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Jealousy

Jealousy is one of the most prevalent areas of psychological ignorance about yourself, about others and more particularly, about relationship. People think they know what love is and they really don’t know. And their misunderstanding about love creates jealousy. By `love' people mean a certain kind of monopoly, some possessiveness without understanding a simple fact of life: that the moment you possess a living being you have killed him. Life cannot be possessed. You cannot have it in your fist. If you want to have it, you have to keep your hands open. But the thing has been going on a wrong path for centuries it has become ingrained in us so much that we cannot separate love from jealousy. They have become almost one energy. For example, you feel jealous if your lover goes to another woman. You are disturbed by it now, but I would like to tell you that if you don't feel jealous you will be in much more trouble then you will think you don't love him, because if you loved him you should have felt jealous. Physically, it can strain your body trying to fill in the jealously, such as getting hurt trying to get over it. Mentally, your mind can become obsessed on it and in the end never be able to recover. And emotionally or spiritually this can leave devastating effects on both your state of being and the being of others around you. Therefore, jealousy is not great emotion. Also Children compete with one another in their attention-drawing behavior from near and dear ones and members who dominate the family as leader. Anticipatory or actual loss of affection on the part of the child in compared to another who is about to get much attention evokes jealousy. It may also be expressed directly through shouting, temper tantrum, hitting, biting, kicking and misbehaving being immodest. It may also be

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