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I am the youngest child of the youngest daughter and youngest son, which, if one ascribes to stereotypes, means I’m spoiled. Luckily, I’ve had the blessing of a wonderful mother who taught me to take responsibility for my own life and made me realize that I need to work if I want something. Although, I am lucky. Or fortunate, or blessed, or whichever word people use to describe being born into a good life. I have a stable homelife, all of my necessities, a car, friends, close family, and I work well within a school environment. I’m not trying to discount my efforts either. I just feel that it’s important for me to recognize that I’m here because a combination of my environment, my family, and my own efforts. One part doesn’t contribute any …show more content…
She studied longer, had to learn and relearn the information that didn’t stay in her head long, but she was willing to put in the work. She set high personal standards for her high school and college life, but also sets high standards for he r life now. As teacher and a mom she somehow balances between caring for her second graders and caring for her family. I feel my mother passed on her desire to achieve to me, along with some other traits that make us very similar individuals. We both want to please people, will step up when needed (but are perfectly willing to work under leadership as well), and that, while sometimes shy, we should never be ashamed of who we are. My Mother, more than anyone else, has built an unbreakable foundation for me to build my life …show more content…
Elementary school offered a place to build a foundation for the rest of my education, where teachers seemed to know everything and ideas were new and creativity encouraged. I remember my third grade teacher, Mrs.Ellis, who seemed to have achieved so much. Shells and trinkets collected from across the world, stories of experience and adventure, and a comfort in her own skin that-while off putting to some adults- charmed and inspired my childhood self. Intermediate school and Junior High shoed me that not all teachers are perfect, and that intrinsic motivation can keep one going when the extrinsic motivation falters. This exposure of imperfection als helped me appreciate the teachers who could push students to achieve highly. My 6th grade english teacher showed me the importance of time management when the teacher insisted on us learning not just how to write but how to manage one’s self, a lesson that has admittedly lost some of it’s influence in my senior

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