggest British companies, the parliamentary pension fund, the Personal Investment Authority, had no choice left but to announce that it was up for sale. To be able to cover the liability worth about £1.5 billion, it froze the value of all current with-profit policies and imposed an exit penalty of 5% on withdrawals. Fifteen prospective purchasers looked at the books of the company, but all but one – Prudential – walked away from a deal. The final straw came in December 2000, when Prudential reached the decision not to buy Equitable Life. Following the decision, Equitable doubled the exit penalty for withdrawals to 10% and closed the fund for new investors. Numerous legal actions, investigations, and reports followed. Yet the debacle is still far from over, and new inquiries into this perhaps the most shocking collapse in the insurance industry keep pouring. Equitable Life’s growing problems and policyholders’ growing despair grab headlines in British press almost daily. On December 12, 2003, BBC News ran an article on Ann Berry, 65, a former physiotherapist from West Sussex, who should have been enjoying her retirement. Ann saw her £6,000 pension slashed by nearly a quarter in the past 18 months. "It is very worrying, I did everything the government asked me to do - I...
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...success through personal responsibility individuals must take ownership of his or her goals. Prioritizing tasks, such as time management, identifying purpose and goal setting are essential in one’s path to success. Even though there may be outside influences that may change life’s course, personal responsibility is necessary for academic success because every choice made is one’s own responsibility and every individual can decide how to shape he or her future. Personal responsibility is the privilege to make his or her own choices and obligations in life. One would agree with famous author Stephen Covey’s explanation. “Look at the word responsibility - “response-ability” - the ability to choose your response. Highly proactive people recognize that responsibility. They do not blame circumstances, conditions, or conditioning for their behavior. Their behavior is a product of their own conscious choice, based on values, rather than a product of their conditions, based on feeling” (Covey, 1989. Pg81) Personal responsibility involves working on one’s own character and skill development rather than blaming others for situations and circumstances. It means choosing to design a life full of purpose and worth. Academic success refers to one’s level of successfully completed schooling and ability to achieve individual success in curriculum studies. Colin Powell once said, “There are no secrets to...
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...John Lang Professor Johnson ENG 100 10/26/11 Life’s Work Out Through the concept of vanity Mark Doty uses metaphors such as: salt- stain spot (1), weights lifted (9), the bench (4) and hoist nothing that need be lifted (5-6) to help convey the message of what kind of life do you live and what kind of impact you will leave behind. Why do you strive to become an object of desire? Why do you torment yourself for your own vanity? Why do you burden yourself with unnecessary tasks? Mark Doty uses something so ordinary, the gym, to capture the enigma of trying to live a unique life and leave behind a legacy while simultaneously wanting to be accepted or become part of a group. This salt-stain spot marks the place where men lay down their heads (1-3). Mentioned by Mark Doty is this salt-stain spot (1) which can be viewed negatively or positively. To begin with, this salt-stain is written in negative connotation with its intent being that we as human beings have been leaving behind a disarray for society, and generations to come, to clean up. Also, human beings have not been responsible with their lives and cause more harm than good. Another way to look at this stain is in way almost positive, for you can see the “salt-stain spot” (1) from the hard work and dedication from previous generations. The author might intend to portray it as desirable, for one to achieve. This stain seems elusive but desired by most; most want the stain but won’t work to achieve even a sweat. This stain...
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...Self-esteem is a term used in psychology to reflect a person's overall emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent," "I am worthy") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride and shame.[1] Smith and Mackie define it by saying "The self-concept is what we think about the self; self-esteem, is the positive or negative evaluations of the self, as in how we feel about it."[2] Self-esteem is also known as the evaluative dimension of the self that includes feelings of worthiness, prides and discouragement.[3] One's self-esteem is also closely associated with self-consciousness.[4] Self-esteem is a disposition that a person has which represents their judgments of their own worthiness.[5] In the mid-1960s, Morris Rosenberg and social-learning theorists defined self-esteem as a personal worth or worthiness.[6]Nathaniel Branden in 1969 defined self-esteem as "the experience of being competent to cope with the basic challenges of life and being worthy of happiness." According to Branden, self-esteem is the sum of self-confidence (a feeling of personal capacity) and self-respect (a feeling of personal worth). It exists as a consequence of the implicit judgment that every person has of their ability to face life's challenges, to understand and solve problems, and their right to achieve happiness, and be given respect.[7] As a social psychological construct...
