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It is funny how two poems can go hand in hand but not be related in any way. Such is the case with the poems "Dream Deferred" and "When I Was One and Twenty". They speak the same kind of concept in terms of life goals. In "When I Was One and Twenty", the old wise man says not to give your heart away so young because you will regret it. Whether he is talking about having your heart broken by someone at a young age or giving up on your dreams to settle down isn't known. If a person gives up on their dreams or puts them on the back burner to pursue a relationship, it is the same as a raisin in the sun. Although a raisin is a dried up grape that is still full of nutrition, it becomes hard and useless after a while. Such would be the case with life goals, if you put them on hold to pursue a relationship, they become useless over time and forgotten. If a young person enters a relationship while in college lets say, their focus is no longer on school really. Most want to spend as much time as possible with the other. As the writer looks back upon himself in "When I Was One and Twenty", he basically says that he should've listened to the old man's advice. He is only twenty two at that point and already regrets the decision he made to give his heart away. There are plenty of people that will tell you that they had given up on their dreams to continue a relationship. Whether it be letting a dream job be passed up or an opportunity to do something they have always wanted to. Some people might have the perfect relationship as one of their dreams. Giving your heart away to that other person could end up hurting you. A lot of people wear their hearts on their sleeves in relationships, and it ends up backfiring. It then ruins that person and prevents them from giving their next relationship their all. That in turn can also hurt a person's dreams. There are a lot of ifs in this world, and every decision has a consequence. Let's say that a person at the age of twenty one decides not to give their heart away, they could be missing out on the best thing that could ever happen to them. Simply because of one persons bad experience, they are telling him not to give away his heart. This essentially could be the same as telling them not pursue their dreams. If a person wants a relationship and wants to settle down then they should give the other their heart. Much like a dream, a person should go for it 100%. There are some people that will tell you that the relationship they chose when they were young ruined their dreams. That they put everything on hold to start a family and left school and that it wasn't worth it and they regret it. There are others, however, that will tell you that they wouldn't have it any other way. That they could have had the dream job with the dream house and dream car that everybody wants but they chose to take a different path. Everything that happens in our lives molds us into the people we become and to look back at your life and have regret is not something you should do. If a person has a bad relationship and says they wish they would have never met the other, it shows ignorance in the sense that they wouldn't be the person they are if they wouldn't have met them. People learn from mistakes and that is the key to not looking back with regret. Nobody knows how things could have went if they chose a different path and I think that if you dwell on that thought then you can drive yourself crazy. So chase after your dreams and wear your heart on your sleeve because anything that is worth doing is worth overdoing.

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