In the book, dating secrets of the ten commandants, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach says the first thing to keep in mind if you are looking for a spot of successful dating is to make your date feel special. And yet there are times when all that and more leave you ‘dateless’.

Could it be that you are trying too hard? Are you a desperate lover? Read on to find out:Scenario 1: you are at a party when this hot chick bumps in to you accidentally, smiles and says ‘sorry’.What you do: you flash an equally brilliant smile, run after her and try some not-so-sophisticated pick up lines and ask for their phone number. They decline not so politely and move away, making you look like a fool.Scenario 2: you are with a blind date that happens to be gorgeous and you feel the chemistry rocking. All you need to do is to play your part with finesse and she will be yours.What you do: but you chatter away non-stop, in a bid to impress her, forgetting that you should listen too. You never see them again.Scenario 3: you are at nightclub dancing your blues away when someone who is a terrific dancer catches your attention.What you do: you don’t know the meaning of …show more content…
They are not too kicked about all this unwanted attention but you are not one to take ‘no’ for an answer. So, you promptly get down on all fours, trying to please them. But all that happens is that you are left cashless and lonely.Scenario 4: last