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When Dad is a Gone……
So, BIOLOGICALLY we know what a father is….What happens when things break down, and the father is not present? Here are some samples of things from various popular media that have been written or performed relating to fatherhood:
Here’s a clip from Will Smith’s Fresh Prince. Notice HOW MANY HITS this clip gets and take some time to read the comments people make below. The clip and the comments really tell you how some people feel about absentee fathers: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxulantPiXI
It was very easy to find people writing poetry about their fathers: (1) Tupac’s classic Dear Mama: Pay attention to how he talks about his mother vs. how he talks about his father. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byyWQEYzS2A (Lyrics are in the description so you can follow along). (2) J. Ivy does a spoken word poem about his father. What do you notice? Are you starting to hear a pattern in what people say? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGqk2dHiVAo&feature=related (3) So far the examples have all been by African-American artists and poets: Here’s one from a white male band called Good Charlotte. A little background, the lead singer and I think the guitarist are brothers and their dad left their family—just left without a trace, so this song is written by them to their dad who left them. Try to get past the nasally sound of his voice: Notice how the people in the audience react and read some of the comments below the song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2paQgPKlc4Y

Comments about this song from all over the world:

http://www.songfacts.com/detail.php?id=3211

Finally, here are some statistics of what fatherlessness can mean to people:

Statistics: http://www.fatherhood.org/media/consequences-of-father-absence-statistics

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