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...and continuing evolution of American society’s social normalities and structure. Set in the mid 1920’s, the story reveals undeniable evidence and implication into the reality of social separation between the “sophisticated” and unsophisticated worlds. The story follows one man, Jay Gatsby’s, futile attempt to work his way from the poorly perceived, insignificant, and menial lower class to the so-called “sophisticated” and recognizable group of society, simply to win the favor of a love never lost. As a result of Jay Gatsby’s chase of an unattainable goal and the events that follow, it is evident that although love is a free affair, it can come at a high cost. Ultimately the novel exemplifies the misguided American dream, that all of life’s happiness, desires, and satisfaction can be fulfilled through wealth. Fitzgerald divides the ensemble of characters into two distinct groups, the “sophisticated” and the unsophisticated. Take for instance the valley of the ashes, which symbolizes the most menial facet of society, the hard working blue collar men of industry with no identity and no money, “obscured from sight by an impenetrable cloud.”(Fitz 27) However, the distinction comes not from wealth alone, but rather a temperament of money, or perhaps old money versus new money or no money. This is apparent when Gatsby and Nick, the narrator, converge on the idea that Daisy’s voice “is full of money.”(Fitz 127) Nevertheless, all of Gatsby’s ambitions and hopes are to cross the...
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...pain. The legend rolls on. The way it should be. Beyond the conventional. Safety. Think small. Life’s a journey. Enjoy the ride. Because I’m worth it. Maybe she’s born with it… Feel like a woman. Dangerously entertaining. Oh, the possibilities. It’s something to do with your brain. Live in your world, play in ours. I don’t want to grow up… We keep your promise. Be absolutely sure. Neither rain, nor snow, nor gloom of night stays these couriers from the swift completion of their appointed rounds. Be bullish. We make money the old fashioned way…we earn it. Turning dreams into reality. Membership has its privileges. Don’t leave home without it. There are some things money can’t buy. For everything else, there’s Mastercard. You’re in good hands. Like a good neighbor… See what you’re missing. Think different. Think random. Merrill Lynch Smith Barney Citibank American Express Mastercard Allstate State Farm Insurance Epson printers Mac iPod Shuffle Commercial Slogans List US Army US Air Force McDonald’s Be all that you can be. The Sky’s the limit. - I’m lovin’ it. - We love to see you smile. - You deserve a break today. - Do you believe in magic? Eat Fresh. What you crave. - Have it your way. - Sometimes you have to break the rules. - Think outside the bun. - Yo quiero… - Head for the border It’s better here. Obey your thirst. Melts in your mouth not in your hands. Is it in you? Life’s...
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...Keating vs. Mersault Rousseau’s quotation, “Man is born free yet, everywhere he is in chains” implies that a person is gifted with great possibilities and potential. Unfortunately, the society surrounding that person is responsible for crushing that individual’s essence. Those who refuse to conform to such a society are judged negatively and consequently, feel alienated. Both Keating and Meursault are strangers in a society that wants to dictate their expected behaviour and actions. Society seeks to imprison their individual freedom. Meursault is indifferent and passive to this conventional life that is not worth living. He refuses to be anything but himself, regardless of the price he must pay. In contrast, Keating responds to such a society by actively and passionately trying to make a difference by nurturing each person to be free to reach his or her potential and essence. Society seeks to chain these two free individuals into conforming to ways that stifle their individuality and freedom, but the key lies in their choice of response in dealing with such a society, regardless of its negative judgement. Both Keating and Meursault distinguish themselves from the masses that seek to chain their spirit. Meursault is an outsider who feels very removed from his surroundings. His reactions are very different from the conventional norms and society judges him negatively. The prosecutor describes him as a man “whose heart is so empty that it forms a chasm which...
