Gender Differences

Many people growing up have noticed the language barrier between the male and female genders, which reflects upon their actions and everyday lifestyle in a civilized society. Men have always been aggressive with their actions while women have been known to be emotional. The gender difference has been a controversy for many centuries and many linguistics have studied and nearly found the answer. But what explains this phenomenon and what differentiates the two genders by how they act and how they talk? This essay will explain the basic general differences between the two genders and how it has to do with the world, in context with the in class reading, and my own experiences in my community. Do you consider that gender differences and how men and women talk effects lifestyle and the way women are treated according to Lakoff? Throughout history, men have always been depicted as the gender that has the right of way through their actions by the way they look and talk. Men are known to be fierce, strong, and stand as boss-like figure. In the past century, men have a distinct way of talking. Men are more prone to threatening to get what they want such as being a manager in a business or even in a relationship, as men are known to be power hungry. Another distinctive trait about how men talk would be that their vocabulary is not as descriptive as women and is less subtle. Men usually talk in a low pitch tone, which compliments their manly-ness and when upset, they talk in an aggressive manner. One trait that is noticeable would be that men are more straightforward when they talk, such as using words like great, cool, neat, okay, and fine. At San Francisco State University through field research, I realized that men are very open with their choice of words and demonstrate their dominance over women. A man said, “Where the fuck did Nina go!” and “I