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The Amish; The plain People
Candace Johnson
ANT101: Introduction to Cultural Anthropology
Instructor: Mario Tovar
April 8, 2013

The Amish; The plain people
We all know the Amish as a society that is rolling around in horses pulling buggies. The Amish are best known as living a quiet life. Also living a religious to the unseen and unspoken media and scenery to foreign culture. This society lives a tight ship and the children do not go past the 8th grade. This is because the parents fear the children will gain insight on modern life, leaving them wondering what the modern world is like.
The Amish put a whole new meaning to horse power. For many years the Amish have been employing horse driven buggies for hundreds of years. With all of the changes that have gone on in society today the Amish are still work as hard as their forefathers did hundreds of years ago. Farms and family are a very big priority in the Amish culture second to God that is. They are very devout to the word of God and in their faith. The Amish are a culture that takes very serious to biblical commands and separate themselves from all other things in the world. They say that worldliness can keep them from being close with God and can introduce bad influences that can lead to destructive behavior to themselves and the community that they have all worked so hard to create. There is a group of elders that are called “older order.” In this group they do not permit electricity or phones in the homes they live in. The Amish do not permit these functions along with radio, and television because it helps them keep focus on farming and family verses worrying out the modern life. These people prefer farming a way of life. They believe that life can be maintained if in a rural environment.
You will often see the Amish with their buggies on local streets. These traditional groups wear plain clothing styles which brought the name “The plain people.” The older woman of the Amish wear modest dresses made from solid color fabric. The sleeves are long along with the skirt (not shorter than halfway between the floor and the knees.) The Amish have capes and an apron that are fastened with pins or snaps. The tradition is that the women never cut their hair, they put it in a bun on the back of their head. You will not see them with a bun on the top of the head as we wear today in our modern world. With the buns on the women’s head you will notice that they have a thing that is called the prayer this is white if you are married and a black one if you are single. The women are not a loud to wear jewelry. The Amish men and boys are more traditional as well still wearing solid color clothes such as suits, straight-cut coats without lapels, board fall trousers, suspenders, black socks and black shoes, with a black or straw broad-brimmed hat. They wear these types of clothes because they believe that it encourages humility and separation from the world. Many think that the clothing they wear is a costume, but it is and expression of their faith.
Now in our society we continue school long after the 8th grade and even continue on to college. Today we have books and we are able to read along and take notes that follow the teacher’s slide shows. Not the Amish, the teachers may write on the chalkboard for a long as five minutes, with their backs turned to their pupils, and the students keep working on school tasks with no distractions. (Marlow, Edger). Amish have a very close relationship when dealing with school and home. When the parents are asked how they rear their child, they refer to the old proverb: “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from that way.” Amish Parents tend to show model behavior. Parents present the pupils with powerful example of their work ethic. According to Ediger, while visiting the school there was no signs of children getting punished for bad behavior nor was there any rebuking pupils for misbehavior. Ediger stated that, it almost appears as if each pupil has a “built-in something” from being diligent. There is no electricity in the classroom that rules out the use of audiovisual aids for the students. The use of the audiovisuals would violate the Amish commandment prohibiting “engraving images.” (Marlow, Edgier) Amish teachers frown on inductive learning because they already know the answer for the question posed by the pupils. A certain style of dress for boys and girls in the classroom distinguishes the Older Order Amish from other society. For seventh and eighth-grade pupils, history is studied as a separate subject. The Amish pupils grow up in a concrete not an abstract world. The children assist in farm work at a young age, beginning at age six, by helping with garden work and chores. Farm chores involve feeding the livestock before and after school.
