...true. In the end we cannot blame anyone but ourselves for the way our life turns out. As I began writing this paper, I really had to think about how I felt about my own personal responsibility. I had to consider how my decisions affect those that are in my personal circle. Realizing the choices that I make now or in the future could have a paramount effect on my family and closes friends. Yes, I am responsible for how others view me and take into account the person that I have come to be. Being personally responsible means; being accountable for everything that happens in my life, including my actions, attitude and the decisions I make about such things as my health, how I handle myself on my job, being a good parent and being an excellent student. Personal responsibility also means that for every cause there is an effect, every action has a reaction. Is this reaction positive or negative? Well, that depends solely on how one handles the situation life throws your way. My true happiness depends on the degree to which I recognize and accept the consequences of my actions and realize that each action has a direct impact on whether I reach my goals, accomplish my dreams and make my life meaningful. I have recently decided to take personal responsibility for my life and finish what I started so many years ago. I always promised myself when I had finished raising my son I would return to school and complete my degree. That moment has arrived and I am being responsible in...
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...Alan: I would like to hear and talk about your experience about what happen during the riots. As well as, what types of emotions that you felt during that expires? Ana: Out of all things that has happen to me, the Rodney king riots was scariest monument in my life because of all the burning houses, all the violence done to to others, and the robberies done to store all around Los Angeles. It made me fear for my life, for the fact that I was near all the violence that happen in the area and it frighten me because I would of died due to two things. One being the burning houses and buildings that were around area because of all the people throwing flaming Molotov to them, which either cause them to explode due to the gas lines inside or collapse on itself due to the flames. Sometime these buildings and houses would collapse on to the streets making it even more dangerous or the fire would spread to neighboring structure and burn them. Another was the people that were participating in the riots because these people are so absorbed into the violence that is happening that you wouldn't know if they start attacking you or others. Making you think on every action that you do, so you wouldn't attract their attention. Alan: What was most significant thing you saw when this was happening?...
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...Must-Have Ingredients For Flat Ironing Natural Hair Beyonce’s Waist Length Box Braids The Pros and Cons of Mini Twists for Natural Hair 45NATURAL HAIR CARE PROTECTIVE STYLING by Chinwe – January 31, 2014 Share Button Pin It minitwist5 (Circa 2010) By Chinwe of Hair and Health Mini twists are essentially tiny twists, much smaller than the diameter of a pencil. In some cases, mini twists are so small that the hair may appear loose rather than twisted. THE GOOD: Mini twists last longer — anywhere from three to six weeks — than larger twists. Because they are so small, they tend not to frizz and age as quickly. This is great news for those who want to leave their natural hair alone for several weeks at a time. Not only do mini twists last longer, they also allow for more versatility in styling. Because they are so small, it is much easier to achieve a range of styles than with larger twists. A lot of the styles can mimic those on loose natural hair. minitwist1 (In 2013) THE NOT SO GREAT: Mini twists can take hours to a day or two to install or take down. This can be a challenge if you have to be somewhere or you just do not have the time or patience. In terms of helping with patience, watching a few movies or television shows can help pass the time. When it comes to needing to be somewhere, some naturals prefer to start their mini twists in the front or along the perimeter of their hair so that they can “fake the finished look” if they...
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...(2014). They write about a very interesting topic, relating smell to sexual desire. They discuss that research has shown that people can detect different odors and millions of them. This type of research has been used by companies such as perfume manufactures to stimulate the sense of smell and make fragrances that claim to be sexually provoking. From my own personal experience, I am often attracted to the smell of men’s cologne. If I walk by a man and get a sniff of his cologne, it will typically cause me to take a second glance, to get a...
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...Do you think about the impact of what you say or how you act before you speak or act? Almost always 3. Do you do everything you can to prevent the reinforcement of prejudices, including avoiding using negative stereotypes when you speak? Almost always 4. Do you encourage people who are not from the dominant culture to speak out on their concerns, and do you respect those issues? Frequently 5. Do you speak up when someone is making a racial, sexual, or other derogatory remarks, or is humiliating another person? Almost always 6. Do you apologize when you realize you may have offended someone with inappropriate behavior or comments? Almost always 7. Do you try to know people as individuals, not as representatives of specific groups, and welcome different types of people into your peer group? Almost always 8. Do you do everything that you can to understand your own background and try to educate yourself about other backgrounds, including different communication styles? Frequently 1. Did your score surprise you? It did not surprise me at all. I have been in the Army for over twenty years and I have worked with people from all over the world, in places all over the world. The military has always taken pride in being a diverse group and have really good training programs to teach everyone on the dynamics of having such a diverse group, and how to succeed. 2. Do you agree with what your score says about you? I agree with what my score says about me. I take pride...
