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My memory can only place certain moments of that day into a sequence that makes any sort of sense in my head. I recollect the fluttering, fluorescent light bulbs that seem to put me into some sort of morbid spotlight for all to see, and the smell, the sterile smell of a life ended. Much like that of a movie, I saw everything in that hopeless sort of slow motion as if to somehow slow down the reality of what I was to become of me and my family. The early morning of March 24, 2006 was nothing if not the one-day that will forever be seared into my brain. Much like the ritual of an owner branding its animal, I will forever be marked with the horror of that morning.

I was always a very happy child with a great family and the privilege of being surrounded by loved ones at all hours of the day. My mother is an incredibly hard working woman and after school everyday my sister and I would get to spend time with our cousins at my grandparent’s house until our parents got off of work. These memories can only be described as the pinnacle of my childhood, wrapped in a warm blanket of love and delicious after school snacks. The two younger grandchildren of the family were my sister Megan and my cousin Jonathan while my older cousin Kerra and I were the leaders of the pack. While I’d love to say that I had as much authority as Kerra did, she was a whole six years older than me and with that said, I was only second in command.

Nobody complained about the hierarchy of the situation because we all had a mutual love and respect for each other that I would like to think is very rare for children that were all around the same age. Of course as life went on, Kerra became a teenager leaving my pack and me in the dust for boyfriends and Friday night hangouts. There was no animosity about the situation but I longed for the companionship that we all once had and would drink

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