There are roles that the Amish people follow. Women, children and men all have roles that they fulfill every day. Many treatments of plain groups, such as the Older Order Amish, disregard gender and associated theory, preferring instead to concentrate on limited descriptions of marriage, motherhood, and housework. In the Amish society women are expected to marry, have children and submit to their husband’s will. Meaning that there is no divorce. That is something we see here every day in our society. Unlike the roles of some of our women in this day and age, Amish women are responsible for the care of the children and the household all the time. It is very rare that the mother works outside the household. Her household tasks are as follows; cooking, cleaning, sewing, gardening and maintaining the general welfare of the family. The Amish men is generally the spiritual head of household and sits at the head of the table when it is meal time. Once the meal is over the women and young ladies work around the house while the father and young boys work in the fields and workshops. This allowing many of them to work closely allow the children to be instructed in the way of their Amish forebears, this way they learn all the necessary skills and customs for the Amish ways. Often times the fathers are forced to travel very far for work in other cities and factories. When there are children in the Amish community it is necessary to have multiple children to help out on the farm. When children are born there is an announcements from an Amish paper illustrates the gender roles of farm children. Example “Born to Brother Menno’s a little dishwasher named Katie” or “Enos ys are the parents of a little woodchopper born last week” (Kraybill & Olshan).
The Amish are very into the faith of the lord. Thus leading to very strict gender roles. Meaning they take literal instruction from the bible. Amish women do not question the submissive role in which they are cast because they believe that their submission is consistent with divine order of things. “The head of every man is Christ, and the head of every women is man” (l Corrintheans 11:5). In Amish marriage women are instructed to “Submit yourself unto your husbands as unto the lord” (Ephesian 5:22). “A women should learn in quietness and full submission” (Timothy 2:11). Men as well as the women are taught to practice humility and aggression is tempered by belief in non-violence. Men are taught to love and respect their wives. “So ought to mean to love their wives as their own bodies” (Ephesians 5:28). All of these facts show that Amish women are valued in Amish society. Amish women when they get married are not “given away” by her father to the future husband, as is often done in a non-Amish weddings. Instead the man and the women walk into the doors together. In the Amish society men and women are taught that men and women are created equal, but not being equal in worth does not mean being the same in calling.
The Amish have different methods of medical healings when they are sick do to the lack of finances. According to Linda L. Graham the practical aspects of Amish theology have been sorely tested in recent years. Amish traditionally farm. However deceasing availability of affordable land and the poor financial return on small farms displace many young men into non-agricultural activities to support themselves and their families (Kraybill, 1989; 1994). In all areas of life and decision-making, the Amish strive for consensus within the church. The church is dictated by the capacity for Amish families to meet comfortably in one’s home for worship. According to Linda L. Graham, internal tensions and conflicts among the Amish are common and the issues as familiar as those found in any community. Nevertheless, they are likely to present a united front to the world, including healthcare providers. Linda L. Graham states that this fundamental difference in worldview explains at least some paradoxical behaviors. For example, Amish use horse-drawn buggy as a primary vehicle. This serves as a natural restriction on travel, lest the family and community become too scattered. Further, the Amish perceive homicides, even accidental death, as a horrible sin. If external healthcare was restricted they would continue to use things like herbs and traditional remedies. The Amish are not familiar with medical advanced medical procedures that we have today. It may seem difficult, if not impossible to meet the needs of the Amish in the modern, harried healthcare setting (Linda L. Grahram).
The Amish as we know roll in horse buggies. The Amish are best known as living a quiet life. It is not like the show that you see on the Discovery Channel about the Amish. The Amish are not into taking money from the government. This is what we assume the Amish are like, but many have not looked into what is behind the methods and values of this society. They are a very close together culture that teaches their children the values in life. Meaning that as they get older they are able to carry on the tradition of their forefathers. An 8th grade education is considered to be adequate within a parochial school framework. When it comes to religion, the Amish conduct all religious services in the home of a fellow member of society. The dress code for the Amish are not costumes as we call them, it is an expression of their faith. The Amish are taught that women and man are created equally. Amish believe that traditional ways are best. They are also believers in not evaluating other human beings. It has been told that dolls of the young children have no faces so that they are not able to judge the features that one may have. The Amish also shun individuals who leave the fold. Large families are the ideal, with six to ten children in a family. Due to not having electricity they Amish don’t have electrical washers and dryers that we have in our homes today.

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Graham, Linda L; Cates, James A. Health care and sequested cultures a perspective from the old order Amish. Journal of Multicultural Nursing and Health. 8.3; 53-59. Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com.proxy-library.ashford.edu
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