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...Nathan Hale 12/14/06 Urban Inventions Refuge We all have it. It’s a part of everyday life and it wears down on us. The strain is what wears down on us slowly whittling away years of our lives. This being the case, why are we not already dead? The answer is relaxation, try it. No really, right now, put down this paper, close your eyes and take a deep breath in through your nose, hold it for eleven seconds, now slowly and as quietly as possible exhale through your mouth. Did you feel your shoulders drop? That’s a lot of tension you just let go of. Believe it or not you’ve been carrying with you all day. We should take thirty second out of our day every chance we get to do this because we need to relax or unwind. This is an example of a refuge in its simplest form. Refuge is known as many different things; retreat, vacation, or break. The list goes on and on. We live such high anxiety lives that we need to take breaks periodically. The real question is how? There’s a place in everyone’s fantasy that they long to visit the mountains, a room in a relative’s house, a tropical island. These places are individual and beautiful. And just like beauty, it’s in the eye of the beholder as to what their refuge is I have many refuges, some real and some imaginary. For example, one of my imaginary refuges is an island in the middle of a large lake. But this is no ordinary lake; it’s located on top of and in the middle of a volcano’s crater. And when I sit on my beach house’s...
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...Complications of a Bad Neighbor-Solve a Problem Paper Rhonda Mayer PHL/458 September 2, 2012 Tracy Colcord At some point everyone encounters a problem or issue in their lifetime and the most difficult part of it could be finding a solution. According to the book “ The Art of Thinking” by Ryan Ruggiero, the greatest difficulty people have in thinking about problems and issues is evaluating the various solutions and choosing the best one. Growing up most of us desire to have a family and a nice comfortable home. Taking the first step to buying a house is a difficult decision and most couples goes through a lot of planning when preparing to make this commitment. Aside from financial support, searching for the right house takes a lot a lot of time. When the house is found that’s desired the next step is to investigate the neighborhood. Many times this step is omitted but it may be the most important step to making a final decision because the neighborhood as a whole is the place which people invest, raise their children and live for many years to come. Making sure to cover all needed steps to buying a home is most crucial for peace and happiness to be united inside and outside the home. When I bought my first home in Georgia in 1998, my husband and I were in a hurry to purchase a home for our family of three. I was in my early twenties and was very inexperienced in buying a new home. After several months of looking at multiple houses which were shown by my cousin...
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...In Frodo and Sam's case however, there is more than one. The two hobbits' went from running from the horrible Orcs, to traveling through dangerous mountain ranges and forests filled with giant spiders, to end up "befriending" a delirious used-to-be Hobbit named Gollum who is so obsessed with the ring, or as he says, "the precious," he will do anything to have it (Tolkien, 1967). Even though the two had trying times, their journey helps relay the message that difficult is not impossible. Unfortunately, physical obstacles were not the only problem Frodo and Sam faced. The ring that Frodo is carrying serves as a symbol of temptation because it has the ability to make one the ruler of everything (Gilligan, 2011). The burden that it shows on Frodo is obvious as he is...
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...Preparation For this negotiation, I had prepared my BATNA (Best Alternative or a plan B in case my plan A failed) as mentioned by Fisher, Ury, and Patton (1991, p. 100), since every negotiator has a BATNA including the opponent. As a station owner, I was very clear about my interests in selling the gas station, I had done my market research, and I also knew “why” Taxoil was interested in the station and that they were looking to expand. As stated by Sebinus in his article, I was trying to understand the other side’s perspective. Based on all the calculations, I had come up with a target and reservation point. I knew that I needed at least $553 K (reservation price) to meet my expenses including all taxes that I had to pay on capital gains and some money in reserve that I will need when I came back from the trip since I will not have any job and I will need money for house, car, insurance etc. For meeting all the expenses I needed at least $75K in the bank for myself and my spouse on our return from our boat trip after 2 years. I knew that “not” all negotiations will result into an agreement; I had come up with a list of potential negotiating points and tried to place a value on each of these issues and thinking about what value the Taxoil representative will place on these issues. I knew that property value had been soaring high due to the activity in the port area. I had an estimate that it would cost Texoil at least $650 K to build a new gas station. Since I had the...
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...“Mommy, I’m done, what’s next?” I respond, “Thank you Mari, you are such a big helper but I had a long day so it is best we wind down.” Instantly her mood shifted. Mari was torn into pieces. She loves to help me and I admire her willingness. Being only three years old at the time, it’s hard for Mari to understand the answer “no”. Her face clearly showed disappointment with tears streaming down her face. Her caramel skin, thick dark brown hair in two oversized ponytails, with pink lace clips in the front looks so adorable. I dread seeing her in dismay, but tonight was not the best night for activities. My mind was overwhelmed with burdens, frustration, and agony. I was crying internally but I couldn’t make it noticeable. I plead my case to my daughter as I had to slightly pull her to the bathroom. In a matter of time she calmed down and begin to pout. As we enter her Princess theme bathroom, I begin to run warm water inside the tub for a bubble bath. After the tub fills, I help her inside. Her little body feels light as a feather as I sit her down. She begins to play with her pink sponge and yellow rubber duck for a while. Splashing water using the duck...