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...self examination includes an essential element that becomes Socratic dialogue. Dialoguing with a close friend, a spouse a skilled psychotherapist or spiritual advisers help reveal those blind spot we cannot see by our selves. This quote is from Socrates believed that the purpose of human life was personal and spiritual growth. We are unable to grow towards greater understanding of our true nature unless we take time to examine and reflect upon our life. Examining our life reveals pattern of behavior unless we become aware of these pattern, much of our life is unconscious repetition however many times we are too busy with our life and work to contemplate fully our life’s pattern. According to Socrates we need to stop and evaluate so that we can spot our patterns of destructive, otherwise your life is simply not worth living. Through our generation, mankind has been asking themselves what is the purpose of life. And obviously, it would not be easy for one alone to answer or explain what the meaning of life is. One’s life is monotonous it is meaningless and it is not monotonous if it has a purpose, a target...
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...your brain. For example you can be a millionaire or a pilot living in Italy or maybe you want to travel to space anything you want the machine will give you. The key question “should you plug into this machine for life, preprogramming your life’s experience?” (Nozick 644) I say you shouldn’t plug into this machine because you shouldn’t use a machine to make you happy if you want something you should make it happen or if not be content with life. Life isn’t going to be perfect but it’s worth it to actually go through life trying to strive your goals and enjoying time with your family instead of plugging into a machine for an experience that will only last for two years. It’ll only feel good for the moment you’re doing it until you have to re-enter the world and realize that experience wasn’t worth it. I wouldn’t want to give my life up for two years to be in a tank just for an experience I could either try to achieve or live without. There’s so much more to life that you can make happen rather than using a machine to make you happy for a short period of time. Nozick gives us 3 reasons as to why we shouldn’t plug into the Experience machine relating to the key question “should you plug into this machine for life, preprogramming your life’s experiences?’. The first reason is “we want to do certain things, and not just have the experience of doing it” by this he means we want to have something that last instead of just having a one moment to experience it. For example, if you choose...
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... Her Mother & I ----- Charge PJ Brian and Tammy, Nothing could be easier than to simply say the words “I love you.” Yet nothing could be more difficult than to live those words out, day by day. What you promise to one another today will have to be renewed tomorrow. And all the tomorrow’s hereafter. Today, you become one husband and wife, yet tomorrow you must decide to fulfill the promise you make today. God ordained marriage long ago and gave it a special place in all of life. God chose to establish marriage of 1st importance in Genesis 2:24-25, and built all of life upon this institution called marriage. And He built it on love, true love which is giving, caring, sharing, and placing worth upon one another. Brian and Tammy in Genesis 2 God said, “It is not good for man to be alone.” And so He fashioned woman for man – to complete him. For God chose a rib from man’s side. He did not choose a bone from man’s head so that woman would rule over him. Nor did God choose a bone from man’s foot that woman would be trampled under man. Rather, God choose a bone from man’s side there she would be next to him, located under his arm where he would protect her and next to his heart where he would love her. You are to love one another no matter the cost and to care for each other in good and difficult times. Paul said in Phi. 2:3-4 ”Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one...
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...he wants what has already been made - he cannot see for himself how to make his own snowman. The thief is morally confused - he sees "not taking what you want" as "giving in", as if you might as well be dead as accept conventional morality. Bit he alienates us by saying that he enjoyed taking the snowman because he knew that the theft would upset the children. "Life's tough" is said as if to justify this. The sequel comes when the thief tries to reassemble the snowman. Not surprisingly (snow is not a permanent material) "he didn't look the same", so the thief attacks him. All he is left with is "lumps of snow". This could almost be a metaphor for the self-defeating nature of his thefts. The thief tells us boastfully that he "sometimes" steals things he doesn’t need, yet it seems that he always steals what he does not need and cannot use. He breaks in our curiosity, "to have a look" but does not understand what he sees. He is pathetic, as he seems anxious to make a mark of some kind, whether leaving a "mess" or steaming up mirrirs wih his breakth. He casually mentions how he might "pinch" a camerca - it is worth little to him, but much to those whose memories it has recorded. The final stanze...
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