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...The beauty of nursing is that there are no limits to where you can go and no limits as to what you can do. The possibilities are endless. Post Graduation and Future Plans Immediately after graduating from nursing school, soon after passing the NCLEX exam and taking a mini vacation, I would like to begin my career as an active duty army nurse. I am currently in the Army Reserve; however, I am not in the ROTC program. Because I am not in the ROTC program, which may inevitably make becoming a nurse in the army more of a difficult task. If by some unfortunate chance I cannot become a nurse in the army, I would like to begin my career in critical care or the emergency department. However, my preference would be the emergency department. I think...
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...was December 21, 2013, and I have only had my license for a little over a month; it is moving day. We have two vehicles, a five-speed CJ-7 jeep and a truck-not a small one either. It is a diesel, and only two people know how to drive it, my uncle and I. I do not know how to drive the jeep so I have to drive the truck. I am transporting my mom, three restless dogs, a truck bed with all my stuff under a camper shell, and myself. Everyone knows you can never predict the weather in Colorado, well you cannot predict the weather traveling through the Navajo Reservation or Utah either. This trip, I would have to say is the best adventure and trip that I have ever been on weather wise. We are about 20 to 30 minutes out of town, the dogs have not...
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...PART ONE This paper will focus on two aspects of my life that I am very passionate about - my ongoing pursuit of higher education and my work in the humanitarian sector. I have focused on these two areas because becoming a superstar takes more than a diploma (White, 21). It requires the merger of knowledge and action. Abu Bakr, the first Muslim Caliph, is credited with saying “without knowledge, action is useless and knowledge without action is futile”. I believe that combining knowledge and action is a key element in achieving ‘Superstar’ status as described in Professor White’s book, The Superstar Roadmap: How Ordinary People Build Extraordinary Careers. In the following pages, I will relate personal experiences with Dr. White’s Superstar Roadmap and explore personal mastery of the nine steps. Deep inside, I have always felt an insatiable need for education. I have recognized its importance and have spent considerable time reading from the best books, attending formal courses, and informally seeking out dynamic authors and lecturers. In addition, I have always know that someday I would like to start a family and that I will need to be a good example to my children. One of many ways that I can demonstrate the importance of education to them is to be a living example of the principles I hope to teach them. The pursuance of education has not been easy for me and has often been inconvenient but when I listen to my heart and try to act on those feelings, I know that pursuing...
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...the document. Sources are properly credited according to accepted standards for professional publications. I also certify that this paper was prepared by me for this purpose. For my mini venture project, I was originally going to market baked goods and sell them at the farmer’s market on Saturday, May 15. However, due to a lack of vendor spots and my roommates having to work, my initial business plan ceased to begin. Instead, I partnered up with Ben Bergen and we developed an advertising business called B & L Advertising. Our company’s main goal was to give local merchants more exposure by going out and promoting their businesses around main attractions in the city; the farmer’s market and the busy downtown core. Our team made up of Ben and myself, along with my roommate Eryn and Ben’s friend Tracy proceeded to walk around downtown Halifax last Saturday wearing bright red t-shirts promoting “The Daily Grind”, “Bookmark”, “Sweet Jane’s”, “Ambience”, and “Atlantic News.” The following paragraphs will be portraying a few lessons that I learned while being in business with Ben: Take advantage of comparative advantage: When working in a partnership, you will be a lot more efficient if you take into account each others strengths and use them to your advantage. In our case, Ben had a lot more success than I did while dealing with the businesses, so consequently he became in charge of building up our clientele and acting as a liaison between both parties. I on the...
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...Joseph M. Cotoia ENG-105 English Composition December 5,2010 Grand Canyon University How can one’s life be affected by Society Most of us were raised going to church, taught that following the way of God was the right way and sinning was a problem. I am a Catholic/Christian and for me it is hard to follow in the footsteps of my Savior. There is so much temptation in this life how can one not be swayed away from what is right. I attend and live at Grand Canyon, and as a part of trying to build a community and lifestyle we have designated people to help portray that better lifestyle but even they are corrupt. Such examples would be life leaders on campus (Mini Bible study leaders), RA’s (Selected few who are in charge of halls and making sure nothing is wrong and if assistance is needed you call an RA), and of course the Worship bands, prayer groups, etc. Each person goes through an interview process and within the interview process a question is asked. It stated: “How is your relationship with the Lord? Please give a paragraph description on how your relationship with Christ began, is growing and how you are showing his love to others?” Well wrote a testimony for this question and explained how my relationship with the Lord began, and etc. It was decent along with the other 300 people who were interviewed and hired for whatever position they applied for. Point being we have all failed at following in the footsteps of the Lord. I play...
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